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Last Longer In Bed Men’s Health

Written By: admin - Mar• 14•12

If there is one thing about having sex that most men would like to improve it is their sexual stamina. Early orgasms plaque millions of men but it is quite simple to last longer in bed.

Here are two ways to stop early orgasm and last longer in bed for men.

1. The pinch technique is a super way to last longer if you have the time to train yourself for a few days. All you need to do is masturbate but don't allow ejaculation to occur, instead just before you do then apply the pinch. You need to use your forefinger and your thumb to pinch the tip of your penis very firmly. After around 30 seconds the ejaculation will have passed and you can carry on. Repeat this several times before you orgasm, after a few attempts you will find that you will be able to ejaculate when YOU want to.

2. Another way to stop early ejaculation is to use a product designed to make men last longer in bed. There are many available such as delay creams and sprays. These are recommended if you have no ejaculatory control whatsoever and can see you lasting from under a minute to 10 minutes. They work by numbing your penis and removing it's sensitivity thus making you last longer.

Both natural and store bought products to stop early ejaculation have their good and bad points. The products are an instant fix but cost a lot of money. The natural methods are permanent cures but take some effort. Of the two I say the natural exercises are the best way to stop early ejaculation because they give you total control and you can last as little or as long as you want.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    Can regular masturbation train you to last long in bed?
    I usually last for an average of 7-8 mins.,but sometimes I can go for about 30-45 mins. of pumpin'. I'm not always on my A-game and I'm fast on the draw sometimes. I've tried to masturbate without any lubricants(lotions, creams,etc.) and when I tried on game day, I end up blowing up early. Yesterday, I whacked off with lotion and it really stimulates a wet vagina and surprisingly I lasted for about 25 minutes. Can masturbation(with lubes) really help you last in bed? Men's Health magazine says that you must still diligently train even if you have a regular sexual partner.

    • ANSWER:
      yes, but if you do it too much it will desensitize you and you wont want to have sex just masterbate, also you could last so long you will get tired and not orgasm at all.

  2. QUESTION:
    Question about penises?
    I just asked this over in men's health wanted to see what the ladies had to say

    So i have an embarrassing question about penises... after having sex with my boyfriend i noticed something and i wanted to know if it was normal. After he came and began to lose his erection i was looking at his penis to see what happens and it began to grow flaccid but instead of drooping downward it just went dead on his stomach. It was kinda creepy because i always thought it would droop downwards when its no longer hard or could this be because he was lying on his back flat on the bed? please don't say i'm too young and shouldn't be having sex if i can't answer my own question because i'm 20 it's just that i lack experience because he's only the 2nd and hopefully last guy i've been intimate with.

    • ANSWER:
      When it's not erect, a penis is soft and floppy, and it'll fall whatever direction gravity pulls it.

      If they're lying on their backs, most mens (soft) penises will lie on their bellies a little more easily than they'll lie between their legs.

  3. QUESTION:
    serious question about very rough sex with husband?
    i have a serious question, it's really a continuation from another question i asked yesterday evening. i have pasted it in. i used the " (appostrophy) to mark the original question and the continuation is below it then.

    "hi.
    i'm 30 and my husband is 42. today we had sex for the first time since december. we were unable to do anything because i had a Coil in and it was causing pain for me and he was able to also feel it during sex. anyway, i had the coil removed on Monday and when we had sex today my husband was litterally totally out of control. it was fun to start with and felt great, but as he was getting closer to climax he got so carried away and even though i told him he was going too deep and it was really hurting me, didn't listen and just kept going until he shot his load. i know that 4 months was a long time, but we had longer periods of abstinence before(due to bleeding during pregnancy and marital problems) but he was never this rough or "ignorant" before. he didn't even seem to hear me when i told him he was hurting me. i'm not quite sure what to think of this now, can it really happen to a man that he honestly gets so carried away that he hears nothing. i didn't get cross afterwards, just said that he got a bit carried away but he didn't say anything about it. how can i get him out of this "trance" should it happen again? i wasn't quite sure which section to put this in so put it in men's health as i think a man can answer this question better than a woman."

    after thinking this was a once off incident, it happend again this morning. only this time i know for a fact he heard me. i got up this morning to use the bathroom and when i came back to bed and lay down he just rolled over on top of me and pushed himself into me. i boxed him in the arm and told him to get off but he just ignored me . i didn't even think of keeping my legs closed at the time because it happend so fast. but what makes it even worse is the fact that even though it was totally unwanted and quite sore for at first because i was obviously dry, my body went against my wishes and i actually orgasmed, which is something that has never happend during intercourse. i'm actually more disgusted with myself than with my husband at the moment for reacting this way.
    but the actual question i have is what could cause a man from being a loving person who has never laid a finger on me or forced me to do anything in the 12 years we are together, to one who would act so , i don't really know how to put this.. selfish and rough? the whole episode only lasted about two minutes, max, so the fact that i orgasmed even though i didn't enjoy the incident at all makes me feel like there is something wrong with me. i'm really really confused at the moment. could there be a biological reason,ie testosterone changes, that can make a man act out of character like this? please don't say go to the police because i won't.
    he's gone out with some friends to go cayaking and i can't ask my mother for advice because she would freak.
    i'm sorry, i suppose i am still a bit messed up. right, if i wasn't married to him what he did this morning would probably be considered rape, as i clearly said stop and even boxed him and he kept going regardless. but we ARE married, have three kids together and i love him dearly and would rather find out what could cause him to be so rough and selfish. if i wasn't married to him or had kids i would have left. but i DO love him.
    reading one of the replies brought one thing to mind. we had talked about having one more baby. well, i don't want to have another but he does. i know that sometimes women fool men into getting them pregnant by telling them they are taking the pill when they're not. would it be possible that my husband is taking things into "his own hands" considering i only got the coil out a week ago and am not on any other birth control? maybe i'm just trying to come to any sort of explaination, but could a guy be desperate enough to ensure another child to make the woman pregnant wheter she likes it or not?
    OMG, i am really trying to grasp air now amen't i?

    • ANSWER:
      i think that this problem is deeper than juts him being super horny and out of control. there must be another issue at hand. you say you go thru long periods of abstinence. maybe that wasnt to his liking?
      what about bleeding during pregnancy? do you have kids? if you dont, maybe he's projecting that feeling of anger thru sex.
      there must be something else.. guys are in complete control when doing it. you can choose to be smooth and sensual if you want. or you can be rough and tough. it depends on the guys MOOD. so i'm guessing there's something that set him off.
      talk to him. see whats up. get to the bottom of this and theeeenn... aaaahhhh.. super orgasm time ;)

  4. QUESTION:
    Wanna hear a great joke for women? Remember we are all the same and it's just a joke!?
    Sorry, guy's but I found this funny! What do you think?
    It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older, it becomes
    >harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they
    >were younger. When you notice this, try not to yell at them. Some are
    >oversensitive, and there's nothing worse than an oversensitive woman.
    >
    >My name is Bob. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my wife,
    >Debbie. When I took "early retirement" last year, it became necessary for
    >Debbie to get a full-time job along with her part- time job, both for extra
    >income and for the health benefits that we needed. Shortly after she
    >started working, I noticed she was beginning to show her age. I usually get
    >home from the golf course about the same time she gets home from work.
    >
    >Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she has to rest
    >for half an hour or so before she starts dinner. I don't yell at her.
    >Instead, I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she gets dinner
    >on the table. I generally have lunch in the Men's Grill at the club so
    >eating out is not reasonable. I'm ready for some home cooked grub when I
    >hit that door.
    >
    >She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now it's not
    >unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after dinner. I do
    >what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening that
    >they won't clean themselves. I know she really appreciates this, as it does
    >seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.
    >
    >Another symptom of aging is complaining, I think. For example she will say
    >that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during
    >her lunch hour. But, boys, we take 'em for better or worse, so I just smile
    >and offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even
    >three days. That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that
    >missing lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any (if you know
    >what I mean). I like to think tact is one of my strong points.
    >
    >When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She
    >had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard.
    >
    >I try not to make a scene. I'm a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a
    >nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a
    >while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make
    >one for me too.
    >
    >I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Debbie. I'm
    >not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will find
    >it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows better than I do
    >how frustrating women get as they get older. However, guys, even if you
    >just use a little more tact and less criticism of your aging wife because
    >of this article, I will consider that writing it was well worthwhile.
    >
    >After all, we are put on this earth to help each other.....
    >
    >Signed,
    >
    >Bob
    >
    >EDITOR'S NOTE: Bob died suddenly on May 27th. The police report says that
    >he was found with a Callaway extra long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver II golf
    >club rammed up his ass, with only 2 inches of grip showing. His wife Debbie
    >was arrested and charged with murder; however, the all-woman jury found her
    >Not Guilty, accepting her defense that he accidentally sat down on it...

    • ANSWER:
      Bob could have been a friend of Charlie. Charlie was playing a round of golf with three of his buddies on a Friday afternoon. They were about to play the fourth fairway, which ran adjacent to a roadway. As Charlie was preparing to tee off, a funeral procession began to slowly pass by on the roadway.As soon as he saw it Charlie returned his driver to his bag, removed his cap, put his hand over his heart and stood head bowed, facing the roadway until the hearse had passed out of sight. "Wow, I never knew you were such a sentimental guy." said his pal Phil. "Oh, think nothing of it, it,s the least I could do," replied Charlie "after all, I was married to the woman for thirty two years."

  5. QUESTION:
    For all you women, sorry but this is true!?
    I'm a man and for that i apoligize, but I thought you would find this as funny as I did! It's just a joke!!!!
    It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older, it becomes
    >harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they
    >were younger. When you notice this, try not to yell at them. Some are
    >oversensitive, and there's nothing worse than an oversensitive woman.
    >
    >My name is Bob. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my wife,
    >Debbie. When I took "early retirement" last year, it became necessary for
    >Debbie to get a full-time job along with her part- time job, both for extra
    >income and for the health benefits that we needed. Shortly after she
    >started working, I noticed she was beginning to show her age. I usually get
    >home from the golf course about the same time she gets home from work.
    >
    >Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she has to rest
    >for half an hour or so before she starts dinner. I don't yell at her.
    >Instead, I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she gets dinner
    >on the table. I generally have lunch in the Men's Grill at the club so
    >eating out is not reasonable. I'm ready for some home cooked grub when I
    >hit that door.
    >
    >She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now it's not
    >unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after dinner. I do
    >what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening that
    >they won't clean themselves. I know she really appreciates this, as it does
    >seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.
    >
    >Another symptom of aging is complaining, I think. For example she will say
    >that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during
    >her lunch hour. But, boys, we take 'em for better or worse, so I just smile
    >and offer encouragement. I tell her to stretch it out over two or even
    >three days. That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that
    >missing lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any (if you know
    >what I mean). I like to think tact is one of my strong points.
    >
    >When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She
    >had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard.
    >
    >I try not to make a scene. I'm a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a
    >nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a
    >while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make
    >one for me too.
    >
    >I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Debbie. I'm
    >not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will find
    >it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows better than I do
    >how frustrating women get as they get older. However, guys, even if you
    >just use a little more tact and less criticism of your aging wife because
    >of this article, I will consider that writing it was well worthwhile.
    >
    >After all, we are put on this earth to help each other.....
    >
    >Signed,
    >
    >Bob
    >
    >EDITOR'S NOTE: Bob died suddenly on May 27th. The police report says that
    >he was found with a Callaway extra long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver II golf
    >club rammed up his ass, with only 2 inches of grip showing. His wife Debbie
    >was arrested and charged with murder; however, the all-woman jury found her
    >Not Guilty, accepting her defense that he accidentally sat down on it...
    What do you think? Let me know!

    • ANSWER:
      LMAO LOVED IT! I'M GONNA E-MAIL IT TO MY FRIENDS & FAMILY. DUMB MAN THOUGH...GUESS I WOULDA' DONE THE SAME THING SHE DID BEFORE TO LONG. LOL

  6. QUESTION:
    Thoughtful husband,,, ? i dont think so?
    NOTES FROM A THOUGHTFUL HUSBAND
    It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older, it becomes
    harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they
    were younger.

    When you notice this, try not to yell at them. Some are oversensitive,
    and there's nothing worse than an oversensitive woman.

    My name is Darrell. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my
    wife, Brenda.
    When I took "early retirement" last year, it became necessary for Brenda
    to get a full time job, both for extra income and for the health benefits
    that we needed. Shortly after she started working, I noticed she was
    beginning to show her age.

    I usually get home from the golf course about the same time she gets home
    from work. Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she
    has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts dinner.

    I don't yell at her. Instead, I tell her to take her time and just wake
    me when she gets dinner on the table. I generally have lunch in the Men's
    Grill at the club so eating out is not reasonable. I'm ready for some
    home cooked grub when I hit that door.

    She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now it's not
    unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after dinner. I do
    what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening
    that they won't clean themselves. I know she really appreciates this, as
    it does seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.

    Another symptom of aging is complaining, I think. For example, she will
    say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills
    during her lunch hour.

    But, boys, we take 'em for better or worse, so I just smile and offer
    encouragement I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days.
    That way she won't have to rush so much. I also remind her that missing
    lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any (if you know what I
    mean). I like to think tact is one of my strong points.

    When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods.
    She had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard.
    I try not to make a scene. I'm a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a
    nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a
    while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well
    make one for me too.

    I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Brenda. I'm
    not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will
    find it difficult. Some will find it impossible! Nobody knows better than
    I do how frustrating women get as they get older.

    However, guys, even if you just use a little more tact and less criticism
    of your aging wife because of this article, I will consider that writing
    it was well worthwhile. After all, we are put on this earth to help each
    other... Darrell

    EDITOR'S NOTE: Darrell died suddenly Thursday May 26. He was found with a
    Calloway extra long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver rammed up his backside,
    with only 2 inches of grip showing.

    His wife Brenda was arrested, but the all-woman Grand Jury accepted her
    defense that he accidentally sat down on it very suddenly.

    • ANSWER:
      LMAO, definetely worth reading! when i was done i had my husband read it, he laughed harder that i did..

  7. QUESTION:
    do you know rob and anette???
    It is important for men to remember that, as women grow older, it becomes harder for them to maintain the same quality of housekeeping as when they were younger. When you notice this, try not to yell at them. Some are oversensitive, and there's nothing worse than an oversensitive woman.

    My name is Rob. Let me relate how I handled the situation with my wife, Annette.

    When I took "early retirement last year, it became necessary for Annette to get a full-time job, both for extra income and for the health benefits that we needed. Shortly after she started working, I noticed she was beginning to show her age.

    I usually get home from the golf course about the same time she gets home from work. Although she knows how hungry I am, she almost always says she has to rest for half an hour or so before she starts dinner. I don't yell at her. Instead, I tell her to take her time and just wake me when she gets dinner on the table. I generally have lunch in the Men's Grill at the club so eating out is not a reasonable option. I'm ready for some home cooked grub when I hit that door.

    She used to do the dishes as soon as we finished eating. But now it's not unusual for them to sit on the table for several hours after dinner.

    I do what I can by diplomatically reminding her several times each evening that they won't clean themselves.

    I know she really appreciates this, as it does seem to motivate her to get them done before she goes to bed.

    Another symptom of aging is complaining, I think. For example, she will say that it is difficult for her to find time to pay the monthly bills during her lunch hour. But, boys, we take 'em for better or worse, so I just smile and offer encouragement.

    I tell her to stretch it out over two or even three days. That way she won't have to rush so much.

    I also remind her that missing lunch completely now and then wouldn't hurt her any (if you know what I mean). I like to think tact is one of my strong points.

    When doing simple jobs, she seems to think she needs more rest periods. She had to take a break when she was only half finished mowing the yard. I try not to make a scene. I'm a fair man. I tell her to fix herself a nice, big, cold glass of freshly squeezed lemonade and just sit for a while. And, as long as she is making one for herself, she may as well make one for me also.

    I know that I probably look like a saint in the way I support Annette.

    I'm not saying that showing this much consideration is easy. Many men will find it difficult. Some will find it impossible!

    Nobody knows better than I do how frustrating women get as they get older. However, guys, even if you just use a little more tact and less criticism of your aging wife because of this article, I will consider that writing it was well worthwhile.

    After all, we are put on this earth to help each other ... Rob
    *************************

    EDITOR'S NOTE: Rob died suddenly Thursday the 26th. He was found with a Calloway extra long 50-inch Big Bertha Driver II rammed up his rear end, with only 2 inches of grip showing...His wife Annette was arrested, the all-woman Jury accepted her defense that he accidentally sat down on it very suddenly.

    • ANSWER:
      Have a star. Sad to see such a nice guy go that way!

  8. QUESTION:
    Can regular masturbation train you to last long in bed?
    Sometimes I'm fast on the draw when it comes to sex,sometimes I can last for about 30-45 minutes. Is this normal? Men's Health magazine also said that masturbation can train your body to last long in bed. I've been masturbating and using lubricants such as lotions and body cream. Would masturbating with lubricants (it really does simulate a wet vagina) really help me to train my sexual endurance?

    • ANSWER:
      I have no idea about the health Magazine Article...
      But whats worked best for my bf, is when he's about to cum, we stop and change positions.. Usually a position that puts me in control & We keep on doing that.. It gives us more time.
      Also, thrust slowly.... You'll also last longer.

      [Would masturbating with lubricants (it really does simulate a wet vagina) really help me to train my sexual endurance?]

      I guess.. because it creates the feeling of a vagina. That would probably help.


Last Longer In Bed Naturally

Written By: admin - Mar• 14•12

Here we look at some herbal sexual enhancers which can help you enjoy better and longer lasting sex, as well as better all round health. The herbs will work for both men and women and you can find all the herbs the best natural sex pills, let's look at how to enjoy great sex which lasts for longer.

In terms of optimum sexual pleasure, there are two natural substances which must be present in high levels in the body and the substances are, Nitric oxide which helps the sex organs become hard and testosterone which helps to increase sex drive and improve sexual stamina, in both men and women. Lets look at these substances in more detail and the best way, to increase the body's production of them.

Nitric oxide dilates the blood vessels which supply the genitals with blood, so more blood can flow into them and make them hard. Men can never get an erect penis without this substance and women also need high levels because, the female sex organs need to harden, for both libido and sexual satisfaction from orgasm. To stimulate production of this key sex hormone you can simply take three proven Chinese Herbs - Ginseng, Horny Goat Weed and Cnidium. They will quickly stimulate production and do so with no adverse side effects.

Testosterone is often seen as just a male sex hormone but women also need it and if they don't get enough, sex drive falls and pleasure from sex is diminished. When testosterone levels are high so to are energy levels and this means, a higher sex drive and improved sexual performance. The best herbs to get levels up quickly are Tongkat Ali and Tribulus. These herbs work to increase strength, stamina and energy which manifests itself in a higher libido, the ability to last longer in bed and finally, they can help to increase the duration and intensity of orgasm.

Get ALL the Above Herbs and More in the Best Herbal Sex Pills

The herbs above are just a few of the best natural sexual enhancers for men and women which you can find blended with others in the best natural sex pills and not only will they help you enjoy better sex, they also improve overall levels of health at the same time.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    last longer in bed naturally - how can I do that ?
    I want to last longer in bed naturally , is it possible to do that ?

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  2. QUESTION:
    How can a man last longer in bed naturally, with no pills or anything?
    I was talking to my girlfriend and she told me she could last for 30mins or more, while i can only last a short time. I wanted to know how to make myself last longer without using any type of drugs or enhancement.

    • ANSWER:
      Switch up positions constantly!

  3. QUESTION:
    h How to last longer in bed naturally - how can I do that?
    how to last longer in bed naturally - how can I do that

    • ANSWER:
      try this it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, My husband had the Identical problem like you. His doctor commend enlast. He tried it and the effect is awesome. PPremature Ejaculation is not a trouble at all. You can find out more about enlast here: http://mhlnk.com/3F30DE07

  4. QUESTION:
    How can i naturally last longer in bed?
    i have a big problem i cant last that long in bed and its like uncontrollable how can i last longer to please my wife?

    • ANSWER:
      Yopu can't naturally last longer in bed, you have to practice controling your urges to ejaculate.

  5. QUESTION:
    How do i last longer in bed naturally,can someone tell me please?!?
    I want to last longer so i can pleasure my girl better than i do,at the moment i only last about 5minutes,how can i increase this time?
    someone help me please!!!!!!
    :)

    • ANSWER:
      change positions more foreplay give her some oral in between changing positions

  6. QUESTION:
    What are some tips to last longer in bed naturally?
    I use a condom, but ever since I've been with my new GF i go wayyyy too early. I have tried masturbating before, but it doesn't help much. Any help is apreciated!

    • ANSWER:
      Think about baseball.

  7. QUESTION:
    how to naturally last longer in bed - without pills of course?
    Hi guys I just want to know is there a secret of how to naturally last longer in bed - without pills or medicine

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  8. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed naturally, Its posible?
    any body, help me .. how to last longer in bed naturally...??

    • ANSWER:
      There Are Only 5 Reasons Why You Get Premature Ejaculation In Most Cases Anyway

      Yes, it's true. Most men can trace their PE to one of these 5 things...

      (And don't worry, you'll see how to beat them in just a minute)

      But anyway, here they are - see which of these applies to you...

      1- Genes- The fact is, your body is programmed to use sex for reproduction - and it wants to do that as efficiently as possible. The body wants to ensure your genes are carried down through the years, so it makes you climax quickly to try and achieve that.

      2- Masturbation- Too much in your teen years may have "rewired" your body for a super quick response. Like it or not, excessive masturbation can cause Premature Ejaculation. Why? Simple, it teaches your body to focus on the wrong things... and when this happens, it's all over.

      3- Intensity- for some people, the arousal and stimulation of sex is just too much. That's why it feels like there's no way of stopping once you start... it really can be like a runaway train plummeting down the hill. It almost feels like everything's completely out of your control doesn't it?

      4- Lack of body knowledge- most people have no idea how or why the ejaculatory process works, and this leads to encouraging Premature Ejaculation without knowing. Once you understand the process though, it doesn't have to be so quick and out of control.

      5- Sensitivity- Some of us guys just have bodies that are more sensitive than others. If you've ever felt completely overwhelmed and out of control during sex, this could be you. But don't worry, it's actually an advantage if this applies to you - and you'll soon see why.

  9. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed naturally no pillz?
    hey,i need help
    is there any thing that i can to to help me last longer in bed
    how can i practice and what can i do i really need help is there any one that can help me get threw this i really need help thanks,
    and nothing is seeming to work help plz...

    • ANSWER:
      you can practice masturbating and when you do, stop before you are about to ejaculate and then after you calm down a little go again.

      or you can masturbate before you have sex

  10. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed naturally no pillz? .?
    hey,i need help
    is there any thing that i can to to help me last longer in bed
    how can i practice and what can i do i really need help is there any one that can help me get threw this i really need help thanks,
    and nothing is seeming to work help plz...

    • ANSWER:

  11. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed naturally - how can I do that?
    how to last longer in bed naturally - how can I do that

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  12. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed naturally?
    how to last longer in bed naturally? plz easy method

    • ANSWER:
      you can try this natural treatment
      and have last longer tonight
      no pill or cream just proven method

  13. QUESTION:
    how do last longer in bed naturally?
    I just need some help, its really important to me.
    every single night make me bored,

    please help me.

    • ANSWER:

  14. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed naturally ?

    • ANSWER:
      if you want to last longer in bed, you should be able to control your mind and your hormone.
      more information on http://www.ejaculationtraining4.com

  15. QUESTION:
    Is there any way to make you last longer in bed naturally?
    No pills,creams,lotions,etc..

    • ANSWER:

  16. QUESTION:
    Where can I get some tips on lasting longer in bed naturally?
    To make a long story short, I have been lacking in the performance department with my gf lately and I am looking for some techniques to improve this.

    I try switching positions, and even "last longer" condoms but nothing seems to work.

    ANy help would be appreciated!

    • ANSWER:
      The answer about breathing is right but I find there is more to it than that. My BF used to have the same problem, and he said it was a combination of breathing, thoughts (although not thinking of something disgusting like the first poster said, and hormonal control).

      I did a quick google and here is a pretty good article with some good tips:

      http://holdingyourload.com/2011/04/26/2_simple_ways_to_last_longer_in_bed/

  17. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed for guys naturally?
    I just need some help, its really important to me.
    every single night make me bored,

    please help me.

    • ANSWER:
      I'm a guy and I can stay in bed for ever. It's getting out of bed that's the problem. I notice I always need a longer sleep after heavy weight training. Try that. Or if the room's really cold I always want to stay in bed. Or when I'm really hung over, I can stay in bed all day then. You could always try tranquilisers but that's not natural.

  18. QUESTION:
    Is there any scientific explanation for why females naturally last longer then males in bed?

    *btw im not asking this question for personal reasons. I have no problem giving my girlfriend as many orgasms as she desires. getting her really excited before going in and keigal excercises on your free time is all it takes lol

    • ANSWER:
      The male body is designed to climax more quickly to improve the chances that it's genetic material will be passed on. Women do not need to climax in order for conception to occur, so it's more of an evolutionary thing.

  19. QUESTION:
    How can I last longer in bed?
    I'm a guy and want to know how to last longer naturally. Sometimes I can last 20 minutes but more often or not it's about 5 minutes. If anyone can give any help would be good. Thanks.

    • ANSWER:
      i would advise you to get some medication. my bf had the same problem until he got him some kind of male enhancement and now his stamina is through the roof!! not only did hist stamina increase but so did his size!! so now its very enjoyable for both of us and we are both fully satisfied!! and by the way this condition is pretty normal and its nothing to be ashamed of!!! so i hope my advice helps and that you get the results you are looking for!!!

  20. QUESTION:
    Any ideas for how to naturally last longer in bed? I seem to ejaculate really quickly. Thanks.?

    • ANSWER:
      squeeze one out before you go out on a date...think of your grandma...go to the sex store and buy de-sensitizer...don't know if that's considered natural, but, what the hell?

  21. QUESTION:
    how to naturally last longer in bed ?

    • ANSWER:
      Does sex always finish way too soon for you? Is your wife, lover or girlfriend happy with the kind of sex you are giving her? For most men, the simple (and ugly) truth is that premature ejaculation often takes the fizzle out of every sexual encounter, making the men look silly, disappointed and frustrated. Well, if PE has become a mainstay in your sex life, you can almost be assured that you have an unhappy woman in your hands! If you want to learn how to prolong your orgasm, keep reading...

      Let's face it. Many relationships have taken a tumble because of BAD sex. And very often, premature ejaculation is the cause of it. Well, if your girl is reading this, she would probably agree too! After all, nine out of ten women surveyed said that sexual stamina (or the lack of it) is the number ONE complaint they have about their partners!

      So does this mean you have to live with PE all your life and let sex be mediocre at best? Certainly not! Achieving better sexual endurance is not that difficult. For most men, there is nothing physically wrong with them. It is mostly a simple case of "re-programming" their minds and bodies to keep their sexual arousal from spiraling out of control too soon.

      The Power Of Breathing

      Breathing is easy. It's natural. But what you probably didn't realize is that letting your breathing go out of control during lovemaking is the surest way to climax quickly. The right breathing techniques will help relax BOTH your mind and body, and keep the urge to ejaculate at bay. And that is why many tantric masters teach the intricacies of breathing - techniques that can literally help couples prolong lovemaking for hours on end! The correct breathing patterns will enable you to "stay in the moment" until you decide to climax - yes, even simultaneously!

      The Power Of the Mind

      These exercises have been specifically tailored to help men build incredible sex stamina and get rock hard erection naturally.
      http://www.EjaculationTraining4.com

  22. QUESTION:
    How can I naturally overcome premature ejaculation... how to last longer in bed?
    How can I last longer during sex? I need help making my girl orgasm, but can't last long enough?

    • ANSWER:
      Ejaculation control exercises train you to last much longer

      if you REALLY need help, you can take a low dose of an SSRI like lexapro, zoloft, etc.

      But in most cases, some simple ejaculation control exercises can help... a much recommended guide to ejaculation control training:

      https://www.mistermanpower.net/ejaculation_control.php

  23. QUESTION:
    how to make last longer erection in bed naturally ?

    • ANSWER:
      There are full of explanation to make last longer erection
      you can get the information on http://www.ejaculationtraining4.com

  24. QUESTION:
    Last long in bed naturally every day?
    I just need some help, its really important to me.
    every single night make me bored,

    please help me.

    • ANSWER:
      Just thing of anything non sexual to last longer.

  25. QUESTION:
    what are things that i can do or eat to make me last longer in bed?
    when i have sex i last about 5 min. s but i want to last an 1 hour or maybe 2 anything i can do naturally to last this long of close to that long

    • ANSWER:
      An hour or two?
      First you have to realize it's the quality, not the quantity.
      Then try for maybe 10 or 15 minutes, with time and value added for the build-up and the afterglow.

  26. QUESTION:
    how do Porn stars last so long in bed?
    is it naturally possible to last that long, or they take some kind of pills to make them last long.

    • ANSWER:
      In addition to the editing, they also use desentizing creams and lubes to numb their sex organs; basically the can go for hours because they dont feel much!!!

  27. QUESTION:
    How long are you supposed to "last in bed"?
    I am 16, and a virgin because I'm fucking terrified of kids. Haha but I've decided to have sex with my girlfriend, although I'm a little worried about how long I need to refrain from orgasm. It seems that when I... *ahem* it takes like 2-3 minutes when I try to come, and I just don't know if I can last longer than that when I'm "in". Is this normal? Will it just happen naturally after time?

    • ANSWER:
      its a normal start, you will learn how to control it, and last much longer..practice makes perfect, and leaves a happy face.

  28. QUESTION:
    “Dr. Paulo Amino“ free ebook download?/ How to stop premature ejaculation naturally?
    Hi everyone
    I want to have longer sex with my gf!
    I´m really desperate... cuz i ejaculate in few min (2 or 3min)!
    And I want to download the ebook “25 Methods Of Control“ by Dr. Paulo Amino for free can someone send it to me or please give me the link to download it free?
    Or send me any other free ebook about that topic to have longer sex.
    Does anyone know how to last longer in bed naturally?
    I am referring to say for example some exercises i could do to delay my ejaculation.
    For every answer which helps me to have longer sex with my gf, will make my day.

    • ANSWER:
      If you have been told that premature ejackulation is a curse to all men and if you were also told that such problems could bring premature ending to your love life, then I have to tell you my friend that whoever told you about these basic facts were really true. Unlike your other friends who just like to tell you about how premature ejackulation can affect you and your sex life, I am going to give you two easy and natural steps that you can follow to get rid of this problem forever.

      Step 1

      As for the very first step to get rid of premature ejackulation, you would have to be prepared to train your penis to last longer and this can be done only with the help of an exercise. This exercise is nothing but your usual masturbation process except that we are going to add a twist to it.

      For this exercise you would need a stop watch to time yourself. Now start the stopwatch and get your penis to a completely erect state and start masturbating. When you think that you are about to have an orgasm, you would have to remove your hand off your penis and relax for a while till the sensation passes.

      Once you have overcome the orgasmic sensation, you would have to go ahead and start masturbating again. Every time you are about to climax, you would have to remove your hands from your penis and wait till the sensation passes. You would have to repeat this exercise at least till you have overcome three orgasms. The fourth orgasm is yours to have. Now check the stop watch to for the time it had taken for you to overcome the three orgasms and then last till the fourth.

      During the next masturbation session, you would have to remember this time and try beating it by another 5 minutes and by another elapsed orgasm.

      Step 2

      As for your second step you would have to remember to masturbate at least once before you actually have sex. It is proven that most men find it very difficult to last longer with the first orgasm. Hence if you masturbate once or twice before the actual penetration, you can be guaranteed that your penis would get slightly numb before the third orgasm and that it would definitely stop the premature ejackulation on a temporary basis.

      Now make certain that you follow the first exercise to the T on a daily basis and in time you will see that even you can get rid of premature ejackulation forever and bring the best sexual pleasure to your partner and yourself. If you think that you would have to train your penis in a natural way possible, then it is best that you get yourself a flesh-light from an adult bookstore because it would give you the feel of the real thing and actually help you better when you are involved in sex. Now good luck with your endeavors and I can guarantee that these simple steps would help you in the longer run and get rid of premature ejackulation forever.

  29. QUESTION:
    I last too long in bed....is that a problem?
    Now I need constructive comments or answers. When girlfriend of 2 months and I have sex, almost every time I have to stop about after 20 minutes of penetration and give her oral to get her off coz she says she's already drying up and feeling pain. She comes just fine and I have to resort to either jerking off or stopping altogether. She doesn't like to use any lubricate so once she dries, she stops.
    I am not lying or exaggerating but I really can last at least 30 minutes while maintaing erection. Is that too long for a girl to start feeling pain? She seems to naturally lubricate quite well. So am I the problem here? Should I seek ED therapy to make myself last shorter?
    Guys in porno seem to last about 20 to 30 minutes so why should my "problem" be a problem?
    She doesn't give oral unless my penis is confirmed cleaned....and she gets tired after a few minutes of oral so finishing up with a blow-job is not much of an option.
    And no, I am not becoming a porn star just because I can last long.
    Btw, I am almost 6" long and asian, and you'd think girls would be at least ok with that. Apparently not...sigh...
    She doesn't like me watching porn during intercourse coz that makes her feel she's not attractive enough to make me come. Toys are out of the question for her.
    I did say at least 30 minutes, didn't I? One time I lasted almost an hour and switched like 6-7 different positions. I did come but only after jerking off.
    I have a much easier time jerking off watching porn by myself (like 10 minutes). So stimulation or lack of it is probably not the problem here.

    • ANSWER:
      No, your not the problem, its just your girlfriend obviously can keep up with you. Sometimes its hard for us to maintain for 30 minutes, but for some girls its easy. If maybe you have shorter times maybe, 15 minutes, have a break and start over, and have another 15 minutes, maybe that might help a little. Its not a problem, but also it depends if you want to cut down your lasting time. If you want to then sure seek help, but personally i dont think its your problem

  30. QUESTION:
    Ladies, can a man last too long?
    I know this may sound like a hoax, but it isn't. I just naturally last a long time while in bed with a woman. Now here is the problem, I currently have a girlfriend that doesn't feel attractive or beautiful when I don't climax sooner than I do. Basically, it hurts her feelings when she has her fun and she can't give it to me as much as I do to her.

    I keep telling her that I'm having a great time, because I derive a lot of pleasure by making her happy.

    Does she just have to get over it? Or is there something else I can do?

    • ANSWER:
      It's kind of a combination of both. It's something that she'll just have to move past, but you can help her do that by continuing to reassure her that she is beautiful and you are enjoying yourself. You sound very thoughtful and caring, and as long as she sees that, I'll bet she'll be more comfortable with the natural flow of things sooner or later.

  31. QUESTION:
    Tanning? More darker and last longer?
    Hello. I want darker and long lasting permeate tan. Here’s what I do to tan: I tan for about 3 hours outdoors and I live in south western Canada, scrub the dead skin cells off with an exploiter, then I apply no spf tanning oil mixed with baby oil and of course sun screen on my face, for 2 hours I tan the front then for 1 hour the back then after I apply drugstore aloe moisturizer then I don’t shower for at least 8 hours later. I don’t seem to feel tanned. I’m naturally really pale like Dutch pale looking back at old photos. I get jealous of people who are so dark and they say ‘oh I just went to the beach for a day’ :O. If I don’t tan almost everyday then it wares off and I start to look pale. The only time I feel the most tan is right after I tan. Am I missing a step? Is it the weather? Should I try a tanning bed? Do people with olive skin just tan easier? Any products for a long lasting (even through Canadian winters) and make my skin darker? Any suggestions?

    • ANSWER:
      Try Jergens Natural Glow tanning lotion. It'll give you a really nice tan over the course of two or three weeks.

  32. QUESTION:
    Why is he obsessed with lasting long in bed?
    My bf is obsessed with lasting ages in bed which isnt a bad thing but sometimes i feels he holds off . Its like his ego takes control when i like things to flow naturally and if hes holding back from me to make it last like if i go on top or give him oral he has to stop it .

    He has issues he says he cant imagine sleeping with the same woman his whole life which is just plain stupid then he will say i could spend my life with you.

    He holds back then complains if i get to wet or he runs out of energy

    What is this about?
    Sex is very good but i want him to give me 100% of him pysically and mentally if hes holding back hes not fully givin himself to me
    He is Bi polar but not on meds but i know he stops himself cumming and in my eyes its quality not quantity
    He goes out of his way to please me then wonders why im so wet lol

    • ANSWER:
      I like a guy that can finish in 5mins or 5 hours how ever long I am in the mood for. Explain to him that is the true skill being about to ' finish on command ' hold back is no skill at all really and its to the point where it is frustrating you, he is lucky he is even getting any of you, he is done when you say he is done girl! If he does not get it, then heck your done when you are roll over and go to sleep, think like how most guys do to women, ya feel me, he wont play the energizer bunny game too much longer then.....

  33. QUESTION:
    is it possible to naturally enlarge my penis?
    Hi, I was wondering if there's any excise that you can preform to enlarge someone's penis, I'm above average at 6.4 inches but I'm not quiet satisfied because I want to be able to pleasure my girlfriend and still have some without having to go all the way in, now I've read about Pills that will enlarge the males penis but personally I'm not the type to take pills and it seems like a huge waste of money, so I was wondering is there any natural excise you can preform to enlarge a male's penis? so like no surveys

    BONUS: Any one know excise's to last longer in bed or technique's to last longer or Pleasure my girlfriend more.

    • ANSWER:
      So called penis enlargement pills work by increasing blood flow to the penis, so (good ones) probably have the effect of giving you stronger erections, but they will not give you any extra size. So you are wise not to waste your money.

      Natural exercises is the only penis enlargement method that do work. Because they increase the amount of blood that the penis can physically hold, you can gain extra inches length and width if you do them properly.

      There's a good site below with more information about all the different methods - check it out.

  34. QUESTION:
    (10) points right away HELP!!! not a long story?
    how do i last long in bed no stupid answers (naturally no pills)...(im talking about sex)

    • ANSWER:
      when you are about to ejaculate then stop for 30 seconds then go again also http://www.webmd.com/sex/premature-ejaculation

      answer mine
      http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Al.ZnqZzH0RR.iTcUY3uEA_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090928161432AAlub0g

  35. QUESTION:
    Should I start tanning in a tanning bed?
    I have naturally really pale skin, and i usually get spray tans, but they're so inconvenient because they fade so quickly, and are reallyyy expensive.
    I have a couple questions;
    1) Its REALLY hard for me to tan in the sun, will I get any tan in a tanning bed?
    2) How much does it cost per month?
    3) When will I start seeing results and how long will it last?
    Yes I know it isn't good for you but, thats not what im asking!

    • ANSWER:

  36. QUESTION:
    how to control premature ejaculation??during sex!!?
    I can't control my ejaculate, is it premature? I want to last longer in bed for 20 minutes, how is the way naturally

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com or you can find the Good Articles in Ezine http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Lie_Cenlung

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  37. QUESTION:
    What can improve my sexual stamina naturally?
    I'm 27, and I tried a bottle of viagra that lasted about a month. I don't want to keep getting those. My problem is not maintaining an erection, my problem is lasting long in bed sometimes. Are there any Vitamins or over the counter drugs I can take daily that will improve my stamina? I also know its more of a mind game with myself that allows me to perform in bed. Are there any pills that ease my mind?

    I looked at Enzyte at Walgreens but I don't want to buy that if all I need to do is eat the right vitamins and control my thoughts. What about Horny Goat Weed? Is that something that will help me?

    Basically, I just want to please my lady. She has a difficult time reaching her orgasm through intercourse at times, but she feels so good to me that I can't always hold mine back for too long. I always satisfy her orally but I don't want that to be the only way.

    Any advice will be appreciated. Thank you.

    • ANSWER:
      Every man is born with premature ejaculation, so having it is perfectly normal to start with. Controlling ejaculation is something you have to learn just as you had to learn to control your bladder as a child. We get taught to control our bladders but no one teaches us how to control ejaculation.

      The American Academy of Family Physicians confirms that: Behavioral methods are helpful for more than 95 percent of men who have premature ejaculation. So, if you have tried exercises and they have not helped it is because they have not been explained properly to you. Many of the treatment programs offered online have not been written by professionals.
      Do not waste time or money on sprays, vitamins, herbs, dietary supplements or drugs. This is a learning problem and these things will not help you learn to control ejaculation any more than they can help you to learn to speak another language.

      There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is an inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully around the world for more than 32 years.

      It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just search for the authors name: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.

  38. QUESTION:
    Making My Tan Last....?
    When I tan naturally by the sun in the summer, my tan usually lasts. I sometimes go to the tanning bed in the winter - and I know the tanning bed is no match for the sun, but what are some ways I can make my tan last longer?
    It seems like after leaving the tanning bed, which I only do rarely, my tan goes away almost instantly (like a week after)

    Any of you ladies who tan have a suggestion on how to make a tan last? I know it's not good for the skin but eh..anyways Like I said, I don't go that often..I went here this last time a week and a half ago, and before that my last time was back in April.
    How many times should I try to tan a week?

    • ANSWER:
      I agree with moisturize - that's the top thing. Don't be afraid to use heavy moisturizers like cocoa butter or baby oil. Otherwise I would suggest getting a bronzer/accelerator lotion and using that when you tan so you get the most impact out of your sessions.

      Of course there's also the gradual self-tanning lotions - those work pretty well between tanning (especially the facial ones). Don't exfoliate too much after using them or they will wear right off.

      I tan once a week during the winter for a time that's relatively low for me, just to keep a little color.

  39. QUESTION:
    How To Make Your TAN last?
    When I tan naturally by the sun in the summer, my tan usually lasts. I sometimes go to the tanning bed in the winter - and I know the tanning bed is no match for the sun, but what are some ways I can make my tan last longer?
    It seems like after leaving the tanning bed, which I only do rarely, my tan goes away almost instantly (like a week after)

    Any of you ladies who tan have a suggestion on how to make a tan last? I know it's not good for the skin but eh..anyways Like I said, I don't go that often..I went here this last time a week and a half ago, and before that my last time was back in April.
    How many times should I try to tan a week?

    • ANSWER:
      use salon lotions. Good brands are designer skin (although pricey), swedish beauty, california tan, and if you are on a bit of a budget like all of the economy, use australian gold. They accelerate your tan so you get the most of your visit. I promise, its not a scam! Also, MOISTURIZE after every shower. put lotion on because you may not notice but as your skin flakes, so does your tan. If you want to make a good tan last, after you build a good base tan, go once a week at whatever your maximum level is. In the summer your tan lasts since you are constantly in and out of the sun. In the winter you are more covered and not outside obviously.

      Also, although many people think tanning beds are very hurtful, if used in moderation it is NO different than the sun. My doctor recommends it to me because I have a rare type of eczema and tanning beds bring out your natural skin oils. If you get depressed with the seasonal changes, tanning and feeling like you are in the sun gives you endorphins and makes you feel happier.

  40. QUESTION:
    Whats are best penis exercise?
    I would like to gain more girth length and last longer in bed but I want to do it naturally no pumps, surgery, or pills I really would like help and Im sure there other guys who are like me who will find this very helpful Im 5 inches Im not really satisfy with it.. I heard so many posts saying that size doesnt matter well this weekend I got proven wrong lol size does matter I was with this girl and I did satisfy her in every way but when I put it in you could actually tell she wasnt really feeling it she was just looking at me waiting for me to be done you could just tell if you never had one of those pray ou never bump into those kind of girls lol but I felt very uncomfortable and my confidence went down cause of er she wasnt a big girl she was a nice very petite girl when we was done she said she loved it but that she didnt like it when i put it in"that it wasnt my fault she just likes it big and I couldnt please her" that did bother me so I would like some exerciseing techniques a website or anyhing with pictures woud be more helpful lol but please help me would really appreciate it

    • ANSWER:
      lol I'm a women and i couldn't help but open this question out of pure curiosity, but after reading your paragraph, i just want to say that i have been with my fair share in different sizes and my last boyfriend was 5 inches as well, and honestly was the best sex i have ever had, every time. He was the PERFECT size for me and it pleased me 100 percent. So don't be uncomfortable or lose confidence, just look at is as she was just loose! ;)

  41. QUESTION:
    What are these tiny ant-like biting insect in my bed?
    I bought a new mattress about 3 weeks ago and just a few days ago I noticed these tiny ant like (but not ants) bugs with black wings in my bed. I only see them one at a time and they are only on the bed, nowhere else in the house.

    They are about a half a centimeter long, very skinny, black, have segments like an ant but the last segment is really long. They also have black wings but I've never seen them fly. They're really fast so I end up just killing them before I can get a picture.

    I've checked my kids and had my husband check me for any signs of lice, fleas, etc. Nothing. They look nothing at all like fleas, mites, bed bugs or lice.

    I live in Texas if that makes any difference. Any idea what these are or how to kill them? I'm chemically sensitive so any advice on debugging a bed naturally?

    I've already called the mattress store. It's one of the major chains who claim to be "experts" if you catch my drift. They said it's too late for them to help. Maybe something laid eggs that are just now hatching?

    • ANSWER:
      Wow, that sounds really yucky! Sorry, you are having to deal with that! For ID purposes you would really need to get a picture and post it somewhere like:
      http://bugguide.net/node/view/6/bgimage
      Or, look through their website and see if you can identify it there.

      To kill them with something natural and not pesticide I would try:
      http://www.orangeguard.com/

      My mom uses that stuff and really likes it for occasional pests in the house. But that should be ok to spray on the mattress.

      But, I am with the guy above! Get it identified and then tell the world if its something probably from the mattress company and make sure you tell the mattress company before you make it public because they may just want to give you a full refund then instead of letting themselves look bad, unless you want to expose them and save others from dealing with them! Also, its sounds fishy that the company would actually come out and say its probably something hatching? That tells me this is not the first time this has happened with their company! Get what you want as the customer they are there to serve you so don't let them get away with this! Good Luck!!! Hope you get it figured out!

  42. QUESTION:
    My boyfriend doesn't please me in bed AT ALL, am I just too freaky?? I'm getting so frustrated, need help!?
    So here's the thing, my bf and I are completely different sexually. I love him but this is really becoming a problem for me. Here are just a few of the things that bother me: I like to talk/be talked to dirty and he's tried this but the things he says are so corny (lol I love his corniness outside the bedroom but just irritates me in bed). He just doesn't say the right things, his talk is "clean" (if that makes sense) I've told him what I want many many MANY times, but he just does not get it (you'd think I wouldn't have to tell the man each and every time he gets back there to smack my ***, doesn't it come natural at some point??) I'd like to experiment with toys/oils etc, but his initial reaction was that we should be able to enjoy each other naturally without having to bring in outside things. Even had the nerve to say that when God created sex there weren't any toys or oils (WTF???) I was too threw, just let go of the topic. I love porn and would love to watch with him but that's a no go, think he doesn't like the idea of me looking at other men's bizness. To make matters worse, he has no idea what foreplay means, wants to rush right into doin the deed. I've told him countless times about this and it'll be corrected for a couple days then back to the same bs. I even try telling him, as we're getting started, to slow down or to kiss me in a certain spot (ie my thigh or back or something). He'll give me one little quick peck wherever I told him and then rush back to doing what he was doing! Grrr, irritated thinking about it!! His stamina even frustrates me! He's ready to *** so daggon fast and even though he doesn't right away, he'll keep stopping after only a few strokes so that he can last longer. It's so irritating! I'm like, umm are you going to eff me or not?!?

    Sigh
    I've tried the honesty route- disaster.
    I've tried the guiding him route- disaster.
    I've tried the accepting the unsatisfying sex route- disaster

    I'm outta options :(

    • ANSWER:
      Sounds to me that you are not sexually compatible. You are either going to have to accept that, (never do that) or move on with your life and find someone that can please you. There is of course the possibility of asking your boyfriend for a non-monogamous relationship sexually, but then that takes all the feelings out of the relationship. Personally from what I read, it is time to make a break of it, and chalk it up to experience. Good luck.

  43. QUESTION:
    Heartworms, last question, then bed =]?
    Our 5 year old [[approx]] pit/lab mix was diagnosed with heart worms when we got her 3 years ago. At the time, the vet kept her for a week and treated her, but also told us beforehand it would NOT get rid of the heartworms, they would just keep getting worse and worse until, well you know.

    He told us after her treatment she would have no more than a year to live. That was almost 3 years ago. We take her for checkups every 6 months because of her heartworms, and each time our vet tells us there are more and more of them present in her system. She acts fine, plays normal, eats normal, but does a hacking thing if she plays too hard. The other day our vet told us it may be time to start thinking if we want her to be put down if the heartworms start to interfere with her everyday activities.

    Have you ever had a dog with heartworms? How long did he/she live? Did you put him/her down, or let him/her die naturally?
    It is too bad the way her other owners treated her, she was used as a bait dog. I dont know if you know what that is, but her "owners" used her to get their purebred pits ready for fights. So they wenre't really too concerned about how the rest of her life would turn out.
    I trust our vet completely, he is the best in our area, and areas around us. And yes, I did get quite a few second opinions 3 years ago when all this started. Every single one of them said the same thing: The heartworms had progressed too far to get rid of them completely. I'm NOT an idiot, and I did my research 3 years ago, I want the best for my dogs.

    • ANSWER:
      I very much agree with bad kitty...I have never heard of heartworm treatment not getting rid of all adult worms. I also don't understand why your vet kept your dog for a week for treatment...that isn't the standard. treatment is usually a month long process, with the dog going in once for one injection and staying only that day at the vet, then 2 weeks later the dog goes in for the day and gets an oral drug to kill circulating juvenile stages, and then 2 weeks after that the dog stays 3 days and gets 2 injections all the while the vets and staff are keeping a close eye on your dog. The dog then goes home and has to be under strict cage rest, and can't undergo strenous exercise for at least a month while the worms are dying off, then 6 months later you go back and get a heartworm test to make sure the treatment worked and then start your dog on preventive. Some vets do a soft kill (which is NOT recommended by the heartworm society) in which you give ivermectin (which kills off juveniles stages, heartgard) everyday over a LONG period of time...up to a few years. this very slowly sickens the adult worms and they will eventually die, but this method is even harder on the dog because it takes so long to kill the worms. Out of the hundreds of dogs that I have helped treat, I have only seen one die during treatment because the dog was about 8 years old and had a very severe case, all the others lived long full lives after treatment...so I don't see why your vet who "treated" your dog for heartworms said she only had a year to live...that just doesn't sound right.

      Also having a heartworm infected dog run around without treatment and prevention is the WORST thing you can do, not only for the health of your dog, but your dog is acting as a source of infection to all other dogs in your surrounding area.

      I personally have never had a dog that had heartworm (always keep them on prevention), but I have seen dogs die from heartworms, and through research in my lab that I have done, it is an awful way to die. The worm burdens get so high that they start blocking blood flow to the major organs, causing them to shut down (liver,lungs, kidney, heart) also like you said the dogs get chronic coughs and eventually can hardly breath just with the slighest bit of movement (like getting out of bed). If I ever had a dog with stage 3-4 (the worst) heartworm disease, I would monitor them and when their quality of life starts to diminish, I would humanely put it down...its better then their suffering.

      Also it is great that you trust your vet...so many people don't and come to places like this to get their questions answered, but after what your vet had told you, as well as the other opinions that you got, and if you did your research like you said I would have been very suspisious and taken my dog to yet another vet...there is no way a dog that is only 2 years old can have a chronic enough infection to not be treated.

      But anyways, to answer your question I would watch her, and as long as she is feeling well, eating, playing, and her quality of life is good, you shouldn't have to put her down. But when she does start to go down hill and you can tell when she isn't happy anymore, I would consider putting her down, even though it will be very hard for you, it will be the best for her. Also it would never hurt for another opinion, at 5 years, she should still be young and healthy enough to try and treat.

      I'm sorry for the long post/rant, heartworm is very dear to my heart!

  44. QUESTION:
    Help! My partner abuses me verbally...?
    It's less than a week away from our traditional Chinese wedding ceremony. Should be very happy right??

    Hardly true. I have tried for more than 2.5 years to live with the belittling comments. Apologies come and tempers cool...yet it's still happening. A few weeks ago I moved out of home overnight (returned the next day) and during this time started to talk to a female colleague. I told a couple of mates that I really liked her and kept on looking for an apartment to stay in while i tried to sort out my confused and hurt feelings. After seeing how much I hurt my fiancee (yes she found about the work colleague and how I was still trying to find another apartment), we sat down and talked for hours and worked things out. Why did I keep looking for apartments? Becuase 24 hours after I came back home, she got so angry at me taking too long in the shower (she had to work very early the next morning) she found it a good idea to violently throw a drink all over me including throwing the bottle at me. Things settled though and she went out of her way to buy nice clothes for me and after more discussions, she agreed to change more. Mind you, I moved out the first time because she stayed out so late with a group of people in the ktv (getting drunk). A guy had called her for golf and then ktv. I didn't know it was a mix of guys and girls.

    We took a one month holiday to her hometown and that has been what we need. We have adressed many issues and what is and is not acceptable behaviour.

    Problem, she disguises her behaviour as joking. Tonight she got very upset because I wouldn't let her delete some girls from my chat list - these were just friends and people I had met at one time or another and occassionally we would exchange a simple hello online. But she doesn't trust me after the recent incident of the work colleague. I vowed to add some of them back. She got angry and said: fine in Australia I will have lots of opportunities and will hang out with the men, you are a dog, if I find out you f****** other women I will cut your .... off (she is my first gf and I have been 100% loyal to her although I wonder why because she always hits me with the false accusation of sleeping around - about the only person to think so), you can't last long in bed, I am bored of you, go an taste other girl's p****** etc. Oh and she always rounds it off with, get out of my house (even though it's never her house...) and go back to our home city or back to Australia. Her attitude is: if you aren't happy, you can leave.

    Very upsetting. I try to joke back but it's a bit difficult. I feel like it's a form of narcissism or that I am being unfairly subjected to abuse. Cold feet is a possibility though I would have to dodge the wrath of a very large family and community who have organised so much...would have to be a very fast escape from the country.

    Important note, whilst we match in many many ways, there are some qualities which I have found I would never had thought I could stand in a woman - esp. the foul language. I am trying to change her with limited results.

    Her mother was abused and an abuser. She always argues and attacks her husband. Her husband would retaliate in the past (when my fiancee was a child) by beating the wife's head against the wall and other physical abuse.

    As much as we learn from our parents (we covered this in our discussions), I think children brought up in dysfunctional families don't always end up damaged or mirroring their parents. I did learn something though: I used to get so upset with my fiancee that I often grabbed the suitcase and threw my clothes in it (maybe once every 3-4 months). After a few hours I would unpack it. I learnt this from my parents who often did such actions (or walked away from each other for a few hours until they cooled down). They didn't often argue and certainly didn't turn physically violent. So, naturally I hate conflict and can't stand feeling put down. I hate it so much. I am so easy-going.

    One comment has cut to the bone - telling me I can't last long enough in bed. Actually, she just lies there and often says and does things that cause me to lose the feeling and get turned off. Do I have to think of my wife like a piece of meat and go at her all night to satisfy her? She runs out of energy and says she's bored which in turn has caused me to feel anxiety and unable to perform. I wish she could be like before - when she was supportive and encouraging.

    The fortune teller told us that we would only last 10 years of marriage and she would meet someonen else and divorce me. Might end up the other way around. Thank god I have 5 more months until our legal marriage in Australia.

    • ANSWER:
      Do you wish to live with her for extra 10years?
      Do you wish to have your kids live with a mother like that?
      Can she make your life easier, make you a better man, give some efforts to build a family?
      Sex is important of course, you can't live a healthy life if you have bad sex.

      You don't have to endure your partner.
      Always go for the better girl, better life, better future.
      Grow up.

  45. QUESTION:
    What's the best products for styling for naturally curly hair?
    Hi, I have natural curls in my hair, but when i brush my hair, my hair just frizzes and goes puffy. What products can i use, like a mousse or a spray that will make my curls last longer and look better? I've researched it and found some products that are claimed to be great, can anyone tell me if they are, by using them.....and if the best products in your opinion is not on that list then please say. Thank you:
    - Bed head TIGI FOXY CURLS™
    Extreme Curl Mousse
    - PANTENE PERFECT CURLS DEFINING MOUSSE 200ML
    - John Frieda Frizz - Ease Dream Curls Curl Perfecter

    thanks again!!!

    • ANSWER:
      you can't brush curls when there dry they get all ugly and frizzy! haha

  46. QUESTION:
    Questions about tanning?
    I have always had naturally VERY white skin, light blonde hair, and yellow green eyes. i tan indoors alot but the tan always starts to fade after the next day and so fort. can you tell me about any products that i can use in the indoor tanning bed to make it last longer? I've tried every sunless tanning product i could get my hands on, but all make me orange, even the ones for fair skin. And i would also like your take on the best indoor tanning lotion...Thanks!

    • ANSWER:
      well uhm lets see, are you using an accelarating lotion?
      if so then thats good! but does it have a bronzer in it?
      if not, i reccomend you get a lotion with a single or double bronzer
      in it. anything more than single or double is to much and
      will make you look orange.
      also, how fast
      your tan fades also depends on how often you go. you need
      to at least go 3 times a week to get a pretty nice tan.
      i use this kind called brown sugar princess. its amazing!!!
      http://www.bizrate.com/skincareproducts/products__keyword--brown+sugar+princess+tanning+lotion.html

      also, if you don't want to tan in a tanning i bed. i will
      reccomend to you jergens natural glow!
      i've used it and it really works. just be sure to use it
      daily all over.
      and for both lotion, wash your hands after wards!!
      best of luck!
      =]

  47. QUESTION:
    spray tan or tanning bed?
    prom is coming up on april 24th, and i need a tan because my dress is hot pink. im going to start using a jergens lotion that makes you a little tanner, but i need a noticable tan by prom. my friend and i want to do spray tanning, but i heard it doesnt last very long and we've never done it before so we're not sure how it will turn out. we're a bit afraid to use a tanning bed though, because we're both claustrophobic and tanning beds just dont seem like good ideas. and before anyone says "tan naturally," keep in mind, i live in ohio where it just snowed a good 3 feet, and prom is in about 2 months. any suggestions?

    • ANSWER:
      use a stand up tanning bed they get u tan quick

  48. QUESTION:
    My boyfriend got an erection while we were making out.. I NEED advice, PLEASE?
    I'm feeling a bit awkward asking this here, but I honestly rather be educated about this than make a mistake, so anybody who is kind enough to red and advice me, I'll be greaful to you, forever!
    My boyfriend and I are both 18, we've been together for 3 months so far. Yesterday we were making out on his bed. It started of slow and romantic, then one kiss got a bit steamy, and by that I mean passionate (we did NOT feel each other up and down.. we have loads of limits) after a while we wanted to experiment our kissing position (he always wanted a lappy, like me sitting on his lap as we kissed) so he asked if he could and I gave in, we kissed like that for say about a minute and then we both thought it may get too much so we stopped and I got up. After that we were just sitting in bed and kissing, and then naturally we just fell back on the bed, and the next moment he's on top of me, and our kiss turns real steamy and aggressive. I loved every bit of it, and I was not uncomfortable, if I was I would have stopped him. Then we got up, he then asked for it again..so we fell back on the bed, and that kiss lasted longer, we didn't break it for a while. Until he suddenly sprung up and goes "sorry" as we quickly got up. Later at night he told me something I didn't expect, he said he got a boner while we were kissing as we lay down. I hardly knew what to say to him. I kinda wondered why he told me this. He also later on told me that he wanted the lappy again. Do you think the lappy lead to his erection? And could it be that he sprung up because of the erection? Also, is it dangerous? We both don't want to have sex. But after he said this I got scared we'd get carried away. :( Also, does a man have an orgasm when he ejaculates?

    I don't know, I just so confused. I need knowledge on this, for my own good. Thank you SO much to everyone that helps me out.

    • ANSWER:
      dont blame him,guys cant control it

  49. QUESTION:
    My boyfriend had an erection while we were making out. I need some questions, PLEASE help?
    Yesterday my boyfriend and I were making out on his bed. It started of slow and romantic, then one kiss got a bit steamy, and by that I mean passionate (we did NOT feel each other up and down.. we have loads of limits) after a while we wanted to experiment our kissing position (he always wanted a lappy, like me sitting on his lap as we kissed) so he asked if he could and I gave in, we kissed like that for say about a minute and then we both thought it may get too much so we stopped and I got up. After that we were just sitting in bed and kissing, and then naturally we just fell back on the bed, and the next moment he's on top of me, and our kiss turns real steamy and aggressive. I loved every bit of it, and I was not uncomfortable, if I was I would have stopped him. Then we got up, he then asked for it again..so we fell back on the bed, and that kiss lasted longer, we didn't break it for a while. Until he suddenly sprung up and goes "sorry" as we quickly got up. Later at night he told me something I didn't expect, he said he got an erection while we were kissing as we lay down. I hardly knew what to say to him. I kinda wondered why he told me this. He also later on told me that he wanted the lappy again. Do you think the lappy lead to his erection? And could it be that he sprung up because of the erection? Also, is it dangerous? We both don't want to have sex. But after he said this I got scared we'd get carried away. :( How often do guys ejaculate, easily or only when it's really needed?

    Thank you SO much to everyone that helps me out.

    • ANSWER:
      it is perfectly normal. it is not dangerous it is just a normal thing that happens to guy in situations like that. he would of gotten the erection no matter what position you two were in while making out. he probably jumped up because he was embarrassed, but felt comfortable with you later to tell you why which is a good thing it means he trust you to understand and not hold it against him. you two sound young so its good you are taking it slow but don't freak out over his erections or if you get wet down there either its 100% natural and nothing to worry about. you can't get pregnant through your cloths if you are worried about that. just take your time and only go as far as you both feel comfortable

  50. QUESTION:
    Sexual related question [related to an erection] - PLEASE help me understand this, I NEED some help?
    Yesterday we were making out on his bed. It started of slow and romantic, then one kiss got a bit steamy, and by that I mean passionate (we did NOT feel each other up and down.. we have loads of limits) after a while we wanted to experiment our kissing position (he always wanted a lappy, like me sitting on his lap as we kissed) so he asked if he could and I gave in, we kissed like that for say about a minute and then we both thought it may get too much so we stopped and I got up. After that we were just sitting in bed and kissing, and then naturally we just fell back on the bed, and the next moment he's on top of me, and our kiss turns real steamy and aggressive. I loved every bit of it, and I was not uncomfortable, if I was I would have stopped him. Then we got up, he then asked for it again..so we fell back on the bed, and that kiss lasted longer, we didn't break it for a while. Until he suddenly sprung up and goes "sorry" as we quickly got up. Later at night he told me something I didn't expect, he said he got an erection while we were kissing as we lay down. I hardly knew what to say to him. I kinda wondered why he told me this. He also later on told me that he wanted the lappy again. Do you think the lappy lead to his erection? And could it be that he sprung up because of the erection? Also, is it dangerous? We both don't want to have sex. But after he said this I got scared we'd get carried away. :( Also, does a man have an orgasm when he ejaculates? What if he has to ejaculate while we're kissing itself, would that happen? How often do guys ejaculate, easily or only when it's really needed?

    Thank you SO much to everyone that helps me out.

    • ANSWER:
      hey sweetie,

      you sound pretty young, but there is nothing to worry about! men get erections from kissing all the time--especially in more intimate positions like when you're in his lap. they can even get erections from just looking at pictures of scantily clad women, etc.

      he might have sprung up because even he was surprised by his erection. but having an erection and having sex is completely different. if he's young too, he MIGHT ejaculate just from kissing (though most more experienced men would never). this is unlikely even for him. but, even if he does ejaculate, it's not a problem as long as he doesn't ejaculate inside you. and yes, most men orgasm when they ejaculate.

      if you're comfortable, you should talk to him about these things. he could explain his own body better. and you could ask if he's ok with what's going on.

      hope this helps!


Last Longer In Bed Pills

Written By: admin - Mar• 14•12

Do we really need alternative energy systems? Whats the big deal right, we've done alright so far, and alternative energies are cost a lot more. So why is alternative energy important.

The biggest reason, we are using way more energy than we have sources for. We are energy consumers. It wasn't always like this however. We used to be exactly like every other living thing on earth, we ate other life to use simply for survival. Along the way of our evolution we began to differentiate ourselves from other organism's, and started to consume energy not just for comfort and leisure instead of just survival. But we are not going to talk about when, how, or why we are the voracious energy consumers of today, it's about the simple fact that our main energy source that has elevated us so far in such a little amount of time, is running out.

Fossil fuels take a long, long time for nature to create, once there gone, that's it, their gone, no more leisurely drives to grandma's house. Some scientists have even claimed that we have burned through half of the worlds supply of fossil fuels. Everyday we are using more energy, so you can only guess the effect our energy use is having on fossil fuels.

Compared to an alternative energy project fossil fuels are horrific. Now I'm not telling you to go build a hut in the middle of the Sierra Nevada's and live off the land. Some of you might like to and that's great. But for our society to survive we need to start cultivating alternative sources of energy.

It really comes down to how much we're going to spend. Right now, the cost, as far as alternative energy vs traditional energy, traditional energy is far less than there alternative energy counterparts. But the playing field is leveling at an alarming rate, this is due to not only the increased difficulty and scarcity of obtaining fossil fuels, but because the technologies incorporated into alternative energies is becoming more and more sophisticated.

The future is alternative sources of energy and the many benefits we can gain from it. Because it's really not about the cost, or the difficulty of the solution, it's really about doing it, well, because we have to. That is what makes alternative sources of energy important.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    how to naturally last longer in bed - without pills of course?
    Hi guys I just want to know is there a secret of how to naturally last longer in bed - without pills or medicine

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  2. QUESTION:
    how can last longer in bed - without pills?
    how can I last longer in bed without pills ?

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  3. QUESTION:
    What can I do (besides pills) to last longer in bed?
    I don't want to subscribe to the junk i see on tv and in magazines. But I have a bit of an endurance problem. Any help would be great.

    • ANSWER:
      Think about sports or Rosie O'Donnell.

      Seriously, it's a psychological issue. You're much too focused on the sexual act and your own sexual pleasures. Concentrate on your partner's pleasures and how you're making her/him feel. But again, you can seriously think of anything besides the sex and you'll noticed the difference. Thus, this proves the psychological issue and can be controlled with practice.

  4. QUESTION:
    How To Last Longer in Bed Without Pills - any solution for this?

    • ANSWER:
      1) Thinking versus feeling

      Many men who have a premature ejaculation problem tend to focus allot on problems they have with their thoughts. I have heard numerous times that "I get so overwhelmed with the sexual thoughts in my mind that I just end up Cumming". Well this is perfectly understandable but there is a way around the problem. When we switch our focus to what we are feeling rather than what we are thinking this can really slow things down for us and enable us to last longer in bed without pills. Switching your focus to what you are feeling will slow down your mind and bring you more into the moment as well. Focus on the pleasurable sensations and the feeling of her skin on yours and you'll get the idea.

      2) Relaxation versus tensing

      Next time you make love what you will notice is that your body tenses up before you actually reach climax. The thing to do here is to relax the muscles of your body more as you are reaching these points of no return. What you will notice is that your urge to climax will diminish and you will add some time onto your ability to last in bed.

      3) Talking versus silence

      One element of premature ejaculation that is often overlooked in its ability to help people is talking part. What I mean by this is that the problem with allot of couples who are suffering is that they don't want to address the problem themselves in their conversations. This can lead to the man becoming scared that his partner may leave him for another man, and the woman can feel frustrated and afraid to bring the subject matter up.

  5. QUESTION:
    How can a man last longer in bed naturally, with no pills or anything?
    I was talking to my girlfriend and she told me she could last for 30mins or more, while i can only last a short time. I wanted to know how to make myself last longer without using any type of drugs or enhancement.

    • ANSWER:
      Switch up positions constantly!

  6. QUESTION:
    What pills could make you last longer in bed?
    I don't need any lectures on how bad it could be. They can be anything. or other things that could help within a day or so.

    • ANSWER:
      stay away from viagra unless theres a medical reason. If you have problems with quick ejaculation then try a desensitizing cream. It slightly deadens sensations so you dont get over stimulated too soon.

      Best is consult with your Doctor and find out if there is a medical problem.

  7. QUESTION:
    How can i last longer in bed with out taking pills?
    me n my friend were talk about the topic n we want to no (this is for men).

    • ANSWER:

  8. QUESTION:
    Besides pills what can a male do to last longer in the bed during sex?
    Besides pills what can a male do to last longer in the bed during sex?

    • ANSWER:

  9. QUESTION:
    is their pills to make you last longer in bed?
    i dont have a problem with my sex life but i would love to last longer.

    • ANSWER:
      Research has found that there may be a link between nitric oxide levels and premature ejaculation (check out the article below). There are several ways to increase nitric oxide, including foods (grape juice, green peas) and supplements (horny goat weed, l-arginine, etc.). I take Spartan Blend, but you should ask your doctor before you take anything- especially if you have a heart condition. If you're under 18, don't take anything. If you are looking for more research, you may want to search Pubmed for more studies.

  10. QUESTION:
    I can't last long enough to satisfy my girlfriend... are there any pills to last longer in bed?
    I need help overcoming premature ejaculation... any natural solutions?

    • ANSWER:
      ejaculation control exercises can train you to last much longer during sex.... but you should also gain some knowledge on the female orgasm... like the importance of the clitoris

      check this out:

      "Difficulty Making Girlfriend Orgasm? Here’s How to Last Longer and Make her Cum"

      https://www.mistermanpower.net/blog/difficulty-making-girlfriend-orgasm-heres-how-to-last-longer-and-make-her-cum.php

  11. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed without using any medicines or pills? .?
    How to last longer in bed? Any foods or exercise or herbs or alternatives?

    • ANSWER:
      Tantra. Get some books on it and read up on it.

  12. QUESTION:
    how can you last longer in bed without using pills?
    lasting longer with your wife,

    • ANSWER:
      Wear a condom to decrease your sensitivity. When you feel yourself getting close, stop for a few minutes and focus on something else - like her.

  13. QUESTION:
    how could i last longer in bed with out taking pills?
    i want natural ways to prolong the art of love making

    • ANSWER:
      try this product..this man's formulas are the strongest and best on the market in my opinion.

      Some of his customers boast of 5 hour erections..see the testimonials

      http://www.herbdoc.com/p39.asp

      the website healthy healing also has some good products, but probably the first one I mentioned will be most effective.

  14. QUESTION:
    What kind of pills or supplements I can use to have a harder erection and last longer in bed?
    I already been told that viagra isn't healthy for me at my age (22) and I really want something to keep me going and not c u m so soon. I can get a hard on easily, but its so difficult for me to keep it hard for at least an hour. I want to be able to blast sperm like a pornstar.

    Is there any type of vitamin, pill or supplement to help me perform better? I want to be a sex machine and cover my lovers in a bucket load of sperm and have a long lasting, hard penis. Like Peter North, Rocco Sifredi, etc.

    Anyone can give me any websites, information, ANYTHING to help me find out what is good for me to take for my age.

    Thank you a ton.

    • ANSWER:
      a lot matters on your partner, your own mental state at that time. There are times when even two and three times a night is not enough to satisfy me, and I am 47. At other times, if my or my partners mood is just not there, then keeping erect even for a few minutes is a big thing. It's all in the mind. Don't think about wanting to keep erect for a n hour when you are doing it, just consider the task at hand-pleasuring your partner and getting pleasure from your partner. You are young and over a period of time will definitely develop the art of keeping your self on the edge but not letting go while your partner's has orgasms.

      Be happy as you are!

  15. QUESTION:
    Any pills to increase my penis size and last longer in bed?
    I can't maintain my erection for long and my penis is small... is there anything to make my penis bigger?

    I don't want to take Viagra.

    let me know and thanks!

    • ANSWER:
      pills no.. there is not one pill on the market that can increase your penis size

      antidepressants can delay ejaculation

      natural penis enlargement exercises and ejaculation control exercises can increase your penis size and sexual stamina as well

      this guy has very good exercises for this:

      Mr. Manpower is a Regular-ass Dude… with Some Amazing Sexual “Powers”
      https://www.mistermanpower.net/blog/?p=1309

  16. QUESTION:
    Is there anything that will help a guy last longer in bed? Preferably without pills?
    My best friend just confided in me that her and her hubby hardly have sex, because when they do, it lasts less than 5 minutes, and its not long enough to satisfy her. I dont know how to help her since its never been an issue in my marriage. I'd love to be able to give her some pointers. Any advice?

    • ANSWER:
      Yes there is one method. If you have a good partner and it is a goal for both parties- you get him close to climax, and then you switch to oral or kissing and then switch back to intercourse. Not only does that make the session more passionate but it also prolongs the orgasm. P.S. If it's taking her longer than him, maybe she could get a good toy and make that part of foreplay. Dont be shy! Then she'll not need him for more than 1 minute.heehee. And if he climaxes before she does, that doesnt mean he cant finish the job, there are plenty of ways if they use their imagination,,,and the toy..

  17. QUESTION:
    Is there any pill or medicine that can help a man last longer in bed?
    Ive been lacking in bed these past few days and it sucks but i make up for it at times..;) well i was woundering if there was any over the counter medicine or pills that can help me last longer?

    • ANSWER:
      If you are suffering from erectile dysfunction there are pills like Viagra which helps you in keeping firm erection during intercourse. This is not over the counter medicine and can have serious side effects if you are taking blood pressure reducing medicines like nitrates.

  18. QUESTION:
    How do I (male) last longer in bed? Is there a technique? pills?

    • ANSWER:
      wear two condoms

  19. QUESTION:
    What can i do to last longer in bed?
    What can i do to last longer in bed? I can get hard really easy but when i have sex as soon as i have an orgasam which only takes a few minuites and the ejackulate i seem to go floppy does any one know how i can stay hard with out pills and also last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      You have to practice self-control.

  20. QUESTION:
    how can i last longer masturbating/in bed with out taking pills?
    me and my friend were talking n got on this topic so i want a answer to tell him.
    for men not women

    • ANSWER:

  21. QUESTION:
    has anybody tried pills or creams that make you last longer in bed?
    first do they work and if they do what was it called

    • ANSWER:
      No - they don't work.

  22. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed?
    how can i last longer in bed, without pills

    • ANSWER:
      Change your position so you do not get so much direct stimulation

  23. QUESTION:
    what are the pills that make the pleasure last for longer?
    hi everybody. I'm looking for pills that make the pleasure last longer in bed. where can I find them? and is there any sides effects? please if you know what they called at least mention them with your answer.

    thank you.

    • ANSWER:
      Most male enhancement supplements (Virility Ex, Extenze, Enzyte, Spartan Blend, Expanzite, etc.) contain herbs that have been shown to have strong effects on libido and circulation. But, as far as increasing the size of your penis is concerned, the herbs in male enhancement pills do not actually increase size, they do two other very important things: They can increase blood flow to the penis, and can help tone the pelvic floor muscles. More blood flow can lead to larger, harder erections, and toned pelvic floor muscles can make a penis stand more erect. So, they appear to increase size, but in actuality they just help you achieve your full potential.

      Talk to your doctor before you take anything, in case of drug-interactions, side effects, or allergic reactions, etc.

  24. QUESTION:
    how can a guy last longer in bed without the help of pills?

    • ANSWER:
      Do an exercise called "kegels", this helps build the muscles that are responsible from the male orgasm. By training this muscle (PC muscle) you will strengthen it, therefore strengthening your orgasms as well. The PC muscle is located right between your scrotum and anus. This exercise is done by flexing the PC muscle. The next time you urinate, try stopping mid-stream without your hands, and that is your PC muscle. Contract and release this muscle as many times as you can throughout the day and before you know it you'll have the ability to last as long as you want.

  25. QUESTION:
    if i stopped masturbating and just drunk a lot of water would i be able to last longer in bed?
    if i stopped masturbating will i last longer in bed?? What is the best action to takeso that i can last loner in bed? Nothing to do with pills i dont want to use pills.

    • ANSWER:
      Masturbating less often would likely have the opposite effect, because your sexual tension will be higher when you have sex with another person, and your sexual response will likely run away with you.

      Quick ejaculation is generally due to unfamiliarity with one's own sexual response. It can sometimes happen because of a habit of coming quickly during masturbation, possibly because of embarrassment or guilt. A habit of coming as fast as possible will carry over into experience with a partner. Habitually masturbating this way also prevents becoming acquainted with one's own sexual response, so that you have not control over it.

      Try masturbating mindfully. Go slowly, and pay attention to your feelings. Don't try to have an orgasm as quickly as possible. Learn what kind of touching can let your excitement grow slowly and gradually. Learn to recognize the feeling in yourself that says that ejaculation is imminent, but not unavoidable. You can stop or slow your stimulation at that point, and let the feeling subside, then resume when you're calmer. When you can do this by yourself, you will be more able to employ it with a partner to lengthen your time. And don't worry about masturbating when you have a sexual relationship going with another person. Masturbating when you're alone will take the edge off and give you greater control when you're with your partner.

      Another thing you can do is concentrate on your partner's pleasure first. Pretend you don't even have a penis at the start. Make your partner feel good with stroking, kissing, hugging, etc. Stimulate your partner's erogenous zones with your lips and tongue, as well as your fingers. If your partner is a girl, you may be able to give her one or more orgasms before you insert your penis, and then it will not matter so much if you come fairly quickly.

  26. QUESTION:
    Do male sexual performance pills actually make you last longer and add feeling in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      If you referred to Viagra e similar medicinals, the answer is negative, In fact Viagra pill only is useful in non-organic erectile dysfunction. That pill doesn't help the libido as well as doesn't give the possibility to have longer intercourse!

  27. QUESTION:
    What is a good way for your man to last longer in bed?
    Hey guys,

    So Basically my question says it all, I was wondering if anyone out there knows of a sexual supplement for longer lasting sex?

    For example: Pills, something to drink, cream/lotion, oil etc etc

    Thanks all for your help :)

    • ANSWER:
      He needs to focus on other things during sex and not focus on oh my look what Im doing Im getting some, because we work off of visuals the more we see the harder it is to hold back. try turning off all the lights and see if that helps. As for supplements they are all a waste of money and time its all about mind control and if he cares enough about you he will try to hold it a little longer so he is not the only one satisfied.

  28. QUESTION:
    Last Longer In Bed?
    How can i last Longer in bed without pills or any meds??

    • ANSWER:
      Relax! Don't get overly excited. Wear a condom (which you should always do anyway).

      Work on your lower stomach muscles.

      Several seconds before you think you will blow your wad, pull out and wait a half-minute or so, then re-insert. Keep repeating this until your endurance builds up.

      Try masturbating with lubrication. And each time you think you will blow your wad, stop and wait until the sensation goes away. Then, repeat.

  29. QUESTION:
    What do pill that make you last longer actually do?
    Ok so I know some guys take pills to last longer in bed but what do they actually do, is it to have an erection for a longer time or to somehow make you not ejaculate too soon...if its for a longer erection then whats the point if ur gonna cum just as fast? i dunno sum1 just explain please

    • ANSWER:
      talk to a doctor

  30. QUESTION:
    how do i last longer in bed?
    ive been searching for some answers and most is just bs or id have to pay to get some book that would tell me. so what are some ways to last longer in bed, and no pills or stuff like that.

    • ANSWER:
      when my husband is about to reach the point of no return he'll switch things up, into a new position so he'll have to get up to that point all over again. it takes time and practice though I'm sure.

  31. QUESTION:
    what tablets/pills are the available for men to last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      Viagra,levitra or cialis:
      Nothing else will work.
      Cubes

  32. QUESTION:
    how can i last longer in bed?
    how can i last longer in bed without taking any pills, just things i can do to last longer?

    • ANSWER:
      When u masturbate instead of hitting the climax, prolong it several times. This will build stamina.

  33. QUESTION:
    I want to know if anyone has used spray or pills for lasting longer in bed or has experienced any side effects?

    • ANSWER:
      I have a friend who has used some "Stud 100" which desensitizes the penis a bit just don't let her go down on you or she might end up in the hospital like my friends chick. The same guy has also used some "Rize 2" or something which he said made him a bit bigger and it did give him more staying power. LOL he said it looked like a swollen sausage and his girl even noticed it she asked him if he took something to last longer and make it bigger. He didn't experience any side effects but I'm sure it is possible.

      He gave me some pills but I haven't taken em cuz then my wife's gonna be expecting those kind of performances all the time. So I'll stick to my 20 minutes of hard pounding until it don't rise like it used too.

  34. QUESTION:
    how can i make my bf last longer in bed?
    my boyfriend usually cums after a minute of sex sometimes even less, not kidding. Especially when hes tired after getting out of work, forget about it I might as well masturbate! I notice he lasts longer with a condom than without but sometimes we don't want to use it. Is there any way to make him last longer? I heard there are pills and stuff but I don't want him to take anything that can hurt him like viagra or whatever it is.

    • ANSWER:
      a c.o.c.k ring will help, also taking it slow. You really need to talk to him about it and be open, yea its a touchy subject but its needed.

      -Shawn

  35. QUESTION:
    How can i last longer in bed?
    Now i just asked a question about being nervous during sex but i think it may be tied into being afraid of not being able to please her. i do fear this to a decent extent and was wondering if there were any tips on how to last longer during sex without drugs or pills/sprays. help me out =D

    • ANSWER:
      The best way is communication. You tell her how you feel, open yourself up about your insecurities. If she is a good person she will support you and calm your anxieties. If she lets you know that she cares about you no matter what and that she is happy with who you are and your performance in bed, you will relax and last longer.

  36. QUESTION:
    I need a pill that helps me last longer in bed...helps control premature ejaculation. What's out there?
    Does anyone know anything about pills that can help you last longer in bed? Help you not to ejaculate as quickly?

    • ANSWER:
      never ask here
      ask a real Doctor

  37. QUESTION:
    I am 18 years old and I need to learn to last longer in bed!?
    I need to last longer in bed with my first girlfriend. We tried out for a few times the past weeks, but I am improving a little bit everytime. Is there any tips or techniques that can help? No pills pls....

    • ANSWER:
      Sex isn’t just about thrusting, pumping and pivoting. This method takes the focus off the intercourse and redirects it to other parts of the female anatomy – onto her other erogenous zones. Which zones you’ll work on will be dictated by the sex position you’re in.

      - Back of her neck. If you’re in doggy, lean over her and softly kiss the back and sides of her neck. Slow the tempo of the thrust down to one or two strokes every 5 seconds. By itself, this pace slow down wouldn’t be too great, but coupled with the redirection of pleasure to the female’s other erogenous zones, it’s a real winner.

      - Her ears. There are a ton of nerve endings around her ears, making them ultra-sensitive to your touch. Once again, if you’re in Doggy or a similar position, kiss and caress her ears. Don’t tongue them, or get all sloppy. Use a light touch and be sensuous

      - Her scalp. “Her scalp?!” I hear you cry. Don’t worry, I haven’t gone all dermatologist on you. Women play with their hair because it feels good, it’s not just a nervous habit. Run your fingers through it as you're kissing her, or, simply caress her scalp gently with your hand Remember to start out slow to gauge whether she likes it. Most women do.

      - The small of her back. As well as being full of nerve endings, the lower back can often be an area of the female body where stress can accumulate. Run the pad of your palm slowly and gently from between her shoulder blades to the base of her back, gradually increasing the pressure as you move down her body.

      You can focus on those 4 erogenous zones to take the pressure off the thrusting for a good 30 seconds and in turn lower your need to ejaculate. Be creative and cater towards what you know she already enjoys, as well as exploring new, sensitive soft spots.

      For more hot spots you need to hit for longer lasting and better sex, check out the free report here -> http://www.ejackulation.net

      It really works for me so far so good.. :)

  38. QUESTION:
    are there any pills to buy at like wal mart to make you last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      wal mart doesn't have them, but CVS and other drug stores like GNC, etc. do.

  39. QUESTION:
    Tips on how a guy can last longer in bed?
    How can you have a longer(time) erection without using pills or how to, "keep the frosting in before finishing the cake"?

    • ANSWER:

  40. QUESTION:
    I WANNA KNOW WHATS THE BEST PILL TO LAST LONGER IN BED?
    ME AND MY GIRL HAD SEX A COUPLE OF TIMES AND I CANT LAST MORE THAN 15 MINUTES I TRYED TO LAST BUT I GO OUT EASLY PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS

    • ANSWER:

  41. QUESTION:
    Which/What pill can be used to make a man last longer in bed?
    So I'm sexually involved with someone that doesn't last more than 10 minutes in bed... if it wasn't for the timing the sex would be phenomenol... what can he use?

    • ANSWER:

  42. QUESTION:
    Will perks make a guy last longer in bed?
    I got my wisdom teeth pulled recently and I have the painkiller pills left over. These are 10 mg pills. If I take them right before having sex is it true that I will last longer before ejaculating? Also how much would I have to take- would 5 mg be enough at a time??

    • ANSWER:
      sorry dont be so stupid ----- you dont take drugs (at least drugs not prescribed for that) as a performance enhancer for sex ----- if you want to last longer its control and practice that will do it not drugs

  43. QUESTION:
    How can I make my husband last longer in bed?
    My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. When we got together we were young and I thought that the pre-ejaculation was just from being a teen but we have been married for 2 years now and it hasn't gotten any better. What can I do to make it work. We have tried everything pills and rubs and drinks and everything else they have on the market. He has even gotten a script for it, nothing has worked, some one please help. it's rruiningour sex life and our marriage.

    • ANSWER:
      He needs a therapy. The reasons could be emotional.

  44. QUESTION:
    Pills to last long in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      Depends. What do you plan on doing with these pills? Or, what do you plan on doing to the pills?

      Please elaborate. Thanks

  45. QUESTION:
    Is there a pill that will make me last longer in bed? I need to last longer during sex.?
    Truthful answers only please

    • ANSWER:

  46. QUESTION:
    How can I last longer in bed? I never last long enough to satisfy my girlfriend... help?
    What can I do? Are there any pills or medications that can cure premature ejaculation?

    I really want to learn to be able to last longer... my girl says it's alright, but I can't help but feel like it's not

    thanks

    • ANSWER:
      SSRI's have been shown to delay ejaculation, best used in combination with ejaculation control exercises

      most often the exercises are good enough on their own though

      Ejaculation control exercises will train you to last as long as you want during sex

      I used to be a major premature ejaculator, now I can last 30 minutes or more, non-stop penetration

  47. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed? HELP?
    How to last longer in bed? HELP?
    I'm having a hard time lasting long in the sack, I'v tryed pulling the rope before lol, and pills, and thinking of something else like football, and i'v also tryed switching it up on her, it all dont really help, i need some more help boys?

    • ANSWER:

  48. QUESTION:
    How do you last longer in bed?
    I'm just curious as to how one would last longer in bed, with out taking pills. I'm an all natural kind of guy im just wondering, if it is all based off what one thinks or eats? I've slept around a lot and idon'tt really get any complains but i would love to last longer then like 5 Min's, i want to be able to go for a half hour that's my goal. So i want some feedback from some women, about how sex feels when the man goes slow or fast hard and soft. I ultimately think that if i go harder and faster it will feel better and that's why i think i finish so fast.
    I'm just curious as to how one would last longer in bed, with out taking pills. I'm an all natural kind of guy im just wondering, if it is all based off what one thinks or eats? I've slept around a lot and idon'tt really get any complains but i would love to last longer then like 5 Min's, i want to be able to go for a half hour that's my goal. So i want some feedback from some women, about how sex feels when the man goes slow or fast hard and soft. I ultimately think that if i go harder and faster it will feel better and that's why i think i finish so fast.

    Im talking about sex people, whats wrong with you guys? serious answers only please

    • ANSWER:
      try masturbating a couple of hours before you are with her you watch to much porn. those guys do not last for hours. they break then continue

  49. QUESTION:
    Has anyone used spray for lasting longer in bed?
    Hi,
    I want to know if anyone has used spray or pills for lasting longer in bed or has experienced any side effects.guys used this between 26 to 35

    Thanks to all
    only seriouse answers

    • ANSWER:
      Yeah I used it...and it works pretty damn well. The only problem is that you don't feel anything, and I mean ANYTHING! You'll bang like a porn star, but you won't enjoy it, other than for your ego. Also it usually numbs your woman down there too, so what's the point?

      You should learn how to have orgasms without ejaculating, so that you don't lose your "manjuice" but you orgasm. When you don't lose your manjuice, you keep your erection and you can keep going as long as you want. Mistermanpower.net has a guide on how to do this. Its great cause you don't lose your erection, and you can have as many orgasms as you can handle, it just takes some practice.

  50. QUESTION:
    How do guys last longer in bed?
    i always finish in about 5-10 seconds and i hate it, my girlfriend gets mad cuz she never even gets started and i was wondering if there were any techniques out there that i could try.. yoga.. pilates or some pills... i jack off a lot already..

    • ANSWER:


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Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    what makes some men last longer in bed then others?
    what makes some guys be able to go all dai and some guys minute men ? and what are some ideas or tips on inproving your sex time and why they ur tyme myte be low anyway?

    • ANSWER:
      some guys just dont have control when it comes to orgasms. they just cant hold it in. and maybe also desire to have the climax feeling quickly has something to do with it. i guess just tell the guy to slow down, since going faster apparently makes them climax faster, haha.

  2. QUESTION:
    How do men last longer in bed?
    Ok well ive done some reasearch and i found out that when you dont think about whats happening during sex you can last longer. But my question is what are you supposed to think of instead then because its a little hard to stay focused when a girl is orgasming and screaming....

    • ANSWER:
      This was a problem for me i couldnt concentrate in bed and couldnt get off. I just used to daydream or when we were intimate sometimes there was a film on we were watching and i'd just carry on watching it subconsciously while nailing her. Its easy really just think about anything what your going to do later after you cleaned yourself up etc.. I had to work really hard just to actually concentrate and get off in bed!

  3. QUESTION:
    Why would Conservative Christians advocate circumcision as a method to make their men last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      I know a lot of Americans are weird, and apparently biblically inept, but if you are a Christian; circumcision is a sin.

      Colossians is the proof-text for the doctrine of Christ's circumcision being a part of his substitutionary sacrifice. Jesus was mutilated in order to identify with those who suffered under the Old Covenant, as well as to shed His innocent blood once and for all, so no baby would ever have to be subjected to circumcision again.

      ~Col. 2:8-14 "See to it that no one takes you captive through philosophy and empty deception, according to the tradition of men...rather than according to Christ. For in Him all the fulness of Deity dwells in bodily form and in Him you have been made whole.. and in Him you were also circumcised, with a circumcision made without hands, in the removal of the body of the flesh by the circumcision of Christ, having been buried with Him in baptism, and raised up with Him through faith. And...in the uncircumcision of your flesh, He made you alive together with Him. . . having cancelled out the certificate of debt consisting of decrees against us which were hostile to us. And He has taken them out of the way, having nailed them to the cross."

      Paul teaches here that circumcision was meant to be a curse (no one is supposed to want to do this to their babies!), but that Christ has been the substitution for our children, that our sons should never have to shed their blood again.

      ~Gal. 5:2 "Behold, I Paul, say to you that if you become circumcised, Christ will profit you nothing!"

  4. QUESTION:
    How do men last longer in bed without medication?

    • ANSWER:
      stopping in the middle and doing something else like going down on the girl or mastrabating before being with the girl, the second time always takes a little longer...
      or he can please the girl first...then she will have a second orgasiam when he gets his first one...

  5. QUESTION:
    Do men last longer in bed in the morning?
    Do men last longer in bed in the morning? I usually don't have sex with my man in the morning and usually if we don't have sex for more than 3 or 4 days he usually only lasts a few minutes. But we had sex the other morning and lasted like we had been having sex for a few days. Do you think he cheated on me? or just a fluke?

    • ANSWER:
      Yes my husband does usually last longer in the mornings. Moreso then in the evenings. I am not sure about all men though. Each mens bodies are different i believe. I do not feel he is cheating on you at all. This is more then likely just a fluke.

  6. QUESTION:
    Is it true that pomegranate juice can help men last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      prune juice is the way to go my man! :)

  7. QUESTION:
    do black men last longer in bed than white men?
    i know the rumor about the size thing is true to some extent.

    but how about the stamina thing. they say black men last longer because they have more testosterone in their blood which gives them more much stamina like lasting 3 times longer

    • ANSWER:
      Do you love how people stereotype one another in America?

  8. QUESTION:
    Is it true that watermelon can help men last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      apparently some report came out this or last summer stating the same stuff in Viagra is in watermelon.

      /jabril

  9. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed for men.? . .?
    i dont last that long i dont know why but i hate it .i last like at the max 5 min.what can i do to make it last alot longer.and how do you keep going after you ejaculate

    • ANSWER:
      practice edging while masturbating. do controlled strokes and when you get to the point where you feel you are about to ejaculate, stop and wait for the feeling to pass then start again. practice this frequently and you will learn. Its all about control...The more you practice this, the longer you will last in bed.

      izzo

  10. QUESTION:
    last longer in bed for men - how is the way?
    is there any method for last longer in bed for men ?

    • ANSWER:
      try this http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

      it's 100% naturally so you will be safe from another reason, I tried that before, and many people make it through

  11. QUESTION:
    Is There a Pill to Help Men Last Longer in Bed?
    Is there a SAFE pill to desensitize men and help them last longer during intercorse? Are there mental methods that he can use to control the time of ejaculation? Does age play a factor? Does his physique make any difference? Should a man in his 20's have no control?
    OK, Viagra is for men who cant keep it up right??? This is not the problem...the issue is PROLONGING intercorse.

    • ANSWER:
      There are a lot of pills that claim to make a man better. ED pills help somewhat, but they basically only ensure sex happens, not how long it will last. Condoms are very good at desensitizing.

      There are mental techniques a man can use PRIOR to ejaculation to last longer. But once the barn doors have opened, the animals are coming out.

      Physical shape has a lot to do with it. A man in better shape will have more stamina and typically more control. Therefor age can play into it. an older man in poor health won't be as good as when he was younger. But a 40 year old in great shape will out do a 20 year old in poor shape.

      And it is possible for a man in his 20s to have no control. Just like it's possible for a man in his teens, 30's, 50s, 70s etc. to have no control. It could be a medical problem if by "no control' you mean he doesn't even get up to bat. If you mean he only lasts a few seconds, he'll probably be like that his entire life without some intervention (like a condom).

  12. QUESTION:
    What can help make a man last longer in bed?
    My husband is great at doing other things in bed, but when it comes down to the doing the deed, he doesn't last that long at all. Are there any suggestions that might make him last longer?

    • ANSWER:
      It is one of those mind over matter things. He has to teach himself to last longer. One way for him to do this is to masturbate more and keep trying to make himself last longer each time. When he learns to get some control you can start masturbating him, keep encouraging him to hold it and hold it and hold it until he can last a given amount of time. As he gains control do the same thing when he is in you. It takes time and practice. For many men the only thing they have taught them self is to have an orgasm, and the quicker the better.

  13. QUESTION:
    Does masturbating really make men last longer in bed???
    I've herd two things about this

    I've herd that if you masturbate before sex (not sure how long before sex) you will last longer during it....

    and i've herd that just masturbating on a regular basis you can last longer in sex. and that the more you masturbate, the more "desensitised"(can't spell it) you the penis gets so you last longer.

    are any of these true??? please explain..
    thanks in advance

    • ANSWER:
      MASTURBATION MYTHS:
      from http://www.jackinworld.com/library/myths.html

      Chances are, of all the things you've heard about masturbation, most of them were absolutely false. For some reason, misinformation surrounds masturbation like virtually no other topic. How do you spot a masturbation myth? One simple method is to ask yourself if the statement is also true of sexual intercourse. When you're masturbating, your body only knows it's getting sexually stimulated; it doesn't know by what means. So, for instance, if the question is whether or not masturbation causes acne, think of it this way: If it did, intercourse would also cause acne. In fact, neither masturbation nor intercourse cause acne.

      MYTH:
      Masturbation causes hair to grow on your palms.
      FACT:
      How many people with hair on their palms have you seen?
      MYTH:
      Masturbation causes hair loss, chronic fatigue, and other problems.
      FACT:
      Internet scam artists have tried to invent a concept called "overmasturbation," insisting that you have to buy their expensive herbal pills in order to counteract the effect of masturbating more than a couple of times per week. But the pills have absolutely no effect — and masturbating once or twice a day will not make your hair fall out, or cause anything else they claim.
      MYTH:
      Masturbation is bad for your eyesight.
      FACT:
      Masturbation does not affect eyesight. This myth probably originated because boys often start having to wear glasses at about the same age they start masturbating.
      MYTH:
      Masturbation causes your penis to stop growing (or) to get bigger.
      FACT:
      Masturbation has no effect on penis size whatsoever.
      MYTH:
      Masturbation causes your testicles to shrink.
      FACT:
      Absolutely false! It is true that if you're highly aroused, your testicles become engorged with blood and may appear slightly larger and heavier, and that masturbating will make them revert to normal. But they will absolutely not be any smaller than after the last time you masturbated.
      MYTH:
      Masturbation causes acne.
      FACT:
      It doesn't cause acne. Like the eyesight myth, this is a case of two things that happen at the same time, even though one doesn't cause the other.
      MYTH:
      Masturbation causes sexually transmitted diseases.
      FACT:
      Hello? "Sexually transmitted" means from one person to another. You can't give yourself a sexually transmitted disease!
      MYTH:
      If you masturbate too much, you'll run out of semen and become sterile.
      FACT:
      Semen is a fully renewable resource. When you ejaculate semen, your body simply makes more — the same way your body makes more saliva after you spit.
      MYTH:
      People can tell whether you masturbate by how your penis looks.
      FACT:
      Masturbation does not change the appearance of your penis. (It does tend to cause an erection, but that usually goes away when you're finished.)

  14. QUESTION:
    Does smoking marijuana make men last longer in bed?
    Just curious

    • ANSWER:
      well its not proven but it is rumored and ive hurd from friends that it does take a while to um get there i guess but thats good in a way but they say it gets annoying. also it IS proven that pot reduces sperm count so if your trying to make babies or have a child now or later on in life it will be alot harder. also it decreases stamina preformance and endurance.i hope i helped

  15. QUESTION:
    why does my boyfriend last longer in bed when he smokes weed?
    my boyfriend thinks i am crazy but i think he lasts longer after he has smoked or when he just smokes weed in general the day we are having sex. He lasts like an hour and a half if he smoked earlier. i am not complaining but i want to know if there is any proof that men last longer in bed if they have weed in their system. THANK you so muchh sorry if i sound gross =X

    • ANSWER:
      Yes alcohol and drugs tend to have an effect known as whiskey D I C K. The idea is that as a result of the substance at hand the overall sensitivity is decreased making orgasm harder or in some cases impossible to achieve.

  16. QUESTION:
    How can a man last longer in bed naturally, with no pills or anything?
    I was talking to my girlfriend and she told me she could last for 30mins or more, while i can only last a short time. I wanted to know how to make myself last longer without using any type of drugs or enhancement.

    • ANSWER:
      Switch up positions constantly!

  17. QUESTION:
    Is there any pill or medicine that can help a man last longer in bed?
    Ive been lacking in bed these past few days and it sucks but i make up for it at times..;) well i was woundering if there was any over the counter medicine or pills that can help me last longer?

    • ANSWER:
      If you are suffering from erectile dysfunction there are pills like Viagra which helps you in keeping firm erection during intercourse. This is not over the counter medicine and can have serious side effects if you are taking blood pressure reducing medicines like nitrates.

  18. QUESTION:
    what gnc product will help men last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      Want to really last much longer in bed then you should try last longer pills.

      http://www.lastlongernow.com

  19. QUESTION:
    Can men last longer than women in bed?
    Does age make a difference?

    • ANSWER:
      It varies. With plenty of lube a woman can often go indefinitely (even if she's lost interest). A guy can only go as long as his erection holds out.

      Age can effect natural lubrication in women, and endurance in men...however some middle aged folks can go longer than some younger folks so it's not a definite way to determine how long one might last.

      The key is to have fun doing it...not to try to send smoke signals from her vagina.

  20. QUESTION:
    Is there anything I can do to help my man last longer in bed?
    He usually ejaculates in under 2 minutes, is there anything I/he/we can do to make that last longer?

    • ANSWER:
      Be on top more often. Men last longer when they can relax and do not have there stomach muscels contracting. ease his tension by telling him it was great no matter what. The less pressure the better. Also less foreplay will help. I know that sucks, but until you can get him built up into the 5 minute range try to limit any type of oral on him.

      Let him please you orally, getting you very wet and excited before insertion. This way you are apt to cum more quickly during the actual act. If this still doesn't work, then come and find me and I will take very good care of you:)

  21. QUESTION:
    which is the best pill to make men last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      more sex

  22. QUESTION:
    How can a man last longer in the bed room?
    What about masturbation before sex
    and doiong that thing when you pee you pee and stop and pe and stop

    do does work

    and what other ways can a man last in bed

    • ANSWER:

  23. QUESTION:
    Is it true the Kegel exercise helps men last longer in bed???
    yea i heard that it does .........does it???

    • ANSWER:
      LOL... thats what i've heard too! It makes you wonder!???

  24. QUESTION:
    How can a man last longer in bed?
    any ideas men and women?

    • ANSWER:
      Hi Mate, the best way to solve a premature ejaculation problem, is to have masturbation a few hours before. Having it any later may stop you having sex at all, Try it and find out what length of time is best for you . Good luck.

  25. QUESTION:
    Why do older guys seem to last longer in bed than younger men?

    • ANSWER:
      Self control.

  26. QUESTION:
    Do Men With Circumsized penis generally last longer in bed?
    I would guess they do because, men that has a uncircumsized would not last as long becasue of the extra skin, and that adds more sensitivity to the head of the penis. And Im speaking in a general sense.

    • ANSWER:
      Nope. A study found that they both last in the 6 minute range:
      http://www.blackwell-synergy.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1743-6109.2005.00070.x

      More or less sensitivity doesn't dictate how long you last. Often it's a mental issue. =) (like if you're worried or over excited, or if you 'pump' too fast and so on. and some guys just orgasm quickly)

  27. QUESTION:
    Do c*ck rings make men last longer in bed?? Does it help with premature ejaculation?? Anybody tried?

    • ANSWER:
      C^ckrings are usually used either as a fetish or to assist keeping an erection for longer.

      I am not aware that they make any difference to PE.

      There may be a placebo effect but i doubt it.

      More frequent sex usually helps.

      M.

  28. QUESTION:
    Do circumsised men last longer in bed?
    Just a question I'd like to know the answer to haha.

    • ANSWER:
      Statistics point to yes. Here's why:
      When a man (as an infant) is circumcised, the glans (head of the penis) loses it's protective "hood". As a result of this, after years of rubbing against underwear and leg skin, the glans becomes less sensitive than the glans of a man who hasn't been butchered, err I mean circumcised. Therefore the uncircumcised man should go off quicker because he hasn't got a dried out, de-sensitised donger.
      Obviously most women desire a man who can last for more than 30 seconds, so maybe you should stick with the "cut" men.

  29. QUESTION:
    Who can last longer/better in bed men or women, and why ?

    • ANSWER:
      Naturally its women ! But men too can outdo their female counterpart in bed with knowledge, experience, booster [ viagra, tongkat Ali etc ]

      But lasting longer doesn't mean any thing if there are no loves, emotion, passion, respect....involved !

  30. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed for men.?
    i dont last that long i dont know why but i hate it .i last like at the max 5 min.what can i do to make it last alot longer.and how do you keep going after you ejaculate

    • ANSWER:
      hope you read this with all the other answers you got but try this. Go to a good book store with a fairly large selection and look for books written about the Karma Sutra. the reason I say go into a store - there are quite a few books on this subject and some are well researched & written while others are not. & you cant leaf thru a book online. The Karma Sutra is from the Eastearn India Pakistan area, its their cultural beliefs and religion and sexual rituals all wrapped together.
      Now if you can get find a real good book on it, once you get past the illustrations / descriptions of the many different sexual positions, they describe in depth many different things men can do to achive climax without ejaculation. and with practice you can do this and last several hrs if not all nite. Believe me it is true , I had a bf that showed me the book and what it did for him.

  31. QUESTION:
    Which/What pill can be used to make a man last longer in bed?
    So I'm sexually involved with someone that doesn't last more than 10 minutes in bed... if it wasn't for the timing the sex would be phenomenol... what can he use?

    • ANSWER:

  32. QUESTION:
    Does anyone know of any herbs to help a man last longer in bed?
    Please help I really would like to have my husband last a while longer!!
    I guess I wasn't specific enough. My husband will be 33 next month and he doesn't have a problem with getting it hard ;) The problem he has is that he cums in like 2 minutes. If he tries really hard he might last five minutes but hat is with a lot of stopping and saying don't move. Thanks for all your help.

    • ANSWER:
      Survival of the Fastest

      What if premature ejaculation isn't a curse after all, but simply "survival of the fastest"? According to Mark Jeffrey Noble, M.D., a consultant to the Cleveland Clinic Glickman Urological Institute, "One might find some logical sense, from an evolutionary point of view, to the idea that males who can ejaculate rapidly would be more likely to succeed in fertilizing a female than those males who require prolonged stimulation to reach climax."

      So in that sense, maybe PE isn't a sexual dysfunction at all -- it's a completely normal way of functioning, based on male physiology. That's why we should stop calling it "premature" ejaculation and come up with a new, more accurate term: "immature ejaculation." Because, frankly, that's what it is: an immature way of doing things that largely stems from the way we're taught, or rather, not taught, to masturbate in childhood.

      Most young men, fearing discovery, masturbate furtively and quickly, unwittingly exploiting, and simultaneously hard-coding, their natural propensity to rapidly achieve gratification. Weight lifters talk about "muscle memory." I believe that premature ejaculators experience "penis memory." No wonder the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey observed in his book Sexual Behavior in the Human Male that the average man can maintain penetrative thrusting for only about 2 minutes. (However, Cosmo readers said the average guy lasts 10 to 15 minutes.) We've trained ourselves to ejaculate quickly, and we need to relearn the process of sexual response in order to last longer.
      The Sensitive Man

      At first, like any overexcited teenager, I dealt with PE in the usual ways: masturbating before going out on dates (which helps, but becomes less effective as you get older and require more downtime between erections); downing beers; and donning double, even triple, condoms. I even tried to delay orgasm in the heat of the moment by distracting myself with baseball statistics or images of dead people -- and let me tell you, thinking about corpses during sex: definite mood killer.

      Later, I graduated to herbal remedies, topical ointments, and miracle creams advertised in the backs of porn magazines. On one occasion, my little experiments led to an acid burn of my penis in the men's room of a Japanese restaurant.

      In yet another doomed effort, I put the Errol Flynn method to the test: a dab of cocaine on the tip of the penis. The matinee idol once explained that it could be helpful "if you're quick on the trigger." But it didn't work for me, and I doubt it really worked for Flynn. He claimed to have slept with more than 13,000 women in his lifetime. Now, how the hell are you going to do that without being a premature ejaculator?
      Am I Coming or Going?

      The day Tara left for Hong Kong -- giving me 3 weeks to shape up or clear out -- I spiraled to an all-time low. In a desperate attempt to keep that ring on her finger, I tried every type of radical therapy. There was biofeedback treatment, in which an electrode was inserted where I least wanted it, and I was encouraged to engage in an activity once thought to cause blindness in teenagers; self-hypnosis tapes that lulled me into such a deep trance with its sounds of water being stopped and started that I woke up soaked in my own urine; and a session with a German "masturbation specialist" who sternly observed and critiqued my methods of self-pleasure, all the while keeping time with a metronome and commanding me to "stop, start, squeeze; stop, start, squeeze!"

      By the time Tara returned, I was a complete mess. I didn't know if I was coming or going. Or, for that matter, if I'd be coming and then going after having sex with her.

      And as she emerged from the shower and came to bed, naked and glistening, I was so nervous, I didn't just prematurely ejaculate, I spontaneously ejaculated.

      True to her word, she left me. Don't feel bad. I don't. (Anymore.) And don't worry, either. According to the MensHealth.com and Cosmopolitan survey, less than 10 percent of women say they've dumped a guy because he was quick on the draw.

      Shortly after we broke up, I began working with a really terrific sex therapist. I overcame PE within a few months, using six techniques. (See the Related article: "6 Steps to Beat PE".) I was so transformed, and inspired, that I decided to change careers and go down that path myself.

      Today, I continue to learn about PE, which is exactly what the late sex therapist Helen Singer Kaplan, M.D., Ph.D., advised in what is still considered the definitive guide to conquering PE, titled How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation. My struggles led me not only to my passion in life -- writing about sex and helping others through sex therapy -- but to the love of my life, as well: my wife, Lisa. My short story finally found a happy ending.

  33. QUESTION:
    How can i make my man last longer in bed?
    He only lasts for a few mins and comes before I do. Is there some way i can change that????

    • ANSWER:
      Yes to your second question.

      If he lasts a few minutes he is normal, and there is little you should do,

      but there are certainly ways you can cure your own FSD. and thus

      reduce the discrepancy between you.

      M.

  34. QUESTION:
    what tablets/pills are the available for men to last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      Viagra,levitra or cialis:
      Nothing else will work.
      Cubes

  35. QUESTION:
    How can a man last longer in bed without getting "off"?
    he sticks it in 5 times and cums, anyway to cure this without goign to the doc??? Weve tried less foreplay more foreplay....

    • ANSWER:
      thicker less sensitive condoms

  36. QUESTION:
    How to make your man last longer in bed?
    everytime we go to have sex i mean we will do the 4play and all of that and he will cum so fast i mean like in 2min. he has already got off. and we have even tried doing it and letting him get off the in about an hour try it again and he still cums

    • ANSWER:
      He's being selfish......and try to do less foreplay on him...focus more on you....... and he can control his ejaculation..so he;s just being selfish..

  37. QUESTION:
    How can you get a man to last longer in bed? If ya know what I mean?!?!?!?
    My sex life is alright, but my husband only last like 3 minutes before he comes... Is there anything I can do to make him last longer. We have sex frequently I just need a little more than 3 minutes.. Is there anything we can do to make him last longer???

    • ANSWER:
      He needs to learn how to back off when he's close to his climax, so he can buy some time.

  38. QUESTION:
    why women loves men who last longer in bed?
    please somebody gives the clue

    • ANSWER:
      because she want play for along time, but man can't do that. So if you suffer this pain ( I meant premature ejaculation ) you need read this information http://www.ejaculationsaid.com

  39. QUESTION:
    how long does it take before you start to last longer in bed?
    i was just curiouse im an 18 year old guy iv had sex 3 time with my ex girlfreind and i was just wondering how long it takes or how many times it takes before you start to last longer in bed.

    also how long does the average man last in bed

    • ANSWER:
      In most cases the more comfortable you get with the woman, the longer you last

      I don't think there's an average time... some men ejaculate in under two minutes, some can train themselves to last much longer

      I for instance used to last between 5 and 7 minutes and had to stop alot... now I can go about half an hour non-stop, and give my girl multiples

      this guide greatly helped:

      https://www.mistermanpower.net/blog/mr-manpowers-guide-to-overall-manhood-enhancement-the-ultimate-sex-guide-for-men.php

  40. QUESTION:
    Why is it that women last longer in bed than men(climaxing)?

    • ANSWER:
      because we are made differently and can have multiples.

  41. QUESTION:
    tell me simple way how can a man last longer in bed?
    I just need some help, its really important to me.
    every single night make me bored,

    please help me.

    • ANSWER:

  42. QUESTION:
    tips for men to last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      take a rubber band and put it behind your dick and balls! it works

  43. QUESTION:
    What is a good way for your man to last longer in bed?
    Hey guys,

    So Basically my question says it all, I was wondering if anyone out there knows of a sexual supplement for longer lasting sex?

    For example: Pills, something to drink, cream/lotion, oil etc etc

    Thanks all for your help :)

    • ANSWER:
      He needs to focus on other things during sex and not focus on oh my look what Im doing Im getting some, because we work off of visuals the more we see the harder it is to hold back. try turning off all the lights and see if that helps. As for supplements they are all a waste of money and time its all about mind control and if he cares enough about you he will try to hold it a little longer so he is not the only one satisfied.

  44. QUESTION:
    Men: Have you tried anything that made you last longer in bed?

    Something other than masturbating- once he gets off once, seems like that's it for the day.

    • ANSWER:
      Ejaculation control exercises have greatly helped me to last longer in bed... the male multiple orgasm technique, which lets you maintain your erection after orgasm, also has worked wonders for my lasting power

      Check this out: https://www.mistermanpower.net/ejaculation_control.cfm

  45. QUESTION:
    How do you make a man last longer in bed without Viagra?

    • ANSWER:
      You know how guys can make their d*** move by flexing thier muscle down there? Have him practice moving it up and down like that, it will strengthen it and he will start to last longer.

  46. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed. Preventing premature ejaculation? .?
    I have performed sexually adequate in the past but still would like to be more of a man and last as long as possible. The only things I have done that allow me to last longer that have been effective are taking cold showers for a few days before (builds testosterone), and masturbating before a hot date.

    So if anyone that has methods that they use for lasting longer in bed or just doing a better job, help a guy out please.

    • ANSWER:
      Sex is largely psychological. Stop thinking about attaining orgasm altogether. I know some will disagree and argue that is what sex basically is all about, attaining mind blowing orgasm.

      I discovered this accidentally. I used to have acute premature ejaculation problems with my former girlfriend. She was my first and understandably, I couldn't last long whenever I was already inside her due to over excitement and eagerness causing her frustrations. One time, I was near-orgasm when she abruptly pushed me aside. I asked her what went wrong but she offered no explanation. I can't explain exactly what occurred after that but I swear I felt I have total control over my urge to ejaculate afterwards. Maybe I subconsciously realized that it's not that bad and won't do any harm to me when I don't ejaculate or delay it at least. Or I am mind-conditioned that I would be deprived just like the last time that I must not expect to ejaculate or orgasm the next time.

      And I felt more fulfilled with my sex life having attained this total control over my urge to ejaculate. I am now finding time to enjoy appreciating my partner reactions whenever I obliged to her clamor for intensity. Unlike the former me that I would ejaculate at the slightest cue of sexual pleasure coming from her. I now appreciate all the sensual pleasure without the uncontrollable urge to orgasm.

      Also, monitoring and regulating your breathing also helps. By doing this you are consciously forcing your body to relax and venting out the tension that is building up. Accumulated tension is contributory to orgasm.

      Try this one.. very effective:

      http://mhlnk.com/3F30DE07

  47. QUESTION:
    how can i make or help my man last longer in bed?
    is there a way i can help? i heard on tv about the guy tightening a muscle but im not really sure what it is.......... any advice?

    • ANSWER:
      the problem with the advice ive seen other give of "have him pull out, wait, then start again" is that then you might have trouble reaching orgasm at all!

      try switching up the sexual acts you two are doing while keeping the stimulation a constant. For example, if he feels like he is getting close, have him slow down, stop, or pull out. BUT while he is "taking a break" so to speak, make sure he continues to pleasure you (oral, using hands, etc).

      There are also special lubricants and condoms that you can use that are supposed to make the man last longer, but I've never known first hand if they work :

      Also men tend to last much longer "the second time around," as in after already having orgasmed 10-20 minutes prior. If he's up for it, you could go for it twice (but let him rest for a few minutes after his first orgasm) and you might find that he lasts a lot longer the second time around while still very much enjoying the experience :)

      I was on a medication for a while that made me orgasm within like seconds which sucked haha so the "going at it twice in a row" method is what I did when I had that issue.

  48. QUESTION:
    How can ma friend make her man last longer in bed!? he Cums too quickly?

    • ANSWER:
      if he is a young man, say under 20, it is not uncommon for this to happen - most men last longer after they gain experience in bed - you learn techniques for slowing the ejaculation process - if your friend is patient and helps him he will get better with more experience - my first time was like 20 seconds - after about a year i could hang in there an hour or more

  49. QUESTION:
    How long do men last in bed?
    This is only counting intercourse and not the foreplay. How long from entering until ejaculation does the average guy last?

    • ANSWER:
      Anywhere from 3 to 10 minutes is normal.
      If a guy actually stays hard and cannot orgasm by then, that's actually very unusual. The male body is designed to copulate very quickly. It takes practice to last even 10 minutes of actual thrusting, and longer than that takes more practice.
      Men, it really is the foreplay that is important. If she climaxes before you enter, or at least is right on the edge, then it doesn't matter how long you last. 5 to 10 minutes is enough, again, IF you treat her right before hand. If she's begging for it, then she's ready.

  50. QUESTION:
    What can you do to make your man last longer in bed ( or wherever your doing it at the time )?
    My partner is amazing in bed but he has to stop sometimes during so he doesn't "ejaculate" lol - what a word. And I wonder how I can help him so we don't have to do this whole stopping thing.
    I don't help because I carry on moving haha but I can't help it, I love him so much, I want to make the best of what we have
    Help ??

    • ANSWER:
      well the bj first really does help - plus it makes it bigger and harder. i kno my honey well nuff to kno when he's gonna break so once i see the signs (eyes rolling, face all screwd up, tensing, more shallow faster strokes and the growling) i just switch positions or i start squeezing my inner muscles in a different way to distract him and the moment passes and he has to start building it up again. when i've had enuff then i'll hold the position tight so he can finally get his - believe me he doesn't mind bc the more buildup the better the release - or so he says...


Last Longer In Bed For Men

Written By: admin - Mar• 13•12

A lot of men across the world have problems with premature ejaculation (PE). Even if it is a theme that is hardly ever talked about by men up to 70% will have problems in their lifetime. However, there are many non medical and natural ways to last longer in bed for men.

One alternative is to gently squeeze just below the head of the penis as climax approaches. The exerts pressure on the urethra and pushes blood out of the penis. Restricting blood flow at this point will end the ejaculatory reflex.

Another alternative is to know the different stages of sexual response. The four phases are excitement, plateau, orgasm and resolution. The key is to remain at the excitement and plateau stages for as long as possible. Sex need to be slowed down or even momentarily stopped if orgasm is approaching.

There are important advantages to a man if he presses into the vagina instead of thrusting. Lingering at the vagina head where the clitoris is will not merely stimulate the female but suppress an orgasm for longer. Small shallow movements are desirable, penetrating no more than 3 inches into the vagina.
Varying the position for sex can quite frequently bring about longer lasting sex. Allowing a woman the sit on top of the penis truly stimulates it less. A slow and constant thrust by the woman will result in the excitement stage of sex lasting a lot longer.

The control of breathing could regulate the ejaculatory response. If a man could regulate breathing as the point of climax approaches he may finally be able to delay ejaculation. Knowing the stages leading up to climax is crucial. A man should be able to identify when ejaculation may happen and instead of panicking at the thought train his mind to calm down and perhaps think of other things.

This theme is quite frequently embarrassing for both men and women to discuss freely but addressing these problems will more than likely cause a much more honest and successful relationship.

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Last Longer In Bed Book

Written By: admin - Mar• 12•12

If you want to get rid of premature ejaculation and last longer in bed, there are many ways of doing so but perhaps the most important and one of the easiest to do is to simply learn how to control the way you breathe. It costs nothing just 5 minutes of your time so find out how here.

While controlling your breathing is an obvious way to delay ejaculation and last longer in bed, many men simply fail to practice it.

Breathing Correctly Tips

When you are involved in intercourse as you are about to orgasm, your breathing naturally quickens and your heart rate increases dramatically:

From a rate of about 35-40 breaths to more than 50 breaths per minute.

Of all the physiological elements that are involved in sexual intercourse, breathing is the ONLY one that you can influence and that's why it's such a great way to last longer in bed.

Tip

If you make a conscious effort to breathe at a slower rate, your heart rate will decrease in numbers of beats per minute and thus enable you to last longer - Simple?

Of course it is! And logical so lets look at how you can learn to breathe in such a manner that you can delay orgasm for yourself and enable your partner to be satisfied to
Try this simple method of breathe control:

Take a long, deep inhale of breath, make a conscious effort to count slowly to 3, exhale as slowly as you can.

Maintain slow rhythmic, controlled breathing while doing this over and over again.
When you are coming close to orgasm, your breathing will naturally start to quicken as you become more aroused.

When this occurs, its time to concentrate on long, slow breaths - to do this inhale hold for a few seconds, and then exhale slowly and continue to do this until you fall back from the edge. Your body will become more relaxed and you will not ejaculate. Any orgasm always by its very nature feature fast breathing and you are controlling yours to prevent this from happening.

You are in effect fooling your body that it's not the right time to come!

You can also use this method:

Forget about using your mouth to inhale use your nose instead and breathe slowly through it. Breathing through the nose means your breathing is naturally slower, the nostrils are simply smaller than your mouth and this means breathes take longer to complete. If you get near orgasm and keep your mouth FIRMLY closed. At the same times you do this remember to keep your breathing slow and regular.

Always keep in mind to keep your breathing under control - it's the key to lasting longer in bed and is easy to do if you focus on it.

Always:

Breathe slowly, rhythmically and deeply.

Deeply inhale, hold and then slowly exhale concentrate on keeping the breathes rhythmic and slow.

If you feel you have to stop thrusting to delay ejaculation i.e you have gone to far do so but - still keep the slow nose breathing going during the break.

This will calm your body down quicker

Breathing is as we have said the ONLY psychological aspect we can control so use it to its maximum affect!

We get excited during sex (obviously) and anytime we get excited our breathing quickens to relax you need to control and slow your breathing it really is that simple.

If you look at yoga and other disciplines that can be used to relax you they ALL concentrate on the power of controlling breathing and it's the same in sexual intercourse!

If you want to banish premature ejaculation then take control of your breathing and you will last longer in bed and ANYONE can master the simple tips above and they will work for you - just try them!

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    How do I last longer in bed?
    Like I don't get it? How do those pornstar guys do it?!
    lol and they are doing some hot women.
    I mean I'm 16 and when I'm with my girl I last like 45 min. tops.
    and she gets there, but do other girls need more time than that to orgasm?
    So is there some tricks to last long enough to finish the Kama Sutra book?

    • ANSWER:
      45 minutes isn't bad at all...if you want/need even more time, think of nonsexual things and maybe stop for a bit and just continue to stimulate her with your fingers until you have yourself under control again. You can even practice while masturbating--just see how long you can keep going and what's right for you.

  2. QUESTION:
    how do i last longer in bed?
    ive been searching for some answers and most is just bs or id have to pay to get some book that would tell me. so what are some ways to last longer in bed, and no pills or stuff like that.

    • ANSWER:
      when my husband is about to reach the point of no return he'll switch things up, into a new position so he'll have to get up to that point all over again. it takes time and practice though I'm sure.

  3. QUESTION:
    How can i last longer in bed?
    Hello there, im about to have sex with a girl and she says she doesnt want to have sex for 10 minutes for her first time. but little does she know i dont last longer than 5 minutes. I do masturbate a lot. i have been since 06. so i guess my body is trained to ejaculate fast. Which i regret doing before.
    So i just wanna know How to last long in bed because i really want to satisfy her.
    i dont want any pills, books, sprays, none of that stuff.
    and if you can throw in how to make your penis a little bigger, i would appreciate it alot. no pills, books, sprays either. im about 4.5 inches, and i wanna be bigger.

    So if you can tell me how to last long in bed and how to increase my size. i would really appreciate it. Please and thank you.

    • ANSWER:
      Penis enlargement exercises work if you do them properly. Join a good program with videos and good support, you'll get bigger and last longer. It worked for me.

  4. QUESTION:
    Men, how do you alst longer in bed?
    Well, I used to do alright and now I have a girlfriend and I finished pretty quickly, then the second time I didn't finish but the protection broke in the middle of it, and I think I lasted longer because we switched positions three times. But I thought I was good except for today I finished quickly again. I know the usual put her on top and breath and all that crap. I don't want to think about dead kittens I want to enjoy my sex life. I was thinkin of buying a book or something but what helped you?? Also I know the it will get better with expierance, but I want the best for my girlfriend and I dont want to be finishing that quickly.

    • ANSWER:
      Hi,

      You can try the squeeze technique to overcome this

      This method works as follows:

      Step 1. Begin sexual activity as usual, including stimulation of the penis, until you feel almost ready to ejaculate.

      Step 2. Have your partner squeeze the end of your penis, at the point where the head (glans) joins the shaft, and maintain the squeeze for several seconds, until the urge to ejaculate passes.

      Step 3. After the squeeze is released, wait for about 30 seconds, then go back to foreplay. You may notice that squeezing the penis causes it to become less erect, but when sexual stimulation is resumed, it soon regains full erection.

      Step 4. If you again feel you're about to ejaculate, have your partner repeat the squeeze process.

      By repeating this as many times as necessary, you can reach the point of entering your partner without ejaculating. After a few practice sessions, the feeling of knowing how to delay ejaculation may become a habit that no longer requires the squeeze technique.

  5. QUESTION:
    What are the benefits of karma sutra?
    Would me learning karma sutra allow me to last longer in bed, or would be allow me to pleasure my partner better? I just want someone to tell me in simple terms what it gives me overall and also what books would be good for it. thanks

    • ANSWER:
      Live up to more than 100 years old

      Kama Sutra - 3 Best Positions For Sex and More
      In This article we are going to look at what the Kama Sutra is about and cover the three best positions for sexual enjoyment.

  6. QUESTION:
    I ejaculate during the first 20 seconds of sex.?
    I ejaculate way to fast. I've researched ways to help, but they always cost money and I can't afford the help books. What are some things that would help me to last longer in bed? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

    • ANSWER:
      You sound like you're a teenager. It changes with age.

  7. QUESTION:
    ladies would you stay with a guy if ?
    you found out he couldnt last more than 1 or 2 minutes on average,3 minutes the most in bed. im in my 30s, ive tried every method, book,trick,doctor,ring cream,ect, to last longer in bed, im just a (minute man). would you stay?would you be happy? or would you move on?

    • ANSWER:
      Honestly, that's a hard question for me... I guess it depends on your skills and your foreplay. Quickies are fun, but only if your in a public place or you don't have much time... But to answer your question, , just the "one minute man" method, no, I woudln't be happy... But if you kept me happy other ways and foreplay, I'd be there to stay for sure...

  8. QUESTION:
    in the last bok of nanria it was sad so i made my own book what do u think?
    The chronicles of Narnia the new beginning

    Chapter 1

    Last time we both left Narnia in the last battle peter Lucy and Edmin died in a railroad crash and went to heaven Narnia but Susan was no longer a friend of Narnia she likes parties and lip gloss worldly things so she did not come with then witch mean she did not die she still lives in the real world thinking life is better that is where we left off but what we did not know was that Susan after the accident Susan thought it over and she looked under her bed and saw the book that Aslen gave her in Prince Caspian looking at the book she deseded it would not hurt to open it so she did and then she remembered prince Caspian and how dearly she missed him so much and how she dearly missed Narnia and remembered that Narnia dose exsist and how stupid she was to forget it. And her brothers and sister she missed them so much. Then she flipped the page and it said. After a king or queen of Narnia dies they go to Narnia Heaven. And she thought about it peter Lucy and Edmen must be in Narnia heaven and then one more flip she saw what was wrighten in big letters. Once a king/queen of Narnia all ways a king/queen of Narnia. She though about it she was once a queen of Narnia and thinking how foolish she is to forget Narnia she hurried to her uncles house to the wardrobe opening the door and hoping it works she went thru it and then that’s it there was a door and it said please tell us how you are through the speaker and she said in a big voce so she was heard. “Queen Susan high Queen of Narnia” and then the door opened and there in her was stood peter Lucy and edmin with there mouths opened not believing it. And Susan first words were “Once a queen of Narnia always a queen of Narnia”. Peter was the first to get over his shock “I….I…..I. don’t believe it how could u get back to narnia u are no more a friend or Narnia” peter said. Susan went over to her big brother and smiled. “ I missed u so much Peter and u Lucy and u edmin” Susan said . Now Lucy was all better and said” u are not going to believe this prince Caspian is here go say hi” Susan was so glad to here that she missed him so much so she ran to him as soon as she saw him and kissed him “ I don’t under stand I thought u were not a friend of Narnia?” prince Caspian said. “it’s a long story but once a queen of narnia always a queen of narnia I missed u “ susan said “ ohh I missed u too susan I knew u wouldn’t leave Narnia at all for nothing I missed u too”
    Peter look at her and said “well now that your here u must tell Aslen” Susan look at peter and said “ OK but u come with me plz I cant face him without you guys” Susan finished “fine we will go with u but we wait outside the tent u are gonna go talk o him “ peter said. “ ok I will” Susan said and they all left for Aslens tent.

    Chapter 2

    So as peter, lucy , edmin, susan, and prince Caspian approached the tent well now it is a casel that Aslen lives in. susan began to think what is it was a bad idea to come to narnia after all ?what is aslen will send me back to the real world. Soon they all stode and looked at a big casel and susan steped up to ring the door bell. for a cupel of minets nothing happen but the the door opend and they all heard a voce say “come in”so susan wwent in and peter lucy edmin and Caspian wated outside for a monet they just stood there then they sat on the ground soon about an hour passed and aslen came out side “Come kings and queens or narnia with me” aslen said. So they all stode up and went in side. Inside they saw susan sitting in a chair and 4 more charis around her so they all sat down. Soon aslen returned to the table and sat down “ ok lets start susan u want to come back to narnia right?” aslen asked. Susan thought a minet the said “ yes I do I have always loved narnia and lelt like a fool to stop narnia was where I becam a queen and aslen u said once a queen always a queen”. alsen looked at her for a minet and then said “ well peter it your chose do u want susan to come back to narnia?” peter lok at his sister ans said “ ofcoures I do I miised her and want her to come back” “ well then susan u are now welcome to stay here in narnia!” aslen said and waled aways “ susan and lucy both jumped up and screamed “ ohm susanim so glade u get to stay I miised u so much didnet u edmin?” lucy asked. Edmin stood up and said “I have missed u so much susan im glad you can stay” so all of the pevensey kids and Caspian went out of the casil and gave susan a tour of narnia.

    Chapter 3

    A little laster when it was time to eat lucy asked susan y she came here and susan ansered by saying I just new I belonged here. Susan didn’t know it yet by there are more resens she came back to narnia. That night suan hered someone saying here name and found prince Caspian outside her tent waiting for her “ hey” he says. “hello did u want something?” asked susan “meet me by the fountan on the bridg tommarow at 10:25 and I wil ask u then “ said prince Caspian and he left. Susan stood there woundering about what he wanted to ask her and why she couldn’t ask her that moment. Then she hear a twig brack someware next to her she cwicly got out her shoting aros and preperd to shoot when all of a suden she hear lucy say “ susan put away ur arrows its just me lucy a repatcheep “ said lucy. Repacheep was a mouse that was very well trusted he helped the kids fight narnia and win. Ohm lucy u scared me I thought it was some mean narnia or or or well someone like prince Caspian” ohh susan said “ohh im sorry susan I just came to check up on u I thought I heard u scream”lucy said turning back to leave “ ohh lucy I know why u came here ur scared to sleep in ur own tent arnt u?” susan asked “ welll I guess I am a little I just am a little scared of what is here in narnia and ohh yea here in narnia heven there are no bad people or animals but I am still scared of it” lucy said “ susan can I sleep with u?” lucy asked and susan nodded and they feel asleep and susan survied her first half day in narnia heaven but she wasent sure if it was really narnia heaven after all.

    Chapter 4

    When susan woke up she went to brush her teeth and looked at her watch it was 10 and it was 15 minet walk to the waterfall so she wetn to wake up peter but he was not in his tent and nevether was edmin and lucy wasent in her tent and susan began to worie but she did have to go so she got on her hores and rgalleped all the way to the water fall. tyied her hores up and got on the bridg. She wated till she saw prince caspians houres and him on it he got off and waled on the bring and said” hello im glade u are here I have something to ask u” susan looked at him and said “go ahead” prince Caspian got on one nee and took her hand and asked her “Susan pevensey queen of narnia will u marry me?” susan look at him and at narnia she couldn’t belev it sure she was 17 and redy to get married so she lok down at Caspian and said “ ofcoures I will marry prince Caspian” and she kissed him and abouv there heads there were buteful colers in the waterfall. And then susan sees peter lucy and edmin standing in a bush and claping she couldn’t belev It she was getting married but what she dident know was that life for all the 4 pevnceys will chang forever!

    Chaptuer 5

    Once again susan started wondering about how much she missed being with her family now she was with them she dident feel so safe anymore, thing that mabey she wasnet in narnia mabey she was still in narnia th old narnia, suddenly she heard something out side her tent she lloked out and saw peter fighting with a animal well a nrnian so she sufently got out of her tent grabed her arrows and shot the narnian peter loked at her and said “ I don’t know what happened I was just about to talk toyou and he atakt me I don’t know what I would have done if u were here I sont have my sowrd yet I must aske prince Caspian for it again” he said smiling . Susan started at him and said nothing the she said” I don’t get it narnia heaven is not supos to have bad animals in it im beging to think this is not narnia heaven .” she said and exsplaind that when she heard something tjat night it wasent only lucy and trumpkin it was something eles. And then peter said “ well ys u are right and aslen is not acting like him self he would have desided him self not have me desid for him”

    Chapter 6

    As peter was going back into his tent he heard something and looked back just to make sure and he saw a girl susans age standing there and looking at him so he says” hello im king peter the high king and who are you?” he askes she lokes at him and says” well I must be in Narnia then if ur the king well im queen splendora queen of nanria” she says back to him. He looks at her to shocked to speck then says.” How did u get here I mean to narina I never met you”. “ well I will tell oyu then I was at my momes friends house he has a big manchin and I loked around and found the old wardrob I usto play in so I went in and then I stepet into nanria klike I did about 9 years ago I was 7 or 6 and I kinda defeted nanria well acshully well my anut in the white witcha dn I tried to stop her and I did well so I thought” the girl said “ ohh by the way call me meg because speledora is my 2 name” she says.Peter looks at her chocked even more and then he says” so u are queen of nanria because u stoped your aunt from taking over nanria and so ur queen and then u came throo a wardrob that meens ur still in nanria not nanria heaven” he says and looks at her for a long time. Well where ever we are we are not in nanria” splendora said. So peter said” well I guess we must talk to aslen about this” and he and splendora went off to find aslen. On there way they saw susan as she looked at splendera and smiled and aked who she was and peter said” wll this is queen splendora and splendora this is queen………..” but he never got to finesh his sentens when a big bird kinda like the ones the white witch controlled was running after lucy right at that second susan took out her arose and shot the bird as soon as it landed on the grond with a thump splendora ran over to it and said “shimmy shimmy from glass and wold shalla la shallala its what I got to do” and the bird got up and said “ im sorry Lucy thw white withch controlled me for a second im really sorry” he said and waled away. Lucy and peter were silend and then susan said “ ur splendora the one that controles the animail arnt you?” sha asked splendora lok at her and smiled “ yes I am and ur susan the one that also controls the animal” she said susans face turnd white “ no im not I don’t knonw what ur talking about “ she said but splendeora walked up to9 here took her hand and put it on a tree and said. “ say it after me shimmer shimmer glass and wood make the bad be good” and susan repeted slowly “ shimmer shimmer…….. glass and wood make the bad be good” and the trees all woke up and started to move still amazed Susan looked at Splendora and asked how she knew that and how Susan knew that and she said “ well my aunt tat me but u you know how to do it because u were made to turn thing bad to good but my aunt taught me to turn thing bad like this shimmy shimmy glass and zad make the good be bad “ but she didn’t touch anything so nothing turned bad “ cool” Lucy said . peter looked at her and asked “ can we all do that ?” Splendora looked at him and said “ I don’t know try” so peter and Lucy tried “shimmer shimmer from glass and wood make that bad be good” and all that trees started to move again “ cool” Lucy said again. And soon even Edwin knew about the powers they never had.

    Chapter 7

    • ANSWER:
      ... leave The Chronicles of Narnia to C.S. Lewis
      Please.

  9. QUESTION:
    My boyfriend doesn't last in bed -- what's going on?
    My boyfriend and I have been together almost three years, sexually active for one, and we've been having sex for three months. I'm not expecting a stallion at this point, but .. sex sometimes lasts between two to fifteen minutes. It might seem to be a lot -- but we're both eighteen, and even though I get what I need from it, I'd like to be able to have sex longer with him instead of worrying about how fast I finish, so that I do so before he does. It make sex stressful.

    We've looked up tips, and read articles, even a book -- about the pinching technique, and yet when I propose it, his excuse is that he doesn't know he's having an orgasm until it's already happening, so that isn't an option. Is that a viable reason or is it an excuse?

    I love him to pieces .. it'd just be nice to do more positions, and to actually enjoy it and enjoy that closeness with him. I'm not looking for five hours of sex, but .. when I'm on top, we go at it for at least an hour.

    Great! I found a solution, right?

    I wish. I have a knee injury now, which I'm about to have surgery on, and I can't be on top.

    Tips, anyone? Thank you. :/

    • ANSWER:
      use a bag
      let him rest for 5-10mins, then do it again
      go slow, make it more passionate
      find each others best pleasure spots before goin at it
      begin with a different position everytime

  10. QUESTION:
    My six year old daughter will not go to sleep until very late at night- any ideas on how to help her sleep?
    She is a very active child and spends her days running about and doing activities. She has a bath, a story and a video or talking book before bed. She wakes up at six most mornings. Every night she lies in bed for longer and longer claiming she is unable to sleep- last night it was 10.30 before she slept- she is really tired and argumentative. She has no e numbers or caffeine- does anyone have any suggestions?

    • ANSWER:
      Does she sleep during the day?

      I would turn off her tv as night time as this might be keeping her awake.

  11. QUESTION:
    Is there any books about penis stretching?
    is there books at the library or a website for free telling you everything? or can you last really long in bed by meditacion your mind or something?

    • ANSWER:

  12. QUESTION:
    is there any books about penis stretching?
    is there books at the library or a website for free telling you everything? or can you last really long in bed by meditacion your mind or something?

    • ANSWER:
      yeh...its a bad idea ill just leave it at that...

  13. QUESTION:
    Premature Ejaculation?
    I have been suffering from Premature Ejaculation and i want to discover new ways so i can last longer in bed. I don't want to pay money for those books so i'm asking if people that have the book can give me a few ways that well help me.

    • ANSWER:
      I don't have the book, but the same muscles you use to stop yourself mid stream during a pee are muscles that will help you last longer, practice that whenever your sitting there not doing anything. Hold it for like 10 seconds, rest for like 10 seconds, and just keep doing that til you can't. Also when you wack it try to last as long as you can, when your about to bust stop, then start again and repeat for as long as you can.

  14. QUESTION:
    ladies,would you stay with a guy you just started dating if?
    you found out he couldnt last more than 1 or 2 minutes, 3 minutes the most in bed? im in my 30s and have tried to practice,learn, every method, trick, doctor ,book,ect,ect.to last longer. im just a (minute man) would you stay? and be happy? or move on?

    • ANSWER:
      There are more ways of satisfying a woman than with an erection. Yes, I would stay if there was a connection....

  15. QUESTION:
    Fahrenheit 451 Journal. Last long paragraph on Pg. 116. Why did Montag think that it was good to know?
    I need help on what this quote means. Its about the long last paragraph in the book Fahrenheit 451. It says: A great nuzzling gout of fire leapt out to lap at the books and knock them against the wall. He stepped into the bedroom and fired twice and the win beds went up in a great simmering whisper, wi th more heat and passion and light than he would have supposed them to contain. He burn t the bedroom walls and the cosmetics chest because he wanted to change everything, the chairs, the tables, and in the dining room the silverware and plastic dished, everything that showed that he had lived here in this empty house with a strange woman who would forget him tomorrow, who has gone and quite forgotten him already, listening to her Seashell Radio pour in on her and in her on her as she rode across town, alone. And as before, it was good to burn, he felt himself gush out in the fire, snatch, rend, rip in half with flame, and putt away the senseless problem. If there was no solution, well then now there was no problem, wither. Fire was best for everything.

    • ANSWER:
      Remember Beatty saying "Fire solves every problem". Well, Montag used fire to "solve" his problems. He wanted it all gone. Burn it, it's solved. He was living a lie.

  16. QUESTION:
    Would you read this whole book (please read this whole section before answering)?
    "They finally split up" Jane quickly wrote to her online penpal "I'm not exactly sure why, or how he is taking it, but that definitely leaves me a chance with him, right?"
    Jane finished typing her letter to sporty29292 and then rushed out the door to catch the bus for school. Sporty29292, his user name is all she really knows about her mysterious, online friend. He isn't a very open person as Jane is and basically just gives her advice of how to get together with her "love" Kyle. Kyle has been with another girl for as long as she can remember and she was determined to become his next girlfriend. Jane and Kyle have been just friends since about second grade and has just begun to have feelings for him.
    At school, Jane speeded down the hall to catch up with him before class started. "I heard about you and Annie. Are you ok?" Jane quickly questioned.
    "Not exactly, but I'll make it through. I hope." He said thinking back to the breakup from just the other night. Him and Annie had fought for about an hour before they finally made the decision to break up with her. Jane could see his dark brown eyes go blank as he thought of his ex-girlfriend.
    "It will all be fine, you'll find someone better like you always do." She reassured him.
    "You're right, like always. I should just forget about her."
    "Good, now I'm going to get to class, I'll catch you later."They both separated and walked into their classrooms. At this point, Jane was thinking of him, but Kyle had a lot more on his mind. He kept thinking, and thinking of ways to completely end things with Annie. He finally came to the decision to give her back all of her things, and keep him self occupied during the day so he wouldn't think of her.
    ***********************
    "Well, they certainly lasted longer than I thought. By what you told me about both of them, they seemed completely wrong for each other. Maybe you should just not bring her up anytime soon, it will make it seem like you want them back together." replied sporty29292 to her previous message. Jane read it carefully, to make sure she followed his advice as correct as possible. Jane was a very precise person, a perfectionist. She has always gotten straight A's with her perfect study skills and exact grammar. It was her senior year and she was determined to be valedictorian of the class of 2009.
    "Too late. I had already mentioned it to him before classes this morning, briefly. You know, we talk about me all the time. Why don't you ever bring anything up about you?" She wrote after finally finding the words to say.
    "Jane! Get your butt down here for supper!" she suddenly heard. Her mom had finally finished the fettuccine alfredo and wanted her to get down before it got cold.
    Meanwhile, Kyle was at home trying to find every little thing that belonged to Annie. He wanted the memory of them out of his head forever. Deep in side, he knew that wasn't possible, but he was certainly going to try. He found a picture of them and her compact mirror she had left when she was over last. He put that and all the clothes she bought him, into a box and was ready to give it to her at school the following day. But, as he lay in his bed, he couldn't stop thinking about her until he finally drifted asleep.

    if you didn't like any concept of this please feel free to leave a good topic for a new book. plus this book is aimed towards the age group between 10-15 (preteens

    • ANSWER:
      Great Dialog! Keep writing! - one hint: read it aloud to yourself and look for what I call "stumbling points" any place the dialog of prose makes you pause (draw you out of the story) should be considered for revising. (Unless intentional :-) )

  17. QUESTION:
    Why we human beings are so gullible?
    We buy programs/books/courses/pills for loosing fat, build up huge muscles, get a bigger penis, get rich, last longer in bed, speak with angels/deva/fairies, think positive, get healed, we believe in huge scams every day, we see something on TV or a magazine and we believe to everything... and the list could go on and on.
    Clever people make billions selling us stuff like that every day...
    How come we are so naive?!?

    • ANSWER:
      humans are an ignorant race

  18. QUESTION:
    Do you like this book?
    I'm a 12 year old writer... here is a piece of a book I'm writing... what do you think? What can I change? It's the beginning only... forgive any spelling mistakes.

    Chapter 1
    “The opposite of war isn’t peace, it’s creation.”

    I

    To my nightmares I must recurr,
    Behind the curtain I musn’t look,
    Beyond the package the gift is pure,
    But the key wont turn.

    He crossed the last line, he wasn’t inspired, yet he hadn’t been inspired the whole week. He flipped through the pages of his notebook, he was a writer, but he didn’t feel like one. His notebook was full of poetry and metaphors and beautiful pieces of art, but it wasn’t his. Daniel felt like a cheap copy, a fake image of other writers, not knowing his style, not knowing his place, and the phrases of others authors haunted him, almost forcing him to write what they wrote, forcing him to write their feelings and not his own. Yet, he was in, he was in the Academy, now it was true, it wasn’t a dream anymore, it wasn’t a fantasy. He needed to find his feelings before he got there, he was afraid, but where could he look, not the whole “look in your soul” crap, he didn’t need the place to find his feelings, he needed someone to tell him where to look.

    II

    He folded the letter, just to reopen it again, he placed in his pocket, just to take it out again, to reassure it was true, just to make sure he wasn’t dreaming like he always was. He was in, yet he never thought he could do it. He was gasoline without a fire, he was snow, so gentle and quiet, yet the sky wants to scream. Jonathan was an actor, a good one they said, people believed in him, but he didn’t believe in himself.

    III

    Her feet lingered in the water, it was frigid, unpleasant to any human feet, but she needed distraction from her inner pain, cold couldn’t compare. She moved her feet from side to side distracted, engaging the pool in small tide waves, the sound comforted her. Emily was a singer, when she sand even the birds stopped and listened, it was magic in sound, but it seemed like the Acedemy didn’t think so. She was convinced she was gonna be accepted, she felt embarrassed, all the bloathing and confidence, and now nothing. She had everything prepared, even her parents had the money ready, but everything was on stand-by. She kicked the pool hard and got up on the concrete, the relief was instantaneous, but it didn’t last long. She put on some sandals and walked, head down towards the mail-box, for the third time.

    IIII

    Monique’s heart had her own rhythm, yeah, it was the same song, but her dancing was completely different. She had never thought of herself like everyone else, she had her style, her likes, she went against the current and fought the odds, everyone climbed the mountain, but she, she jumped off the cliff sure of her wings to take flight. She was another tree in the forest, but this tree was closest to the stars. Since she had memory, her body was always moving to a music, wheather classical or hip-hop, most of her life she had spent in a room, dancing. She didn’t hide under lipstick and drank diet soda like all the other girls, she knew a real dancer, was that who didn’t need a grease-less body to look beautiful. Monique’s dancing was real, as real as gum stuck in your shoe, as real as darkness, as real as fear, as real as a cockroach in a parking lot, and as real as passion and love, if dancing wasn’t that itself. Her talent had always been appreciated, and the Academy wasn’t an exception, she was in, she had never doubted it.

    IIIII

    She stretched her arm to the far-side of her bed, wondering, like she did every night if she would wake up alone. Her life had been a broken promise, not exactly a failure, but a fallen dream, like a killed warrior. She dreaded this day, when letters would be sent home, to talented children, and yet so many others who were just as talented would make a decision that would change the course of their lives forever. They would quit on their passion, they would turn their back on everything they had thought of as their future. She passed her feet through the soft silk of her sheet, hugging her pillow, she once had dreams too.

    • ANSWER:
      Well I am not sure where you are going with having everything broken apart like this. This is actually very distracting and nothing is happening in this section. If this is the start of your story, it is weak. What you need to do is bring all these pieces together into a whole. Think about what needs to be accomplished in each chapter of your story and write according to that. I think it will help make your writing tighter and not make your reader feel so lost. Also, you need to invest in a good punctuation book because you have tons of run on sentences. Good luck.

  19. QUESTION:
    Opinions on my book so far? No one gave me an answer last time, so please answer!?
    Chapter 1

    "Where did you get this?" A woman asked, taking the book from a man. She was dressed in rags, and covered in dirt and bruises.
    "It doesn't matter. Just take it and make sure none of the king's knights find out," a dark-haired man said quickly.
    "Don't worry Weston, I will not, and God bless you!" She thanked him, walked away. Weston took out another book exactly like the one he just gave away, and walked through the village.
    "Peter!" Weston called in a hushed tone. It took Peter several moments before he finally spotted him, and trotted over.
    "More Bibles, Weston? I thought we agreed you weren't going to give them out anymore. It's too dangerous," he warned.
    "We can't lose our faith in God," he said. Peter sighed.
    "I know, but sooner or later King William will find out."
    "As long as we still trust in God," Weston said, handing the book to him. Peter smiled.
    "Thank you. I will keep this safe. But if you're still going to give Bibles to the villagers, keep them out of sight. A patrol of knights just came in this morning," Peter warned. Weston suddenly stiffened, and he quickly shoved Peter away.
    "Get out of here," Weston hissed in his ear.
    "What's going on?"
    "The knights are watching us. They've come for me," Weston whispered, fear rising in this voice.
    "I'm not leaving you," Peter insisted.
    "I said get out of here! This is my fight, just get somewhere safe," Weston snapped, pushing him with all his strength. Peter reluctantly left him, and hurried into the village, leaving Weston in the middle of the street in broad daylight. A little further down the street, Weston saw a group of four knights who glared at him, moving slowly in his direction. Weston abruptly disappeared around the corner of a house in an attempt to escape, but the knights broke into a run after him.
    "Stop him!" One of the knights yelled. Everyone looked around wildly as they all passed, shoving their way through. Weston pushed his way through the crowd, and darted into his house, sweat dripping down his face.
    "What's wrong?" A girl questioned as she came down.
    "Get back upstairs," he snapped urgently. The girl flicked a strand of dark brown hair from her face as she looked at the man through the wooden boards, and could see the fear in his eyes. She gasped and scurried up the steps to hide under her bed. Only a moment later, the door was thrust wide open.
    "Where are you hiding?" Came a bellowing voice in the doorway. Weston hugged his knees to his chest in coldblooded fear as he hear them walking around the house.
    "There he is, Sir," a knight pointed to the figure crouched under the stairs.
    "Seize him," the first knight commanded. Two knights came through the door and hauled Weston from his hiding place.
    "Weston Browne, my sources tell me you're selling illegal books," the knight spat in disgust, his hot breath brushing against Weston's face. The trembling man only stared at the knight speechlessly, who was wearing full body armor, and had a sward attached to his belt which made him nervous.
    "I wasn't selling them, I was-"
    "That's not the issue!" The knight interrupted, gripping him fiercely by the arm.
    "But it was only the Bible… Sir," he choked out, his black hair plastered to his forehead from sweat.
    "Exactly. And what's one of King William's rules?" He asked mockingly. Weston sighed.
    "Believing God is against the law."
    "So I assume you were aware of this rule, weren't you?" he questioned. Weston looked down in defeat, but didn't answer. "Weren't you?" The knight yelled at him again, tightening his grip. Weston looked up, his face pale from horror.
    "Yes," he half sobbed
    "He confesses!... Take him away," he ordered the others instantly.
    "I don't care if I go to prison! I'd rather die there than live by King William's preposterous rules!" Weston screamed at them. A knight suddenly whipped around, unsheathing his sword and pressed it against his neck.
    "Or you could die right now," he hissed. Another knight stopped him.
    "Only King William can decide his fate." He told him. With those words, the knights left, dragging Weston along the dirt path as they made their way out of the village.
    Once the house had been silent for several minutes, the girl emerged from her bed and rushed outside. She could barely see the knights advancing down the mountain path, taking Weston along. She burst into tears and fell to her knees in agony.
    "Ella?" Came a voice from behind. "Ella! What happened?" A boy asked as he rushed to her side. He
    To Elder Delphiki: This book takes place in Medieval Europe. No one wants King William to be ruler, but he's a murderous wretch who will kill any one who questions his authority. But I did like your tips, and I'm glad I'm not the only one struggling to get better at writing. I really love to do it though. From this story, I've written about 190 pages worth. I know it will take some work to make my writing better. Thanks for the useful tips!

    • ANSWER:
      I LOVE it! I seriously do! When it started talking about Bibles I was hooked. Is this man going to be a martyr? I'm a Christian so of course this is really interesting for me. Good job! I love it! Did I already say that?
      I LOVE IT!!!!,
      kk

  20. QUESTION:
    Taoist advice or anyone in a school of regeneration please?
    After reading Daniel P Reid's book "the tao of health, sex, and longevity" I've learned to last much longer in bed. I understand that the semen must be retained, but I haven't found the will to do so. I'm in my late 20s. Learned to masturbate after the age of 25, married for over 6 years. Some times I have sex with my wife up to 3 times a day, usually we have over 10 hours of intercouse a week. Sometimes I come, sometimes I don't. I find myself watching porn and masturbating at times. My ejaculation frquency is about 1 1/2 days in average. I'd really like to know what could motivate me, convence me, or give me the edge to lower this ejaculation frequency to once every 15 days at the most.
    Do you have any tips on this matter?
    P.S: schools of regeneration: Tantric Buddhism of Tibet, the Yellow Church of the Lamas, Sufism with its dancing dervishes, Chan Buddhism of China, etc.
    Any insult or incendiary comment to these beliefs will be reported.
    Related reading:
    http://www.1vigor.com/article/ejaculation-frequency/
    http://gnostic-community.org/schools/about-schools/types-of-spiritual-schools
    ...
    and what I mean by a long time is 2 hours of uninterrupted intercourse at a time.
    Note on masturbation: doesn't help in this path.

    • ANSWER:
      Taoist advice: do not forget the here and now.
      Do you have any tips on this matter? Let your love spread everywhere, flooding everything, so that nothing can hold it, so that nothing can contain it. Let your aim be to generate so much love that no one but God can tolerate it. Only the unlimited can sustain the unlimited. No finite receptacle can hold the infinite. A love that is unbounded will fill it, flow over it, flow beyond it. It will be given more than its share, but it will be far beyond its expectations, far more than it can hold.

  21. QUESTION:
    robert pattinson (edward cullen "twilight and new moon star") goin overboard?
    ive heard many rumors of the twilight (new moon included) stars including
    kristen smoking pot?
    robert and nikkie goin out?
    and rob goin over board whilst filming a piece in the bedroom of "bella swan"! aka... they were doin a kissing seen on bellas bed or some where and robert got a little excited, goun over board (liturally aswell lol), and fell of the bed, then kristens b-friend michael gave him the lecture of who is whoes girlfriend! warning him that kristen is his love not robs (lol!) i dont get it????? true false? and really there isent egsactley a scene like "that" in new moon if ya no what i mean!!!!

    HELP! thankyou sooo much (=

    p.s there is 5 movies not 4 cause the last book is too long )= =)
    its good cause they wont rush the last movie, bad because we have to wait longer for the ending )=

    thanxx in advance (=
    no it goes...
    twilight- movie 1
    new moon - movie 2
    eclipse-movie 3
    and breaking dawn is seperated into 2 movies soo that is movies 5 and 6!
    ( eclipse and new moon are different movies) one is coming out this november (new moon) and the other next year in june... not sure bought breaking dawn soz )=
    lol i totally agree i dont care whos dating and what there smoking just simple curious! i agree that th paparatzie are a little to crazy i mean they watch every inch of movement cause their movie became a success! lol! love the series (a little obsessed i may add) but yeah (= rumprs are rumores (=
    lol i totally agree i dont care whos dating and what there smoking just simple curious! i agree that th paparatzie are a little to crazy i mean they watch every inch of movement cause their movie became a success! lol! love the series (a little obsessed i may add) but yeah (= rumors are rumores (=

    • ANSWER:
      Twilight is overrated.
      The reason those stories appear anywhere and everywhere is for publicity as well as cashing in on the hype of said movie.
      And who cares who's dating who and who's smoking what.
      It's their lives, their choices, their downfalls-whatever.
      Ka-ching!

  22. QUESTION:
    Is this a good way to start my book? Rate 1-10?
    My book is gonna be about 5 teenagers. They are all connected in a way, and they all have their own set of problems. and with each chapter, it will be in a different persons point of view. It will rotate. This is how the first chapter will begin. is it good? And gripping? Thanks! :)

    I searched my room for it. I searched my house for it. I scoured the whole school for it. But it was nowhere. It was officially gone. Yeah, I’m screwed I thought. I looked again, and of course it wasn’t there. So, I just started my homework. Sure mom would flip her lid, but too bad. I did my assigned reading, (It was a dumb book about some kid who ran away from all his problems in life and then ended up dying at the age of 21) my essay that was due next month, and my math homework. I was done with everything including extra credit, and I knew there was no way to avoid it any longer.
    I slowly crept down the stairs, trying not to make a lot of noise. I walked into my mom’s bedroom and saw my mother on her bed reading a book, the Davinci code was the name on the cover. I knocked on the door and she looked up, I shuddered at the sight of her face. I know this sounds mean, but the last few months had aged her a lot. The stress of… our problems, were literally killing her. Her face had gotten wrinkly and her eyes were constantly blood shot. She looked like a zombie… well maybe not that bad… but, it had gotten pretty bad. This made me sad, because at one time she had been an incredibly beautiful woman, with her jet black hair (now streaked with gray) and her chocolate brown eyes and tan skin. She and I looked somewhat similar. But I look more like my dad. Too bad he is not here now.

    • ANSWER:
      I would give it a 4
      I'm not pulled into this story. Although it is in the middle of an action, the action itself isn't all the exciting. The other problem is it is being told as opposed to shown. Drop the 'ed' and try writing it in present tense to see if you get a more up close and personal feel. I also don't feel the nervous energy, and anxiety that should accompany losing something. Even if it doesn't have much value most people get upset, angry, or sad if they misplace something.

      After you cease looking your character then laundry lists a bunch of stuff that simply can be categorized as 'homework'. You could have simply said 'it took me ____ hours to complete my homework and I slowly walk to my mom's bedroom'.. (again keep it in present tense when you are able).

      When you say 'I know this sounds mean' I feel like your character is talking to me. I personally don't like it. I sort of like being a fly on the wall, but if suddenly the character acknowledges my presence then that ruins the story for me, and I will continue to look for more insightful comments from the character that he knows I'm there.

      I don't mind the ellipsis marks but the parenthesis show inexperience as a writer. Any thoughts that appear inside the parenthesis, if important, can be made into appropriate sentences that will move the story along. The sentences are very simple. 'I did this'. 'I went here.' 'Life for me sucks.' 'I looked out the window.' 'It was dreary and cold.' 'The weather mimicked my mood.' These individual short thoughts show me the writer isn't very skilled. Or they are being cautious. Either way it isn't an appealing style unless you are writing for grade schoolers.

  23. QUESTION:
    I need good ideas for a small room with alot of cds and books... please help?
    Okay some of you may remember my question from a few months ago. Im about ready to get going on redesigning my room and i am excited but one thing stands in my way. I have over 500 cds and lots of books. (I already uncluttered my room and threw away bags and bags of stuff that I didn't need or use, so don't suggest that) Im still living at home (see my last question to find out why), so I own quite a bit (im 22) and I can't throw away cds or books. I love to read and listen to music. Im hoping for an idea, like maybe some of you know of a good long cd drawers that I can keep under my bed? or good book shelves that don't need floor space. I have a small room 11x12 and no windows. so i need help storing things out of the way and hiding them to make room feel calm. and don't say to throw out the jewel cases. i want to keep the cds in the cases please. thank you. any suggestions would be very much appreciated! thank you! have a good day! =)
    basically i want to have my cds and books easily accessible but most of them out of sight when I want to be in my room to just relax.

    • ANSWER:
      When I was in college, one of the dorms I lived in had open shelving mounted up where the wall meets the ceiling. It was terribly convenient for books and CDs & other knick-knacks & freed up a lot of floor space.

      I was searching online for an example. Couldn't find it exactly, but here is the general idea. Check out the cabinets over the window:
      http://www.thomasvillecabinetry.com/Item359/Cottage-Maple-Cider-and-Cottage-Cherry-Cinnamon.aspx?DSFRID=359&bhcp=1
      But I would have them run the entire length of the wall.

      Any type of floating shelf mounted up high like that should do, actually.

  24. QUESTION:
    something weird happened to me before i fell asleep last night...?
    last night i was lying in bed with my lights on reading. i started to get really tired and as i was putting away my book i just started zoning out, staring at a wall for no reason. then all of a sudden i couldnt move. at all. i started breathing EXTREMELY heavily, and i tried to move my right arm but it felt like it was moving really slowly.. like crazy slowly... i could move to look at it so idk if it actually moved at all.... i went on brathing like this unable to move for about 5-6 ish minutes but it felt like way longer. (i have a clock by my bed) just after the episode, i was really extremely sleepy but i managed to stay awake. i have been looking into it on google and on other peoples questions but none of them seem the same.. so far ive come up with 3 possibilities:
    1 sleep paralysis
    2 night terrors
    3 i dreamed it... @_@
    sorry its kinda long.. i just like to go into lots of detail and i would appreciate it if you would go into just as much detail with your answer
    P.S. i just realized watever it was it was probably stress induced... my father died recently and my sister was diagnosed with some things im not going to give away on here for her privacy @_@ ..... P.S.S. im 13 -.-

    • ANSWER:
      It wasn't night terrors, that's something completely different. It sounds more like some type of sleep paralysis. I doubt that you dreamed it.

      It also could have been a panic attack brought on by grief from the stress in your life but I doubt that also. Panic attacks don't usually have the symptoms you describe.

      I strongly suspect that you had some type of sleep paralysis experience. When I've had sleep paralysis experiences they are usually accompanied by extreme anxiety. With me, I was unable to move my body at all but was completely awake.

      As far as I know, this experience is not harmful although it is extremely unpleasant. I don't believe that they are the symptom of any underlying psychological problem. I had my first experience of this type when I was in my early 30's and my last one was about 7 years ago when I was 57 y/o. I've had, maybe, 5 experiences.

      I looked it up a year ago on Google and there was a site where some psychologist was doing a survey and you could read other people's experiences of this. The experiences seemed to vary but no one experienced any negative consequences from them.

      I don't think that doctors really know "why" this happens and are trying to make the best "gueses" that they can make. That is why if you read all the websites you will get many different "opinions" of why people sometimes experience this.

      If this happens again (it may not) and you can't move at all, I find that trying to move one of my big toes and then after I can do that, my leg, and then more of my body; I will come out of it.

  25. QUESTION:
    What can i possible do while i'm breaking night tonight?
    well i have to pretend i'm asleep, so i'm going to be sitting in the dark laying in my bed all night long, i have my phone and my ipod a book and a flashlight, my goal is at least 3 or 4 maybe even 5 what else could i possible do, or is that just about it? how long do you think i will last? i woke up at like 12:50 today and didn't take any naps ever since.

    • ANSWER:
      What are you talking about?? Your breaking night? How do you break a night?

  26. QUESTION:
    How does this song relates to the novel Catcher in the Rye?
    i need to know how it relates to it....i read the book but im just having a hard time figuring out...would u plz help mi???

    Song: Who Wants Flowers when they’re dead? Nobody
    Artist: Bring Me the Horizon
    Lyrics:
    A cherry sunset blossom
    But we're not there to watch it fall
    On the vacant canvas
    We should be waiting
    With our face down
    On the grass staring till our eyes give way
    Let’s paint this city black
    While the nights still young.
    This cherry sunset withers
    Our words as frail as paper
    A dawn I thought we would never see
    Alone on this silent beach-
    There is nothing we can do
    The sky it burns its self out
    The trees rot down to nothing,
    Throats dry out and corpses fill the sidewalks
    These promenade our graveyards.
    Kneeling down on what's left
    Sacrificed upon doomsday
    O' if we could take it back and see one last twilight.
    Take a picture it will last longer
    Our hands in prayer formation
    Our elbows on the bed
    One last tries for heaven
    Thinking who wants flowers when your dead

    • ANSWER:

  27. QUESTION:
    Would you read this book?
    Here is the preface of a book. I'm wondering weather or not to buy it, and I was wondering, would you be interested in reading it, after reading it's preface?

    Preface

    I slowly opened my eyes, letting them adjust to the sunlight that poured in through my open window. The August air was warm and gentle as it caressed my face. It was that time in August, the time in between the second and third week of the month when time seems to stand still. The heat is unbearable, the wind only blows to taunt you, and the hands on the clock seem to tick every minute instead of every second. It was the time when you would sit and look outside for what seemed like an hour, only to find out it’s been fifteen minutes. Everything you do seems to take less time.
    It was a time when you waited for rain. When in the weeks before hand it had poured and the sky had always been overcast but now, for some reason, as it always happens in these two weeks in August, rain never seems to fall. You wait, and every morning, even though you had been hoping for the rain to stop a week ago, you’re disappointed to see a perfect blue, cloudless sky.
    The sweet smells of the fields wafted through my room. My eyes felt swollen from all the tears I had cried last night. I didn’t want him to leave. For as long as I can remember, he had been by my side. I didn’t want to say goodbye to my best friend.
    He was the friend that had stuck with me through thick and thin, the one person who was right beside me when everything in my life had taken a dramatic turn. But he had to leave, his father had gotten a job in the city and he had no choice, he had to go as well.
    Tears started to flow down my cheeks again, and my eyes were heavy from the lack of sleep. It was long past midnight when I had fallen asleep, and even then, it was a restless sleep. The clock on my night stand read only eight o’clock. I dried the tears with the back of my hand. I closed my eyes and tried to focus on the good memories.
    As each one of them floated through my head, I smiled. Ever since we were able to walk and talk, we had spent every day together. He was my friend, he knew everything about me, and I knew everything about him. To me, he was the most fascinating person I had met out in the country. People come and go, and each of them has their own stories to tell, but he always seemed to have something new to tell me, or something to show me, or a new place to explore. He kept surprising me.
    I wanted to go back to sleep; to put off thinking about him leaving for just another hour. I turned onto my side – trying to block out the sunlight – and I closed my eyes. I hummed a familiar tune, I knew the melody by heart; I just couldn’t remember where I had heard it. Sleep was starting to encompass me slightly, but I was still partially aware of what was going on around me.
    Slowly, as my eyelids began to feel heavier, everything around me changed. I was no longer lying on my bed in my room in the attic of our house; I was standing on our back porch as my grandma tried to tie a yellow ribbon in my hair. I remember the day very clearly.

    • ANSWER:
      This is already published? I begins with I, then in the second paragraph it moves to you - You wait for rain. You wait, and every morning, even though -- and then it moves back to I. The writer just can't do that. I like its slow and glentle rhythm but the "tell" is all in what you like to read. EX: knew everything about each other - like what? introduce your characters, what was special between the characters? The transition to the dream of gramma works well. I like it in general, the opening pulled me in.

  28. QUESTION:
    4:34 (Quran) = Sahih Muslim, Book 004, Number 2127 (Hadith)?
    Does Sahih Muslim, Book 004, Number 2127 teach how to properly carry out Chapter 4 Verse 34 of the Quran?

    Sahih Muslim, Book 004, Number 2127: Muhammad b. Qais said (to the people): Should I not narrate to you (a hadith of the Holy Prophet) on my authority and on the authority of my mother? We thought that he meant the mother who had given him birth. He (Muhammad b. Qais) then reported that it was 'A'isha who had narrated this: Should I not narrate to you about myself and about the Messenger of Allah (may peace be upon him)? We said: Yes. She said: When it was my turn for Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) to spend the night with me, he turned his side, put on his mantle and took off his shoes and placed them near his feet, and spread the corner of his shawl on his bed and then lay down till he thought that I had gone to sleep. He took hold of his mantle slowly and put on the shoes slowly, and opened the door and went out and then closed it lightly. I covered my head, put on my veil and tightened my waist wrapper, and then went out following his steps till he reached Baqi'. He stood there and he stood for a long time. He then lifted his hands three times, and then returned and I also returned. He hastened his steps and I also hastened my steps. He ran and I too ran. He came (to the house) and I also came (to the house). I, however, preceded him and I entered (the house), and as I lay down in the bed, he (the Holy Prophet) entered the (house), and said: Why is it, O 'A'isha, that you are out of breath? I said: There is nothing. He said: Tell me or the Subtle and the Aware would inform me. I said: Messenger of Allah, may my father and mother be ransom for you, and then I told him (the whole story). He said: Was it the darkness (of your shadow) that I saw in front of me? I said: Yes. He struck me on the chest which caused me pain, and then said: Did you think that Allah and His Apostle would deal unjustly with you? She said: Whatsoever the people conceal, Allah will know it. He said: Gabriel came to me when you saw me. He called me and he concealed it from you. I responded to his call, but I too concealed it from you (for he did not come to you), as you were not fully dressed. I thought that you had gone to sleep, and I did not like to awaken you, fearing that you may be frightened. He (Gabriel) said: Your Lord has commanded you to go to the inhabitants of Baqi' (to those lying in the graves) and beg pardon for them. I said: Messenger of Allah, how should I pray for them (How should I beg forgiveness for them)? He said: Say, Peace be upon the inhabitants of this city (graveyard) from among the Believers and the Muslims, and may Allah have mercy on those who have gone ahead of us, and those who come later on, and we shall, God willing, join you.

    "Men are (meant to be righteous and kind) guardians of women because God has favored some more than others and because they (i.e. men) spend out of their wealth. (In their turn) righteous women are (meant to be) devoted and to guard what God has (willed to be) guarded even though out of sight (of the husband). As for those (women) on whose part you fear ill-will and nasty conduct, admonish them (first), (next) separate them in beds (and last) beat them. But if they obey you, then seek nothing against them. Behold, God is most high and great. (4:34)

    What is your opinion did Muhammad "struck" Aisha because of the teaching of Chapter 4 Verse 34 of the Quran?

    I think so.

    Opinions?

    • ANSWER:
      He wasn't perfect. Nobody is perfect. And if it is a Quranic teaching (which it is) then there's nothing wrong with it.

      Also, I give more importance to the Qur'an, over the Sunnah, because that's the way it should be. *Some* Hadiths may have been corrupted. We'll never know. As long as the hadith doesn't contradict the Qur'an, then it should be followed.

      BTW, after viewing all your Q's and answers on yahoo, thanks for being so respectful of Muslims here on yahoo.

      One last thing, the Prophet was asked what the woman should be beaten with, and he showed the asker his miswak. The Miswak is like a toothbrush, but it is from a tree. It doesn't hurt. I'm pointing this out because it contradicts the above hadith. Also, it is mentioned (but Ic can't remember where) that the Prophet Muhammed never beat his wives.

  29. QUESTION:
    Tell me if you like the beginning of my book!!!?
    Here is the first part of my book! Honestly give criticizm!

    My entire body throbbed from pain as I darted down the deserted avenue. All I could think was that I had to get away from them. The “cops” they’re after me, and it’s not because I’m a criminal. I know they’re not real cops just posers, and I don’t really care. I just need to get away, and fast. You might want to know why they’re after me. And I’d happily tell you if I knew myself, and I wasn’t perhaps running for my life once again. You know you’re not running fast enough, when they start shooting at you and a bullet almost hits your leg. Two guys, big guns, and a lot of guts to fire at me, ‘cause I can tell you one thing: When I get it together they are as good as dead. I guess I’m not that lucky, because one of their bullets nicked my leg, taking a chunk of skin and dirt ridden jeans with it. Desperation can cause you to do some pretty crazy things like launch yourself off the roof of a building. And I was very desperate.
    Falling is a peculiar feeling, almost like you are not actually conscious when it’s happening. It feels almost like a dream- until you hit the ground. Trust me I’ve “fallen” enough times to prove for sure that the fall never hurt anyone, it was the impact. Luckily all this experience has taught me how to land. The ground came up fast sending a shock through my entire body, not the greatest feeling. Anyways, my pursuers couldn’t figure out where I went.
    I figure now would be a great time to introduce myself, because, hey: I’m not running from psycho-maniacs, and the government isn’t trying to get me back. The name’s Kar, and if I’d have to guess, I’m about thirteen. You probably want to know why these people are after me. Yeah, so do I, cue me in when you figure it out. But I do know why the government is after me. I never knew my parents, and I don’t freaking want to. As early as I can remember I’ve been on the run from someone. There’s always been some lunatic out to get me, and what the heck have I ever done wrong? The official answer: nothing (that I’ve know about). Don’t feel bad for me- I’m not some helpless priss. I must be lucky because no one has got me, yet, and gosh, I hope the next guy is stupider than the first one because it was a close call.
    Watching your back for every moment of every day is not the ideal lifestyle. You wake up in the morning hoping there isn’t somebody there with a gun to your head. You can try as hard as you want to hide but they always find you, it’s only a matter of timer. So while you’re at home in your little comfy bed, I’m being chased by psycho-maniacs. It’s made me tough though, not afraid of anything. You might think that’s impossible, but people who say that haven’t been on the run for some seven years. And I’m definitely not afraid of the law, so what, throw me in prison; at least they have three meals a day.
    Let’s just say that life has not been easy. It got a heck of a lot worse when the next bunch came along, with big guns. Sounds like a great mix, idiots with lethal weapons, right? I dashed off into the surrounding forest only to hear the crunching of branches and leaves paces behind me. And that’s when I tripped on one stupid stubborn tree root. The men came up behind me restraining my strong arms behind my back pressed against my grimy t-shirt. He had to be the ugliest man I had ever seen. He had a five inch long scar running diagonally down his face, patches of his short hair were missing, and there were burn marks scattered randomly across his body. The one thing that stood out among all the other weird things on this particular moron (I hoped) were his bulging muscles, not that all these observations lasted long, because just then he clutched my neck and pinned me against the nearest tree. It freaking hurt, and I gasped for air. “We have specific orders from the boss not to kill you, but he wouldn’t know if you had an…. Unfortunate accident.” The scarred man began. “Yeah you tell her man, an accident!” his posse jeered, until Ole Scarry threatened “All of you could have ‘accidents’” He scraped my back against the tree bark, which cut through my flimsy shirt, I could feel the blood running down my back but I was not going to give the… creature the satisfaction of hearing me scream. Therefore I bore the pain and bit my lip, for I was on the verge of shouting out insults and curse words, but I was smarter than that. Yet, as soon as I could regroup these guys had it coming and the best part is they’d never know what hit them! They thought of me as nothing more than a weakling who ‘the boss’ sent them out to terrorize. It wasn’t working that well. “As I was saying,” he continued, “When I let go of your neck, you will run back to wherever scum like you live, and not breathe a word of our appearance.” I nodded apprehensively, as if I were petrified, for I was beginning to run out of air. “Consider this a warning from the boss. Don’t step out of line, we have con

    • ANSWER:
      Great job! I loved it! It caught my attention right away! Parts of it made me laugh too!
      Nothing else I need to say! It was great!
      Good luck on finishing the rest of it!

  30. QUESTION:
    Very long survey (if you're up to it!)?
    Are your best friends virgins?
    Sadly, no.

    How's your heart lately?
    Beating.

    Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
    I cannot remember..

    Did you have plans today?
    School and going to the dentist. :)

    Are you waiting for anyone's call right now?
    No. I hate the phone.

    Is the last person you kissed mad at you?
    No way. =P

    How many windows are open on your computer?
    Four.

    Story behind your MySpace name?
    That's my name! :)

    Are you sarcastic?
    Sometimes.

    Are you shy?
    All the time.

    Are you talkative?
    Never.

    What are you doing tomorrow?
    Class and going to the dentist again. :/

    What are you looking forward to?
    Going to college tomorrow. =D

    Have you ever showered naked with someone?
    No.

    Do you still talk to the person you fell hardest for?
    Yes.

    Where was the first kiss you had with the last person you kissed?
    At the mall, I think in my car... when it was dark out.. lol

    Burger King or Wendy's?
    Uh, Wendy's?

    Latest you stayed up in the past week?
    HAHA. Probably like 9:30?

    Where are you right now?
    Living room.

    Do you have someone of the opposite sex you can tell everything to?
    No.

    Do you like pepsi or coca-cola?
    Neither.

    Are you listening to music right now?
    No.

    Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoos?
    No.

    How long can you go without your phone?
    Long enough.

    Who was the last person you talked to on the phone & what did you talk about?
    David, and asked him where he was.

    Who last called you babe/baby?
    My friend, he likes me..

    Does your phone ring in the middle of the night often?
    Texts, yes. Calls, no.

    Do you curse in front of your parents?
    Sure. Sometimes.

    What is your current annoyance?
    Ehhh.

    Who did you last lay in bed with?
    David.

    Are you afraid of roller coasters?
    No.

    What would you do if your best friend told you they were moving?
    Cry.

    Macy's gift card or Hollister gift card?
    Macy's!

    Who pissed you off yesterday?
    Sigh...

    Where is your mom right now?
    On the other side of the living room.

    What are you supposed to be doing right now?
    Whatever I want. lol

    When was the last time you felt unbearably guilty?
    On Monday..

    Who can you tell everything to?
    My best friend, Lily.

    The last person you talked to on aim?
    I hardly go on there.

    Have you ever kissed anyone who's name started with a C?
    No.

    Can you play guitar hero?
    Yes. On medium, I think.

    Do you prefer warm or cold weather?
    Cold.

    Do you still talk to the person you last kissed?
    Yeah.

    Does anyone hate you?
    I bet.

    Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
    No.

    How do you pronounce your name?​
    Uh-man-duh.

    Has someo​ne ever wanted​ to fight​ you?
    Probably.

    Would​ you leave​ the one you love for the hotte​st perso​n in the world​?​
    I'm not dating at the moment so that's a sure.

    What are you doing​ today​?​
    Didn't you just ask that? lol

    Hows your day been?​
    Boring.

    When was the last time you smoke​ a cigar​ette?​
    Never.

    Want to say somet​hing to someo​ne but you can'​t?​
    Ehhh. I don't know. Kinda.

    Last person you comme​nted?​
    I can't remember.

    Last perso​n you calle​d?​
    My mom.

    Are you jealo​us of anyon​e?​
    Yes.

    Singl​e or Taken​?​
    Single.

    What did you dream​ about​ last night​?​
    I can't remember. lol.

    Are you mad at anyon​e?​
    Not really.

    Someo​ne mad at you?
    I don't think so. But I'm probably wrong.

    Whats​ your curre​nt probl​em?​
    *Sigh* Too many!

    Last time you cried​?​
    Yesterday.

    How do you feel right​ now?
    Tired.

    Today​ has someo​ne said "i love you"​?​
    Yes.

    Today​ has someo​ne calle​d you "​baby"​ or "​babe"​?​
    No.

    Regre​t anyth​ing?​
    Yes!

    Last book you read?​
    Oh gosh, I can't remember. I love reading, but I haven't had time.

    Last time you felt stupid​?​
    Today.

    When was the last time you wishe​d for somet​hing?​
    I can't remember.

    Is someo​ne with you right​ now?
    No.

    Three​ lette​r word?​
    Hot.

    If you could​ hug anyon​e of your frien​ds that is the oppis​tite sex right​ now who would​ it be?
    I can't think of someone I'd like to hug right now...

    Last perso​n you saw other​ than your famil​y?​
    Hmmmm. My favorite secretary =D

    Are you watch​ing tv?
    No.

    Want someo​ne you can'​t have?​
    No.

    Do you hate the last perso​n you argue​d with?​
    No.

    You had one day to live would​ you stay home?​
    Yes.

    What did you think​ about​ when you first​ woke up?
    About my dog looking at me in the face, sniffing me.

    The last perso​n you had a thing​ for died,​ would​ you cry?
    Of course.

    Money​ or Love?​
    Money. Love is pointless. Too hard to find.

    What frien​d do you tell the most to?
    Lily.

    What are you curre​ntly doing​?​
    This survey.

    If you could​ do somet​hing diffe​rentl​y,​ would​ you go back?​
    Yes.

    W
    Have fun mcnutty! :)
    Thanks everyone! Have fun! :D

    • ANSWER:
      Are your best friends virgins?
      NO their not

      How's your heart lately?
      Fine as far as i kknow

      Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
      My Brother

      Did you have plans today?
      Nothing set in stone..

      Are you waiting for anyone's call right now?
      No i am not

      Is the last person you kissed mad at you?
      No way...Never

      How many windows are open on your computer?
      Yeah 4 for me too

      Story behind your MySpace name?
      Dont have Myspace

      Are you sarcastic?
      LOL! Me sarcastic NEVER....

      Are you shy?
      No bloody way

      Are you talkative?
      OMG yes.

      What are you doing tomorrow?
      Working

      What are you looking forward to?
      Bed time

      Have you ever showered naked with someone?
      Yep all the time

      Do you still talk to the person you fell hardest for?
      No unfortunatly i dont

      Where was the first kiss you had with the last person you kissed?
      In the maternity ward at the hospital when he was born..

      Burger King or Wendy's?
      Hungry Jacks

      Latest you stayed up in the past week?
      2am

      Where are you right now?
      Lounge room

      Do you have someone of the opposite sex you can tell everything to?
      Yeah sure do

      Do you like pepsi or coca-cola?
      Neither really but Coke

      Are you listening to music right now?
      Nope

      Are you currently wanting any piercings or tattoos?
      Yes want a new tattoo

      How long can you go without your phone?
      I cant

      Who was the last person you talked to on the phone & what did you talk about?
      Justin-Our kids

      Who last called you babe/baby?
      My boyfriend

      Does your phone ring in the middle of the night often?
      No never, my friends respect that its the middle of the night and im trying to sleep..

      Do you curse in front of your parents?
      Yep

      What is your current annoyance?
      To many things to list

      Who did you last lay in bed with?
      My 4 year old son this morning when he came and woke me up

      Are you afraid of roller coasters?
      Yes

      What would you do if your best friend told you they were moving?
      Wouldnt bother me, she wouldnt be going far...I'd b happy for her

      Macy's gift card or Hollister gift card?
      HUH??

      Who pissed you off yesterday?
      My bro

      Where is your mom right now?
      Six foot under, Heaven how ever u wanna put it..
      She dead

      What are you supposed to be doing right now?
      Nothing if i dont want too

      When was the last time you felt unbearably guilty?
      Right Now

      Who can you tell everything to?
      My best friend, Heather

      The last person you talked to on aim?
      I use MSN and it was sophia

      Have you ever kissed anyone who's name started with a C?
      Yeah i have

      Can you play guitar hero?
      Nope

      Do you prefer warm or cold weather?
      Cold.

      Do you still talk to the person you last kissed?
      Yeah.

      Does anyone hate you?
      I bet.

      Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
      No.

      How do you pronounce your name?​
      Uh-man-duh. yeah sounds about the same as urs..

      Has someo​ne ever wanted​ to fight​ you?
      For sure

      Would​ you leave​ the one you love for the hotte​st perso​n in the world​?​
      No bloody was

      What are you doing​ today​?​
      Dunno yet

      Hows your day been?​
      Boring.

      When was the last time you smoke​ a cigar​ette?
      Having one now

      Want to say somet​hing to someo​ne but you can'​t?
      Yeah but i lost his number

      Last person you comme​nted?​
      I can't remember.

      Last perso​n you calle​d?​
      My bro

      Are you jealo​us of anyon​e?​
      Yes.

      Singl​e or Taken​?​
      Taken

      What did you dream​ about​ last night​?​
      I can't remember. lol.

      Are you mad at anyon​e?​
      Not really.

      Someo​ne mad at you?
      I don't think so. But I'm probably wrong.

      Whats​ your curre​nt probl​em?​
      *Sigh* Too many!

      Last time you cried​?​
      Yesterday.

      How do you feel right​ now?
      Tired.

      Today​ has someo​ne said "i love you"​?​
      Yes.

      Today​ has someo​ne calle​d you "​baby"​ or "​babe"​?​
      Yes

      Regre​t anyth​ing?​
      Yes!

      Last book you read?​
      Oh gosh, I can't remember. I love reading, but I haven't had time.

      Last time you felt stupid​?​
      Today.

      When was the last time you wishe​d for somet​hing?​
      I can't remember.

      Is someo​ne with you right​ now?
      yes

      Three​ lette​r word?​
      Hot.

      If you could​ hug anyon​e of your frien​ds that is the oppis​tite sex right​ now who would​ it be?
      It would be Todd

      Last perso​n you saw other​ than your famil​y?
      Know one

      Are you watch​ing tv?
      No.

      Want someo​ne you can'​t have?​
      Yes

      Do you hate the last perso​n you argue​d with?​
      No.

      You had one day to live would​ you stay home?​
      No way id be taking my kids on the adventure of a life time

      What did you think​ about​ when you first​ woke up?
      Why the hell my kids were up at that hour of morning

      The last perso​n you had a thing​ for died,​ would​ you cry?
      OMG yes what a stupid question

      Money​ or Love?​
      I Have love and need the money

      What frien​d d

  31. QUESTION:
    Can a person be depressed even if he/she genuinely "feels" content?
    I'm not playing semantic or philosophical games here. I am starting to become concerned about myself. I feel like I'm pretty happy. I used to have social anxiety disorder and, I later realized once I started taking medication to treat it, mild to moderate depression. I feel a lot better, though.
    The problem is that I can't hold my interest in just about anything, at least not if I'm sober. I can only read a few pages at a time, watch half of a movie, etc. I also don't enjoy conversing with people, even now that it is no longer nerve-racking; instead, I just feel a boredom and sense of disconnect that I endure as long as my politesse holds out.
    What troubles me most is how I deal with this problem. I drink heavily, and for a while, things become interesting- books (at least until I get to the point of drunkenness at which I can no longer read), TV, companions' conversation, etc. Then I just get sleepy and go to bed. When I go through long periods of sobriety, the only way I know how to deal with it is to sleep as much as I can. I find excuses to go to bed early, then I lie in bed long passed my last moment of actual unconsciousness.
    I want to stress again that I really do not feel depressed. This is what I don't understand. I love my girlfriend, I have a great relationship with my family, I have a promising career ahead of me, and I jog daily. I "feel" good. I "feel" happy. But why is nothing interesting to me? And it isn't that I haven't tried challenging myself. Quite often I try reading a book on a very difficult subject, and I've tried studying foreign languages. I don't get very far, not because I don't feel that I'm progressing fast enough, but again, because I just can't maintain the interest.

    • ANSWER:
      Well, obviously you are aware that you are if not alcoholic then you are headed that way with a bullet. I feel the same way as you do about feeling content. And I also have a short attention span and have solved the problem by simply doing as I please. I only have one friend and I only see him once a month for a couple of hours.
      Warning though-- It gets worse as you get older, so warn your girlfriend.

  32. QUESTION:
    Help I have a toddler who is making herself sick at bed time?
    Our nightly rountine is: dinner, play time, bath time, bedtime. My 18 month old used to go to bed right after reading her books. Sometimes she would fall alseep on my shoulder sometimes she would be awake and want to go into her crib to fall asleep. However, over the past month (and the past 2 weeks on a more consistent basis) she screams and cried as soon as she gets out of the tub. She makes herself so upset about going to bed that she throws up. We can no longer put her to bed awake because she screams and cries and then gets sick everywhere. Last night she fell alseep on me, I waited for 30mintues and then put her in her crib. About an hour later she woke up crying, for about 15 minutes. I listened and she then went back to sleep. However, when I went to bed (2hrs later) when I went into to check on her I noticed that she had thrown up at some point. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be helpful.

    • ANSWER:
      It sounds like your daughter is going through separation anxiety. This is pretty normal for this age, actually, but it seems like your daughter is extra sensitive. I am all for tough love in certain situations--however, there is a reason why your daughter is so upset, and I am not sure being completely tough on her will help. Being consistent, however, will help. You need to teach her that you cannot help her soothe herself, but you are still nearby--

      Here is what you should try: Around that age, my son started to become really attached to a certain blanket he had in his crib--perhaps your daughter would benefit from a lovey? Go to the store and have her pick out a blanket, a stuffed toy or whatnot to have with her in bed. Have her pick out special bedding if she wants--anything to make her feel comfortable in her own bed. If she likes to read, have her take a few favorite books with her to bed (books you don't mind if she ruins mind you--my son had a habit of breaking the spines to many of these books). Leave a night light on and be sure she knows you are close. I also used a soothing music CD for my son, and it helped SO much. Sometimes the littlest things can help!

      Go through your bedtime routine as usual. Be sure to check up on her every fifteen minutes or so--don't hold her, don't pick her up--just let her know you are there, you love her, and will be there in the morning. Repeat every half hour or so until she falls asleep. Do this for a few days, and she should get the point that you are still there--which is what is scaring her. Hopefully she will start to self soothe at that time.

      Another thing that could be causing the vomiting is acid reflux--make sure she does not suffer from that. (it sounds more mental than physical to me, but you can never be too careful)

      Good luck!

  33. QUESTION:
    I need some ideas for what to do today... while cooped up in bed?
    I broke my ankle last night and now I have to stay in bed and relax... Anyone have some ideas of things I can do? I'm already bored, I already read a book and there is nothing on tv... It's going to be a LONG day ;-)

    • ANSWER:
      Invite a guy over. Hehe.

  34. QUESTION:
    I need your opinion on part of my book PLEASE! (Very long question btw)?
    Ok this is a book i am writing but idk if it is good or not. it dosent have a title yet. Thank you sooo much.

    PREFACE
    I was running through a black forest, running as fast as I could. But the thing that I was running from was gaining fast, it would not be long before it caught me. In one last feeble attempt to save myself I ducked behind a bush and listened to the thing approaching praying that it would pass.
    A couple yards away it came to an abrupt stop. My heart plummeted into my stomach and raced a thousand beats per minute. The thing seemed confused and walked away. I waited about a minute just to be sure it was gone. Once I was sure I slowly stood up and turned around. Staring me in the face was my worst fear.

    I jerked out of my dream upright in a cold sweat and took a couple deep breaths to calm myself. I stepped out of bed and opened my door and muffled a piercing shriek as my dream stepped into reality...

    CHAPTER 1

    "Will you shut up already and go to sleep!?!" I yelled to nobody in particular.
    "No we are going to stay up all night. Right girls!?" One of my little sisters said in her high pitched "cute little girl" voice.
    I am sure that none of this makes sense to you right now. If it did I would be seriously freaked out. So since you have no idea what is going on let me fill you in. I am 14, I live in Bloomfield, New Mexico and my name is Hayley. Just Hayley. I have no last name. Well technically I do but the guy my mom got re married to is a total narcissistic, two faced cow so I try to have little association with him.
    I have 2 little sisters they are 10 year old twin devils. Their names are Cecelia and Kylee. There sole purpose in life is to drive me insane. They are really good at it. Take tonight for example.
    They convince our mom to let them have a sleepover. Our mom told them they could have 5 girls over. But every girl brought girls with her.
    There are 23 girls over now. And mom went out with some friends. And her husband (I don't even say his name) was supposed to watch the girls. But he made me do it so he could go out with his friends.
    Now it is 1:52 am and the girls are watching re runs of SpongeBob Squarepants with the TV turned up so loud 3 neighbors have already called to complain. The house reeks of acetone and popcorn, and they somehow busted the hinge off my door so it won't close.
    And did I mention that I have finals tomorrow? Well I do.
    Somewhere around 2:30 it got to be too much. I was sick of my mom and her husband dumping stuff on me and I was sick of my bratty sisters and their idiotic powder puff friends.
    I had been planning doing this for a while and now seemed the perfect time. I reached under my bed and grabbed 3 things. The first was a laptop (nobody knew I had this but me. I snuck out and bought it about a month ago). I logged on and opened it up to Travelocity.com. I bought 3 flights to the LAX airport and sent them to the printer at my best friend’s house. She would understand.
    The second thing I grabbed was a purple box about half the size of a piece of regular paper. In the box was about 10,000 dollars in cash. See my grandparents used to live in Montana on about 3 acres of farmland until one day the struck oil and became instantly rich. So every year for my birthday they send 1,000 dollars in the mail. I tell my mom they only send me 100. But you can imagine after 14 years of birthdays I had come across some serious money. The only thing I ever bought with the money is the laptop the occasional Vitamin Water and 3 plane tickets to Los Angeles.
    The third thing I pulled out from under my bed was a green suitcase with a yellow duffel bag inside it. I started shoving clothes into it and other things I may need to spend a week in Los Angeles.
    I pulled my cell phone out from under the bottom of my school bag and hit speed dial. Alice picked up on the 3rd ring.
    "What do you want? It is like 3 am." she said. I could tell she was still half asleep.
    "You are going to come to LA with me for a week." I heard a muffled thud and I knew she had sat upright to fast in her bunk bed and hit her head on the ceiling again.
    "Ouch" she muttered to herself.
    "So? Will you go?"
    "Hales I don't know. What about my parents? Your parents, this is really sudden?" she asked skeptically,
    "I am sneaking out and all you have to do is tell your mom you had a vision that you need to visit your great aunt on your dads side once removed who lives in Oregon and you will be home free." See Alice's mom is kind of a hippie/fortune teller and Alice can get almost anything she wants by saying some oracle or spirit told her it was what she should do.
    Ironically her mom thinks LA is the portal to the underworld so she took a vow to never let her or her children step foot in California. Other than that she can get virtually anything. She is so lucky.
    "I don't know. What about money?"
    "Little purple box..."
    "Oh right. Ok

    • ANSWER:
      Preface: The first thing that I noticed with your preface was that you continually say "thing". It's not the repetitiveness that bothers me. Usually, you're going to want to stay away from using the word "thing". It leads readers to believe that you don't know what you're describing. This doesn't mean that your character has to describe it in full, either. It can remain mysterious. So maybe describe it as a moving shadow, or the darkly clothed figure, or a shifting form. I really like the end of of your preface though. The dream stepping into reality. That was a good line.

      Chapter: First off, avoid doing the ?!?!?!!?! thing. It looks unprofessional. Stick with the traditional question mark. The "yelled" description will give the readers the same effect as the exclamation point. And obviously you're yelling to someone in particular. You wouldn't just yell for people to be quiet if you weren't talking to a specific person or group of people. Also, maybe try to be a little more subtle with your introduction. I wouldn't come out with all the facts in one blunt sentence. Oh and when you do your introduction you are "talking" to the readers. You do this by saying "you" when you're not talking to another character. That's alright to do, just make sure it fits into your story smoothly.

      One more thing would be to always spell out numbers. You don't want to say "5", you need to say "five". Unless you're talking about some ungodly number like 1,567,892 or the time. Then you can just write it out like that. You use the wrong "their/there/they're" sometimes as well. Like where you say: "There soul purpose..." It needs to be "Their".

      There are just a few other small errors, but your grammar is great, which is often the challenge new writers face. So though there were some mistakes, this was much more pleasant reading than what I've seen before!

      Keep working at it and good luck! :)

  35. QUESTION:
    my book the kidnappe?
    There once was a town called Shellymin it was a very peaceful place, everyone knew each other, they were all friends. It was a little island, most people would go there for a holiday even though others stayed there for a lifetime. You had to go on a ferry to get to the island, it costed per person but if you were a homeowner it would only cost . The trees were very good to climb on and that’s why all the children loved the tree’s there. There was also a huge lake that you were aloud to swim in but you couldn’t go past the poles that were in the water because that’s where the fish swam. All the houses stood in a row like soldiers, and every house that was built was to be made out of wood because the man who owned this island loved houses made out of wood, you also couldn’t paint them, but if you had permission you could.
    In this little island there lived a rich family, this family was called the Charlson family. Steve Charlson was in the company that worked for the island and he had a wife and four children. He had light brown hair and eyes the colour of the sea. His wife, Alice was a Nurse at the Shellymin’s Children’s Hospital and was thin and beautiful with her long golden hair and bright blue eyes. Their eldest child was Jake Charlson, who was seventeen and nearly going to collage to train to become a teacher. With his good looks and his sweet and sensitive personality he got him self a girlfriend . Next in child birth was Jessica Charlson or you might say Jess, as she was known to be called, she had long brown hair, a few freckles and bright blue eyes the colour of her mum’s, she was pretty, bright and was 13. After Jess came Maxwell Charlson but he preferred to be called Max, Max was a bully at school and had very little friends, he was 11, stubborn and had shaggy, muddy brown hair and a gloomy face. The very youngest of the children was Caroline Charlson, the 4 year old, cute little angel, at least that’s what her parents thought of her, the true Caroline was a clever, tough, out going little rascal, she was cute with her puppy dog eyes and curly blonde hair on the outside but the real her was on the inside.

    Then there was there house that was very beautiful, it had a balcony outside every room and it was a 3-storie mansion that looked over the lake, it was LOVELY! Each room had a safe in it just incase they would have a brake-in. In Jesse’s safe there was her money her jewelry and her rare CD’s. In Jake’s safe there was a book called “How To Be A Teacher” there was also a trophy from the Spelling Bee contest when he was 7. In Max’s safe there was an invitation to the bad boys gang party and a card that said: you are now an official bad boy gangster, and a CD signed by the country’s best rapper. Then last is Caroline she had a karate medal and karate clothes from her secret lessons, and a medal from the beauty contest she won when she was 3 and her first lost tooth from a few weeks ago. In the living room they had a flat Plasma screen TV in front of their couch and a coffee table just beside it, they also had all around sound to make the TV sound realistic. In the Kitchen they had a glass table, some cupboards and lots of top class electronics. In Jake’s bedroom, he had a bed, a desk with a 24 inch screen Macintosh computer on it, a TV and a walk in wardrobe. In Jess’s room she had a mirror, some posters of Avril Lavigne and Brad Pit, she had a bunk bed with a desk underneath instead of a bed and a 30 inch TV. In Max’s room there was a rock ‘n’ roll guitar tickets to a concert that’s called: ‘rocking my life’ CD’s for beginner rockers. Also a Compaq laptop and a rockstar book. His bed was a big one that had a black blanket and in big white letters it said this: ROCKSTAR! He also had a white plain pillow. On the wall there was posters of famous rocker’s. In Caroline’s room there was a little bed on the wall there was a painting off a mermaid sitting on a rock then in the corner was a little table with a mirror on it and some ‘learning to read’ books and the carpet was a little pink and red stripes carpet then in the mum and dad’s room there was a king sized bed a mirror on each side of the bed there was a bedside table and then there was a door that led to the bathroom. There was also a indoor pool with lots of toys.
    The charltons’s also had a trampoline that floats on the water. Upstairs was a play room with playmobile Lego action figures mini go-karts a little race track and two mote-control cars then there was a spare room for guest’s and a cupboard where all the mum and dad’s trophies and medals. “I’m going to the pub you look after the kids ok?” Said Steve as he went out the door.
    “Ok, darling.” She said as he closed the door behind him.
    When he got to the pub he said “Hi Moe, give me a beer or two.” In 25 minutes Steve had drunken 12 cups of beers and a bottle of wine. Not surprisingly Steve got drunk, he was so drunk he couldn’t drive the way home and had to take a taxi.
    “Hi honey, I’m home!” Steve said as he walked into the room with a slam behind him as he closed the door.
    “Shh, don’t wake up the kids!” Alice whispered. ”What took you so long, Steve?”
    “Um, uh, can I lie down for a second?”
    “Oh no, don’t say you got drunk again! How many beers did you have?”
    “Just 12.”
    “Just 12? You know what could happen if you got drunk like the time you nearly killed someone with a chair. Where is the car, Steve? You didn’t take a taxi home, did you? Now the car’s still at the pub!”
    “Just calm down, I can explain.”
    ‘Explain what Steve? You know what, this is just going too far, I’m going have to leave. You obviously do not know how to set an example, these are our children Steve! And if you can’t take care of them, then I will! Tomorrow morning I’m taking Caroline and Jessica and leaving this house for good.
    “Fine, let it be that way! You maniac!”
    “Me? You’re the maniac! No, even worse, you’re an imbecile!”
    “NO! Don’t have a divorce!” Shouted Caroline while she jumped out from behind the sofa.
    “It’s not what you think.” Alice said in a calm voice.
    Then max jumped out from behind the sofa and said “But then why did you say your taking Jess and Caroline and leaving for good?”
    “Look everyone just go to bed and in the morning Alice will take Jess and Caroline ok?” Said Steve angrily.
    Then Jake slowly gets up from behind the sofa and said “No! It’s not fair soon I’m going to college and won’t be able to see you again!”
    “Don’t worry Jake we’ll visit you alright?”

    In the morning at 10 o’clock Alice, Jess and Caroline got up had breakfast and then had a little play but Alice looked for a house then she found a lovely house just like there’s so Alice, Jess and Caroline went to have a look at it while Max, Jake and Steve stayed home. When all the boys woke up they had breakfast Max had some Weet-Bix with sultana’s on it and milk, Jake had nutigrain and Steve had some yogurt then they started cleaning up all the girl’s room first they painted Caroline’s room white then they took her bed away and then her table and the mirror then they took all of Jesse’s stuff and they took the posters of her wall. They took her TV away and her table and bunk bed. When a big truck came they put everything in the truck and the truck drived off to give the furniture to Alice and the kids. For lunch they all had some sandwiches because no wanted a really good lunch they didn’t feel like it then Steve said “ok who wants to go get spoilt maybe go in the pool have a party just to get cheered up?”
    Both boys said “yeah!” The next day it was their school day the school was called ‘New Life, the school was 5 minutes away it had a playground with 2 swing’s a slide a pole to slide down and that was all there was also a sandpit, there was pre-primary to high school there was a library and a swimming pool the principal was called Mrs. Marble she had a son called Mr.Marble his first name was Alex he was my teacher everyone in the class liked him because whenever your good he will give you fake money then you can buy lollies off him and whoever has the most money at the end of the year will get 2 bags of lollies. Then the school library teacher was called Mrs.Hudnker she taught the year 1 to year 2’s to read then she read stories to the year 3’s to year 7’s then she would give us worksheets and pencils. The school was very nice everyone liked it.

    but one-day when the dad was resting a man called John that was going to get kicked out of the island didn’t want to get kicked out and also he wanted their money (with ‘their’ I mean the rich family) so he got a match stick lit it and started a fire…The fire got bigger and bigger by the time the fire was as big as the door John had gone to the place where firemen worked he was back with a fireman suit. He ran into the house and took Steve, Steve woke up shocked. John then took Steve to the his house Steve then shouted “where is my kid’s go get my kids!” but the man called John laughed and said “well only if you let me back into here,you didn’t really think I was a fireman did you? Haha” Steve stared at John then said “look John you are band but if you save my kids then I’ll let you stay. You in?” “Deal” said John with a smirk on his face but first John took Steve to a chair and put sticky tape on Steve’s mouth and tied him onto the chair then John went to go for the kids but when John came back he said “the kids weren’t there” Steve frowned and said “your just trying to scare me get my kids right now!” John smiled again “look pal there not there and I’ve done want you wanted me to do so you better let me stay” “NO WAY!” said Steve in a angry voice “ok then Steve we will do it the hard way” John took out a knife and was just going to stab Steve when the door smashed and a log came flying in then guess who opened the door.
    It was Max, Jake, Bell, Alex and Jessie and all the other kids then Max said “SAVE IT JOHN IF YOUR GOING TO HURT MY DAD YOU HAVE TO GET THROUGH ME AND EVERYONE ELSE!” then all the kids got out their weapons some had baseball bats some had tennis rackets some had logs. However, Steve did not want to risk his children so Steve said, “NO kids don’t! You will die please kids!” but the kids did not listen then Jake said “dad you have done everything for us like when your working and I want to play footy with you because no one else does you will just play with me and do your work later” then all the kids nodded then Jessie said “so now we are doing something for you!” but John wouldn’t allow this so he pointed up they gun and loaded it, Steve was signaling to go home but this time the children obeyed.

    Chapter two
    The Clever, tough outgoing little rascal
    Is let out.

    “What are we going to do?” Asked Jessie “my stepfather might be killed!” she started panicking. “Tell the police?” asked Max. “No! If we want to save our father than if we tell the police they wont let us interfere.” Said Jake frowning. Max got angry. “Shut up Jake we shouldn’t interfere!” “Max, Jake is right we need to save your dad we can’t let the police do it! Anyway the police don’t know where they are, and right now I don’t either! The police are terrible anyway, this is the first time that there has been and murderous kindapper on the loose since I was born!” Bell said firmly. Everyone started shouting at each other and fighting. “EVERYONE! SHUT UP!” Alex roared. “We are losing time! Fighting is not the answer! First we will try save dad then if we can’t we will tell the whole town!” the other kids and teenagers started to nodd there heads. “we need to spy on them first but we need someone small that can fit between the gates. Because John locked them once we went out.”
    “Now it is my time to shine!” a voice came from down the dark drippy alley. “Who was that?” Jessie asked. Geuss who came into sight this time? Caroline. “Caroline!” everyone shouted. “No your to young to join with us, its not like you do karate!” everyone giggled by the thought of that. “Oh really?” caroline showed everyone her medals for karate. She had proved them wrong. “Wow!” everyone shouted. “Now lets get to work!” Caroline shouted with a smile on her face. “Wait a minute.” One of the boys said. “Why would John just let us go? Wouldn’t he think that we would tell someone?” “We got to get out of here before he finds out we are here!” Another boy whispered. “To late!” It was John! The kids tried to run but he caught them all. Accept from Caroline that had seen him come out and right now was saving his stepfather.
    She explaned that they couldn’t tell anyone and had to save the kids. “John has made a big deal out of leaving this island.” Caroline whispered “dad?” caroline saw that Steve was like a statue. She heard him whisper under his breath, “Alice.” Caroline was confused, “what about mum. Whats wrong with her?” Steve stopped being like a statue and shouted with a horrified face, “ALICE! John said he is going to hurt her! He knows where she is! We need to save her!” Caroline understood and at once they both ran to the hospital.
    Steve ran to the counter. “Oh, hi Steve lovely day today, I am sorry about your divorce. Are you here for a app-“ “just be quiet! I have to see Alice! This is an emergency!” “I uh, well, um,” the women studdered. “Where is she!” Steve screamed. “Don’t shout! The lady whispered. Why are you here?” “It is an emergency please I need to see her!” “Ok, ok, calm down I saw a man walk out with her, he said his name was John Mclay, he was taking her out for a test or something, well, that’s what he said.” Steve and caroline had wide eyes. They ran out of the hospital. “What should we do?” Caroline cried. She had tears rolling down her cheek. Same with Steve.

    DING, DING, DONG. It was time for everyone in the island to go somewhere of the island. Caroline and Steve had been looking for hours asking every person they saw. No sign. Everyone left. Accept from John Alice and the kids. They were here somewhere hiding. “What if mum is dead and brother and sister and friends?” Caroline wheeped. Steve lifted her up onto his shoulders to comfort her. But not only he comforted her he made her smile the biggest smile. The kids and Alice were in an alley hiding. “Dad! I see mum and others!” whispered Caroline merrily. Steve had also seen. They ran to each other and kissed and hugged. But Alice was quick to think. “We must get out of here! John was going to put a sleeping pill in me and drown me in water!” everyone started to frown. “Look there is the last ferry over there, we should catch it to the meeting. We are allready late! But while we are going there we need an excuse.” Said Alice. They quickly hopped onto the boat. Just as it was going to leave Steve said “wait! We can’t come back to this island, we need to go somewhere else. Lets go get the carand bring it with us so we can go somewhere. Kids stay here. Jake you look after them Alice and I will get the car.” The two ran off and got into the car. Steve was starting it up and Alice had a horrified face. “Steve? Steve? STEVE?!” screamed Alice. “What?!” Said Steve rising his head. “The chilrdren! The ferry!” Screamed Alice getting out of the car. Steve quickly looked. The ferry was leaving with the children. “John was the ferry driver!” shouted Steve they ran to the water. Steve jumped in so he could get to them but they were allready near the end. Steve swam back. The two were shouting for help. The kids were to. John took them off the boat. He had a big metal thing that was black and a square shape. The sun was shining off it. Suddenly they both realised. It was a BOMB.

    Days later there was no sign of the kids or the townspeople. Steve and Alice collected all the keys for the cars just incase they needed someextra transport. Their were two keys for each car incase one was lost. They had made a raft and they floated to the other side when the water was calm and still. The sun gazed down on them. A car was parked on the other side. Steve opened the door and tried every key. Finally he found the right one. The car was a red Holden wit some brown mud on the bottom. Alice touched the car. “It has been here for a while the car is very hot.” The sun gazed down in the lovely blue lake. Alice and Steve got into the car. He turned it around and drove around the corner. Suddenly he stopped. The meeting house had blown up. There was black ashand the the lovely house with a bell on the front and swimming pool in the front turned into big ruins. The place was terrible. Suddenly they saw a note on a tree this is what it read: Dear Mom and Dad,we know
    That you would come for us so we sneaked this writing and stuck it to a wall. John said something about, a dungeon. We don’t have much time so we will just give you these sums.
    715+2351920+2015+42114.7515.1419.

    • ANSWER:
      my answer is it's nice to read and cool too ilike it star for you..

  36. QUESTION:
    My 4 month old baby no longer sleeps through the night and is waking 30+ times every night?
    My son caught a cold and began to wake frequently in his crib during the night. The pediatrician suggested that we sleep him in his swing to help the mucus drain and to aid his breathing. I did that for about 2 weeks and now he will not sleep in his crib. I would let him rock in the swing just until his eyes got heavy. He slept from 10 pm - 8 am without waking up.

    The cold has cleared up and I tried to put him back into the crib. That was a complete nightmare so I decided to transition him back into the crib in my own way. For the past 4 nights he has slept on his crib mattress on top of my bed. It is tightly flushed against the corner of the wall and I curl my body around it. He wakes up constantly throughout the night - last night I lost count after 32. I put the pacifier back in his mouth and he drifts off quickly. If his whining progresses to wails, I pick him up and cradle him in my arms until he calms down and his eyes begin to shut. I have read so many books (Happiest Baby on the Block, BabyWise, No Cry Sleep Solution) and have incorporated their advice. Here is what I am doing:

    *Bed time routine: bath, story book, diaper and clothes change. In bed by 10pm

    *Putting to bed awake but very drowsy

    *Avoiding rocking to sleep at all costs

    *Dim lights, soft voice when talking to baby

    *"Stocking up" for the night by feeding bottles every 1-2 hours before he goes to bed

    *Swaddling helps but he is starting to roll over so I can no longer do that for safety reasons. Swaddling just his lower body does not help, have tried.

    *Putting the crib right next to my bed does not help. Wakes up even more frequently. I am planning on transitioning him (and his mattress!) back to the crib once he sleeps for longer stretches.

    *Naps 3 times during the day for 30min - 1.5 hours each time.

    *Putting him to sleep earlier has not helped the situation.

    The baby does not seem to be in any pain or discomfort. He just had his 4 month check up and is quite healthy. He is not a particularly gassy or fussy baby. In fact, he is quite happy during the day! Can anyone give me advice? What is causing this constant waking and how do I re-teach him to sleep through the night? I am his sole caretaker (dad is in the military and is deployed) and I desperately need more sleep.
    I only picked up a tip or two from BabyWise. I am aware of the controversy and have in no way tried to put my baby on its schedule. As far as sleeping that long being unhealthy, my son's pediatrician said it was wonderful and every mom should be as lucky.

    • ANSWER:

  37. QUESTION:
    How could I elongate my book?
    So, far I have this: [You don't have to read all that. hahaha. I'm just showing you.]

    Awe.
    The clock had just turned 11 and I was finally opening my eyes. Dad normally wakes me up much earlier inventing new toys and gadgets but not today.
    He had gone on his monthly 13 mile bike ride. He did this for no particular reason, just to make wind and visit as many junkyards as possible. As a matter of fact, visiting a junkyard was what inspired him to do this monthly bike ride every month. He said someone had thrown out a scale that was still stuck on 13 pounds and lying next to a bike.
    When I woke, I took it upon myself to walk down to Edwin and receive a free breakfast consisting of two booberry muffins and a tall glass of milk. I waved to mom, who looked as if she was going to pass out from all the business, and left for my own journey. The journey back to my house.
    Once there, I figured why not just be lazy the rest of the day and paint something. I went into my room and grabbed my paints, a fresh canvas, and water cup. The water was dirty from the last time I used them, so I wondered into the kitchen to clean it out. My father was standing there washing the dishes even though we had a dish washer and when I called out to him he seemed skittish about it. He had bags under his eyes and looked restless. I proceeded to lead him to his bed room assuming he was tired from his bike ride. He did manage to finish quite quickly. I laid him down, finished the dishes, and headed out for the backyard.
    I felt a need for change, so I passed up the patio table and kept walking into the trees. I had always wondered what sort of nature dwelled in my backyard but had never gone to investigate it.
    I was probably walking for a good ten minutes when I saw a old but rather peaceful looking tree house. It seemed sturdy but broken, painted but chipped, small but airy, peculiar yet not strange. I decided I would make a painting station there and climbed up. When I reached the top, the only thing I found inside was a teapot and dust.
    I painted for 4 hours, and suddenly became very tired. I blew on the floor attempting not to become dusty myself and laid on the ground.
    As soon as this happened a puff of dust flew in my face but it didn’t make me sneeze just momentarily disgusted. I started to doze of a little but decided I didn’t want to fall asleep in a dusty tree house. When my eyes opened everything was gone. All I heard as the sound of people’s voices, cars rolling by, and children laughing. A bubble popped on my forehead and I turned around looked up and saw the face of a girl standing before me. She smiled and said “Hi!”
    Then and there, I realized I was no longer in the tree house, I was in a another city, town, world.
    I chuckled then proceeded to faint.

    But I can't figure out how to add detail and where?
    What are some tips to creating a longer story?

    (c) Leah Moore.

    • ANSWER:
      Show, not tell. Give circumstantial evidence and let the reader be the jury about what's going on.

      You might also try the "Jean M. Auel" method of elongating books: put lots of sex scenes in them. Personally, I think Auel overdid it a little in her Earth's Children series.

      Signed,
      Jondalar469

  38. QUESTION:
    What do you think of the rest of my book?
    For those who haven't read the intro, Please read that first, here's the link: http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj7ir2oDCr.bGCcNnS69SQkHJ3RG;_ylv=3?qid=20100312152158AAvL2h

    Sorry it's so long.

    Part 1
    the encounter

    Shadow…fire!...HELP! HELP ME!...darkness…cold… I awake to the sound of flapping wings on a breeze. My eyes flutter open to reveal that the window’s unlatched, the curtains are billowing, rustling in the cool night wind. I look around my room, wishing it didn’t have to be so ordinary. The light, sky blue walls, the big windows, and crowded closet. The only thing that’s probably different is the stack of books all along my bedside. I check the time, the clock read 1:00AM. One last dazed scan around the room and…There in the corner! ...Something, or…or someone’s standing in the shadows…I blink and it’s gone. I get up to close the window, but see it already is. “How strange, I must’ve still been asleep” I lay back in bed and stare at the ceiling, watching the little stick-on, glow in the dark stars go out. Somewhere in the middle of watching them I must’ve fallen asleep, because I didn’t wake ‘till morning.

    “Sil! Get up or you’ll be late to school, again!” “Aaahhrr” I groan into my pillow and roll over onto the floor! “Ow!” I rub the sleep from my eyes and then get up to get dressed. When I get to the bathroom to fix my hair, I see something strange on the side of my neck. I lean in to take a closer look. To the untrained eye it would look like two tiny, insignificant, week old, mosquito bites. At that moment no matter how well read I was, I still didn’t give it a serious thought. Then a half remembered, blurry dream came flashing before my eyes. It wasn’t more than a mere shadow moving from a dark corner with more speed than I could’ve followed, but what I could see were two long white fangs, tipped and dripping with red, and glinting with a wicked light. With a tiny shake of my head I laugh out loud at myself, “of course it’s a dream, and no wonder after reading so much of that weird book before bed.”
    Letting it slide, I run back to my room and grab a hat deciding that, even trying to fix my hair would be suicide. Heading down the stairs, I hear my little brothers Velvel, and Faolan arguing. (Just a little bit of info, Velvel and Faolan both mean wolf.) After a few seconds I deduce that they’re either arguing over a toy, or who hit whom.
    Coming into the kitchen, I grab a Pop-tart and a glass of milk, listening to my mom say, “ There you are, I was starting to think I’d have to drag you out of bed.” After about one bite of Pop-tart, the doorbell rings, meaning that either I’m just in time, or about to be supremely late for the bus. Running to the door, the bell rings again, followed by a lot of loud, hurried knocking. “Cheeze! Angel, relax I’m coming!” I say as I open the door.
    Opening the door, I see a scowling face under a mass of tussled, curly blond hair. Giving up the scowl, she says “Hurry up Ash or we’ll miss the bus, AGAIN!” “Okay, okay I’m coming.” Angel’s real name is Midnight A. Woods. She’s my neighbor, and during the summer, when I opened the door to meet her for the first time, the sun shined through her hair, giving her the silhouette of an Angel. Which I find funny because that’s her middle name, Angel. That’s also how I got to be called by MY middle name. I mean, if she gets to be called by her middle name, wouldn’t it be only fair if she got to call me by mine too?
    As we hurry to the bus stop, I check the time on my cell phone and know we missed it. Once we’re there, Angel starts grumbling “I knew we missed it, I just knew it! It’s your fault you know!” she says while swiveling to point an accusing finger at me. “Oh come on Ang, I’m sure we didn’t miss it. It’s probably just late is all…” I mumble, knowing it was a pretty lame excuse. Then out of the corner of my eye I see a… something moving in the shadows. Turning to look, I see it’s a person. A brilliant idea struck me, almost as of it was whispered into my ear, one so simple I thought I was stupid for not thinking of it before. “Hey! Excuse me! Did the bus come by here?!” I call to the stranger, acting on my brilliant-later I found out it was only HALF thought out- plan.
    The stranger steps out of the shadows and I see that it’s a man. As he approaches I can make out more detail. He’s wearing faded out blue jeans, a white shirt and a dark leather jacket, that looks a lot like the one I was wearing. Except mine made me look like a biker chic, his made him look like a bad boy, and a dangerous one too. He had light brown hair that changed in the light, waving like the ocean or an untamed fire, and he approached until he was about two feet from us, then I could see that his eyes changed color too, just like mine. He looked somewhere between my age and twenty(he has one of those timeless faces that make it hard to pinpoint age), and when he spoke his voice sounded slightly foreign,

    • ANSWER:
      I don't undersatnd why you are apologising for writing so much.

      It's really really really good and you need to be apologising for keeping us hanging and not writing MORE!

  39. QUESTION:
    How does my book sound so far?
    “Amy Benson WAKE UP!!!!! It’s your first day of school! Aren’t you excited?!?!”
    “Sure.” Amy replied drowsily.
    “Okay well be ready in 45 minutes so that you won’t be late. I’ll be in the car.” Mrs.Benson said, walking out the door.
    Sighing, Amy got out of her snug bed and got dressed in her favorite pair of blue jeans, and a turquoise tee shirt. She brushed her wavy, brown hair, washed her face, and put in her contacts over her green eyes. At the bottom of the stairs Amy's dog Pepper was waiting for her to take her on a morning walk. Amy put on her brown pair of boots,  and escorted Pepper out the door.  
    Trudging through all the mud from last night's storm Amy wondered why
    some people did no like to walk their dogs. She thought that when
    someone was outside with the fresh air going in and out of their lungs
    that it was a time for them to think about life in general. Amy loved
    to daydream. She loved to look out of the window and reflect on
    how her life was going, think of what she would want to do in the
    future, and consider what would happen if she wasn't always so
    shy when she was with her crush, Alex.
    Amy's mom was waiting in the car just like she said she would be. Amy hoped into the front seat, and slammed the door shut behind her.
    “Good morning Amy you ready for your first day of tenth grade?”
    “Yeah, just a little tired.” She replied, yawning.
    “Well you will get to see all of your friends again. That should be fun, getting to catch up after the long break.” Mrs.Benson responded. She started the car and headed off to West Oak High. 
    Amy never really liked school, but it never bothered her that much either. She used to be in the popular group, with a countless amount of friends. Then she got in a fight with Carly, the “leader” of the group, about "Stealing her boyfriend." Amy did not even like Todd. She always thought he was a jerk. After the accusation, Carly officially pronounced that Amy was a loser. At first, Amy felt miserable. Then after a few weeks she realized that just because she was proclaimed a looser did not mean that she was.  She got over her depression, and made come friends and she doesnt care about what anyone thinks of her. 
    “Have fun!” Mrs. Benson said as she pulled up to the school. Tahing in a deep breath, Amy emerged from the car. One step at a time, you don’t want to fall and embarrass yourself on the first day of school like you did last year. Amy still trips anyway, falling into a puddle with mud flying everywhere.
    “Wonderful” She whispered. 

    “Amy!” Kristen called, “ are you alright?” she bended down to help pick Amy up, “You know, tomorrow you should be more careful.” she said jokingly.
    “I’ll try”
    “ Okay well lets go to the bathroom and try to get this disgusting mud off your shirt.”

    The two friends dodged through the throngs of students that were suddenly arriving, trying to get to the bathroom before everyone else. Amy tried to get off the water and mud on my shirt but some still stays on. It looked like her dog pooped on her shirt. They left the bathroom. Amy made a left and headed to room 220 while Kristen went in the opposite direction to room 216. 
    “See you at lunch!” Kristen called.
     
    “Hey Benson nice top!” Josh cackled through all the commotion as Amy entered the room. She didn’t reply, she knew better. He was her best guy friend until the “incident”. I guess he wasn't really my friend after all. Amy sat down in a desk that was next to a window while trying to avoid any paper airplanes that might hit her in the head. 
    “Hey Amy haven't seen you in almost three weeks. Hows Pepper?” Brandon asked from behind her.
    “Oh hi Brandon, you startled me. Pepper is doing fine although she is looking thinner since you went to sleep away camp. Hey, when was the last time you got your hair cut? It looks a lot longer.” The last time She saw him, he had just got his curly blonde hair cut, now it was up to his dark brown eyes.
    “A while.” he admited.
    The teacher briskly walked into the room, everyone started to become quiet,“Welcome students to the wonderful year ahead of you in West Oak High. I am Ms. Granelda, your english teacher for the year. This year we are going to be focusing on poetry- the beauty of this language.” Ms.Granelda exclaims dramatically. Amy rolled her eyes, now She see why everyone called her a crazy teacher. She is overly deramatic, not my type. Ms. Granelda began handing out an overview on poetry: 
    “Poetry is literary work in which particular intensity is given to the expression of feelings and ideas by the use of distinctive style and rhythm...” She starts.
    “Zzzzzzzzz... this is boring can we do something else?” Zack the wanna-be cool red head called out. 
    “ Excuse me Mister but we are learning poetry this year and if you have a problem with that go to the principle’s office now!” Ms. Granelda screamed. I’ll try to stay on her good side. Zack jumped out of his seat just
    sry not all of it fit.

    • ANSWER:
      I agree with the first answer.

      You need to find your plot, even though this is only the beginning. To me, it seems like just another story where there's a popular girl, a not popular girl, a popular guy who eventually ditches his popular girlfriend for the unpopular main character.

      Also, you keep switching between first and third person and your writing is confusing me. And there are quite a few spelling and grammar errors.

      Sorry, I was grudgingly honest.

  40. QUESTION:
    my wife is boring in bed please help?
    ive been married to a georgus women for 20 years .we are both 38.
    over the last five or so years she has mastered the art of achieving orgasm during sex as quick and whenever she wants the problem is over the last year she has quit her job as im very succesful as she felt she would rather help me in a small way in my bussines which is fine.but the problem is when we have sex its always in missionary position and she orgasms very quickly and thats it over. when we have foreplay its amazing and she cant get enough of me but that is very few and far bewtween nowadays.im a very romantic husband in everyway and help out with all the chores our kids are aged between 10 and 15 so dont need much help.i have a very fit and muscular body for my age and sometimes walk about nude in our bedroom hopeing that it will get her horny but rarely does.i always give her compliments .and as i said when we do have sex she orgasms within 5 minutes and i end up having to finishing myself off which is degrading.she has told me to come to bed early so i do and when i try something on shes to tired and then in the morning i try again same thing too tired .ive spoken to my wife about it but to no avail as every time i do she gets defensive. ive even went away for weekends with her and sex is over in 5 minutes .(ive tried every trick in the book) .as long as shes satisfied she is happy .phsically she is lazy where as i take pride in my body so that my wife desires me.im getting to the stage that i feel like getting another women just to #### me.

    • ANSWER:
      I wish you were my husband

  41. QUESTION:
    Do you like my book so far?
    “Amy Benson WAKE UP!!!!! It’s your first day of school! Aren’t you excited?!?!?!”
    “Sure.” I reply drowsily.
    “Okay well be ready in 45 minutes so that you won’t be late. I’ll be in the car.” My mom says, walking out the door.
    Sighing, I get out of my snug bed and get dressed in my favorite pair of jeans, and a fitted turquoise tee shirt. I brush my slightly wavy, brown hair, wash my face, and put in my contacts over my green eyes and head down the stairs. My dog pepper is waiting at the foot of the stairs ready for me to walk her. I put on a brown pair of boots, snatch the leash and head out the door.
    People always say that they don’t like walking their dog, I always have. It is so relaxing just to go outside for a little bit to escape from the real world and just play with your dog. Dodging all the puddles left over from last night’s storm, Pepper does her thing and we head back inside.
    My mom is waiting in the car just like she said she would be. I grab my bag, and a protein bar, and head out the door.
    “Good morning Amy you ready for your first day of tenth grade?”
    “Yeah, just a little tired.” I reply.
    “Well you will get to see all of your friends again. That should be fun, getting to catch up after the long break.” Mom responds. She starts the car leaving the house and heads off to West Oak High.
    I never really liked school, but it never bothered me that much either. I used to be in the popular group, with a countless amount of friends. Then I got in a fight with Carly, the “leader” of the group and got myself kicked out. Now I have some real friends. Amanda and Brandon are my best friends.
    “Have fun!” Mom says as she pulls up to the school. Sucking in a deep breath, I emerge from the car. One step at a time, you don’t want to fall and embarrass yourself on the first day of school. Oh well I still trip, falling into a puddle with mud flying everywhere.
    “Wonderful” I whisper.
    “Amy!” Amanda calls, “ are you alright?” she bends down to help pick me up, “You know, tomorrow you should be more careful.” she says jokingly.
    “I’ll try.”
    “Okay well lets go to the bathroom and try to get this disgusting mud off your shirt.”
    We dodge through the throngs of students that are suddenly arriving trying to get to the bathroom before everyone else. I try to get off the water and mud on my shirt but some still stays on. It looks like someone pooped on my shirt. We leave the bathroom, with my hands trying to cover the stain from anyone’s view. I make a left and head to room 220 while Amanda goes to room 216.
    “See you at lunch!” Amanda calls.
    “ Hey Benson nice top!” Josh cackles through all the commotion as I enter the room. I don’t reply. He was my best guy friend until the “incident”. I guess he wasn't really my friend after all. I begin heading to a desk that is next to a window while trying to avoid any paper airplanes hitting me in the head.
    “Hey Amy haven't seen you in almost three weeks. Hows Pepper?” Brandon asks from behind me.
    “Oh hi Brandon, Pepper is doing fine although she is looking thinner since you went to sleep away camp. Hey, when was the last time you got your hair cut? It looks a lot longer.” The last time I saw him, he had just got his curly blonde hair cut, now it is up to his dark brown eyes.
    “A while.” he admits.
    The teacher suddenly walks into the room, everyone starts to become quiet,“Welcome students to the wonderful year ahead of you in West Oak High. I am Ms. Granelda, your english teacher for the year. This year we are going to be focusing on poetry- the beauty of this language.” Ms.Granelda exclaims over-excitingly. I roll my eyes, now I see why everyone calls her a crazy teacher. She is overly happy, not my type. Ms. Granelda began handing out a sheet about poetry:
    “Poetry is literary work in which particular intensity is given to the expression of feelings and ideas by the use of distinctive style and rhythm...” She starts.
    “Zzzzzzzzz... this is boring can we do something else?” Zack the wanna-be cool red head calls out.
    “ Excuse me Mister but we are learning poetry this year and if you have a problem with that go to the principle’s office now!” Ms. Granelda screams. I’ll try to stay on her good side. Zack jumps out of his seat just as the bell rings. I grab my stuff and head to my next class.
    Brandon rushes to catch up with me,“So Amy, where is your next class? Mine is in room 215, Mr. Hunt.”
    “Same here. I wonder if Amanda is also in our class. Just imagine, math last year all over again.”
    “That would be pretty cool.” Brandon say with a smirk on his face.
    We stepped into Mr. Hunts class. Amanda was there talking to a girl named Jennifer, I don’t really know her that well.
    “Everyone, please take your seat quickly. I am Mr. hunt to everyone even you Chris.”
    “But Dad!” Chris whines from the back of the classroom.
    “No buts I am Mr. Hunt, your science teacher. This year, we will be learning life science, other wise known as
    biology.” His voice boomed through the room. “Now class, the first thing that we are learning about are cells. Cells are the smallest structural and functional unit of an organism.”
    Mr. Hunt keeps talking on and on about cells. He is -so far- a very boring teacher. I try to pay attention but my mind just can’t stay focused. Oh well I’ll just have to make up the work some other day.
    The bell finally rings. I gather all of my stuff and walk over to Amanda.
    “Hi how was your first period?” I ask as we start walking down the hall to lunch.
    “It was definitely more entertaining than science.” She says while tucking her curly black hair behind her ear. We walk into the lunch room swarming with hungry kids. “Are you buying today? I’m not.” I nod my head yes. “Okay I’ll save you a seat.” I walk to the seemingly endless line of people buying. I take a few more steps to see that the menu today was macaroni and cheese. That was what I had for lunch yesterday. I’ll have a salad.
    NO OFFENSE TAKEN FOR CRITICISM. IT WILL MAKE THE BOOK BETTER.

    • ANSWER:
      hmm.. heres some critique i have for you. I think the beginning is a bit rushed. Maybe include some descriptions, setting, personalities, etc. try not to overdo on the 'popularity' thing cause that sometimes ruins the book, unless you write it really, really well.
      i would change either Amy's or Amanda's name as well, because they kinda sound the same.
      other than that, keep on writing!

  42. QUESTION:
    do you like my book so far?
    “Amy Benson WAKE UP!!!!! It’s your first day of school! Aren’t you excited?!?!?!”
    “Sure.” I reply drowsily.
    “Okay well be ready in 45 minutes so that you won’t be late. I’ll be in the car.” My mom says, walking out the door.
    Sighing, I get out of my snug bed and get dressed in my favorite pair of jeans, and a fitted turquoise tee shirt. I brush my slightly wavy, brown hair, wash my face, and put in my contacts over my green eyes and head down the stairs. My dog pepper is waiting at the foot of the stairs ready for me to walk her. I put on a brown pair of boots, snatch the leash and head out the door.
    People always say that they don’t like walking their dog, I always have. It is so relaxing just to go outside for a little bit to escape from the real world and just play with your dog. Dodging all the puddles left over from last night’s storm, Pepper does her thing and we head back inside.
    My mom is waiting in the car just like she said she would be. I grab my bag, and a protein bar, and head out the door.
    “Good morning Amy you ready for your first day of tenth grade?”
    “Yeah, just a little tired.” I reply.
    “Well you will get to see all of your friends again. That should be fun, getting to catch up after the long break.” Mom responds. She starts the car leaving the house and heads off to West Oak High.
    I never really liked school, but it never bothered me that much either. I used to be in the popular group, with a countless amount of friends. Then I got in a fight with Carly, the “leader” of the group and got myself kicked out. Now I have some real friends. Amanda and Brandon are my best friends.
    “Have fun!” Mom says as she pulls up to the school. Sucking in a deep breath, I emerge from the car. One step at a time, you don’t want to fall and embarrass yourself on the first day of school. Oh well I still trip, falling into a puddle with mud flying everywhere.
    “Wonderful” I whisper.
    “Amy!” Amanda calls, “ are you alright?” she bends down to help pick me up, “You know, tomorrow you should be more careful.” she says jokingly.
    “I’ll try.”
    “Okay well lets go to the bathroom and try to get this disgusting mud off your shirt.”
    We dodge through the throngs of students that are suddenly arriving trying to get to the bathroom before everyone else. I try to get off the water and mud on my shirt but some still stays on. It looks like someone pooped on my shirt. We leave the bathroom, with my hands trying to cover the stain from anyone’s view. I make a left and head to room 220 while Amanda goes to room 216.
    “See you at lunch!” Amanda calls.
    “ Hey Benson nice top!” Josh cackles through all the commotion as I enter the room. I don’t reply. He was my best guy friend until the “incident”. I guess he wasn't really my friend after all. I begin heading to a desk that is next to a window while trying to avoid any paper airplanes hitting me in the head.
    “Hey Amy haven't seen you in almost three weeks. Hows Pepper?” Brandon asks from behind me.
    “Oh hi Brandon, Pepper is doing fine although she is looking thinner since you went to sleep away camp. Hey, when was the last time you got your hair cut? It looks a lot longer.” The last time I saw him, he had just got his curly blonde hair cut, now it is up to his dark brown eyes.
    “A while.” he admits.
    The teacher suddenly walks into the room, everyone starts to become quiet,“Welcome students to the wonderful year ahead of you in West Oak High. I am Ms. Granelda, your english teacher for the year. This year we are going to be focusing on poetry- the beauty of this language.” Ms.Granelda exclaims over-excitingly. I roll my eyes, now I see why everyone calls her a crazy teacher. She is overly happy, not my type. Ms. Granelda began handing out a sheet about poetry:
    “Poetry is literary work in which particular intensity is given to the expression of feelings and ideas by the use of distinctive style and rhythm...” She starts.
    “Zzzzzzzzz... this is boring can we do something else?” Zack the wanna-be cool red head calls out.
    “ Excuse me Mister but we are learning poetry this year and if you have a problem with that go to the principle’s office now!” Ms. Granelda screams. I’ll try to stay on her good side. Zack jumps out of his seat just as the bell rings. I grab my stuff and head to my next class.
    Brandon rushes to catch up with me,“So Amy, where is your next class? Mine is in room 215, Mr. Hunt.”
    “Same here. I wonder if Amanda is also in our class. Just imagine, math last year all over again.”
    “That would be pretty cool.” Brandon say with a smirk on his face.
    We stepped into Mr. Hunts class. Amanda was there talking to a girl named Jennifer, I don’t really know her that well.
    “Everyone, please take your seat quickly. I am Mr. hunt to everyone even you Chris.”
    “But Dad!” Chris whines from the back of the classroom.
    “No buts I am Mr. Hunt, your science teacher. This year, we will be learning life science, other wise known as

    biology.” His voice boomed th

    • ANSWER:
      “Okay well be ready in 45 minutes so that you won’t be late. I’ll be in the car.” My mom says, walking out the door.

      Her mom is going to wait 45 minutes in the car?

  43. QUESTION:
    At what point ahould I contact my doctor, if my blood glucose number seems to be high upon getting out of bed?
    I have been bad with checking my blood, until the last few days. This morning my reading was 171. I am taking 1000mg Metformin evry 8 hours and 10 mg every 12 hours, each day. I'm not sure what I am eating that is bad for me, but these numbers worry me. I see my doctor every 3 months and will need to have blood work (incl Hem A1C) before my next appt in Sept. I'm not sure if I should call my doctor at this time or wait. Does anyone some general suggestions that I can use to try to reduce this number? Or maybe references (books or websites)? I know I need to increase my daily exercise too, but I'm sure I'm eating the wrong kinds of foods, to affect me way into the next morning. I was diagnosed in 1999 but have forgotten much of what I learned from that long ago. I'm hoping someone can help me now - my wife is pleading for me to do SOMETHING, and I admit things are out of control. I know there are others out there who have gone through this and are better now.

    • ANSWER:
      If your sugar goes over 300 or AT ANY TIME YOU EXPERIENCE THE SYMPTOMS OF DKA OR SHOW KETONES OR HIGH LEVELS OF GLUCOSE IN YOUR URINE.

      All diabetics should have urine test strips for glucose and ketones.

      If your meter reads "HIGH", you should call 911 IMMEDIATELY. Most meters have a cutoff around 500-600 and if a sugar level is higher than that, it will read "high".

      EMT
      Type 1, pump user

  44. QUESTION:
    what do you think of this? first chapter of a book, let me know if you like it?
    Kate stepped out of the humid washroom, her hair and face damp with sweat, her damp clothes clinging to her from hours of washing the laundry of the family who lived in this fabulous house. The Kenyon's were very kind, for it was not often that a lowly maid was aloud chambers in the house of the ones she served. small, chilled chambers, but chambers none the less. she had been working here for 5 years, and yet not even an adult. she was taken to work here, when she was but 10 years old. her parents had been killed on a shipwreck, and this was her only chance of survival, to work.
    "kate, you are finished for today."came the welcome call of Henry Kenyon, the master of the house which she worked and lived.
    the maid sighed in relief as she climbed the stairs to her chamber, which seemed much longer and steeper after a long day of work. when she at last, after what seemed like hours of climbing, reached her chamber, she collapsed on the bed.
    the bells that sounded at the sight of a new guest woke her after a few hours of restless sleep. sighing, she got up, knowing there was work for her to do. Kate looked at the moon, surprised, for it was over halfway down, not a common time for a guest to be arriving. Shrugging, she quickly combed through her hair and straightened her clothing.
    5 minutes later, Kate was with the other 10 confused maids downstairs.a knight normally came with others, but this one did not.
    Craning her neck, she saw a man come in from the storm she did not even notice was raging. in the dim light of naught but a candle,she saw that he was very handsome, in a dark, mysterious way. tall, with dark skin stretched over taut muscles, and thick hair that curled about his neck. his dark eyes cast an eerie glow, and she realized in an instant, that for the first time in her life, she was attracted to a man. but she shrugged off the attraction at once, because he was a kings earl,a knight, and she was but a lowly
    maid. for a short moment, his eyes met hers in a way that seemed to make time stop. then he addressed the mistress of the household
    "pardon my rudeness for coming at this time at night,but i got here a bit sooner then expected."he said in a rough voice that seemed to scare and entice kate in the same instant.
    "all is forgiven, but why have you no men with you? no guards, or even a one other man for protection?"
    "i prefer to travel on my own, much easier that way.and less complicated"
    confused, Mrs. Kenyon nodded her acknoledgement."Kate will prepare a room for you, for you must be famished."She said as she pointed to kate.
    after realizing she was to be the one to prepare a place to sleep for this handsome man, kates pulse started racing at near unbearable hights.She took a deep breath to settle herself.
    "thank you for you kindness," came the answer of this man that at once made her feel as no one had in the past.

    • ANSWER:
      Work on your grammar and try to make it flow a little better. Be more descriptive...how did sje smell, why was she wet from doing laundry?

  45. QUESTION:
    Is this a good idea for a book?
    The name of the book is called Sons and Bounty Hunters. Its about a lady who finds her son and they go on missions together as mother-son bounty hunters. Here's a preview of the book:
    Prologue
    As I drove home from work, I noticed something unusual in the driveway. It was almost midnight, so I could not see very well, but I did see strange glowing yellow eyes.
    Then, as I entered my house, I headed upstairs to my room, and my heart skipped a beat. I noticed a strange human lying on my bed, reading a book. He is probably that thing I saw in my driveway. His eyes were not yellow at all, but a bright green. He had pale skin, but a rosy complexion. He had light blonde hair, about to his shoulders. My guess is that he is about thirteen. He was the figure of an angel, though I knew he was human. He looked a lot like my son, Justin, though he was kidnapped when he was six. I have not ever been able to find him.
    His eyes rose from the book. I started to blush because he was gawking at me.
    “Why are you staring at me? Didn’t your parents tell you it’s rude to stare?”
    “Yeah, my mom might have mentioned it,” His voice was the sound of an angelic chorus, with an accent I could not place.
    “What are you reading?”
    “Twilight.”
    “Really? I thought those books were for girls.”
    “They are, but someone got me into them, and I cannot stop reading them.” That is weird, thirteen year-old boy reading Twilight.
    “Anyways, back to the point at hand. What are you doing here?” I almost screamed at him because I was scared. He put the book down and got off the bed. I was prepared for anything.
    “I’m your son.” Except that. I fainted from the shock.
    Chapter 1- Stories
    “Hello, are you awake?” I heard a voice ask. I wanted to reply, but I couldn’t find my voice. I opened my eyes and noticed I was lying on my bed, with Justin over me. I moved my hand toward him to stroke his face, but he flinched and moved too far for my hand to reach. I sat up so I could see him better.
    “Justin, what happened to you?” I pointed at a long scar he had on his arm.
    “When I was kidnapped, they cut me with knives to make sure I couldn’t run away.”
    “Who are they? Why did they take you?”
    “The people that took me are the Society of Potential Kids. Their mission, supposedly, is to take the kids with the potential to be great hunters, and train them. What they really do is give you a sword, or a weapon of any kind, and let you fight against each other. The last three survivors are left to wander the streets. I got this scar when someone slashed my arm with a dagger.”
    “How long were you in the streets?”
    “I’ve been on the streets for about three years.
    “You’ve been gone for three years and haven’t come home? How could you have done this to me?”

    I've got the plot of the rest of the story, I just don't have it typed yet.
    I am still ediitng it. So, i will try and change everything that you guys commented on. Thanks for all your help.

    • ANSWER:
      It's quite good, but needs a fair bit of work.
      If you are looking to pitch this, you should do your homework. If you just want to write a great story, then keep doing what you're doing. If you want it published, you need to get researching.
      When you publish, the publisher wants to know what else is on the market that could possibly compare to your manuscript, and why yours is better.
      Although, I would suggest you change 'Society of Potential Kids' to something less ambiguous, such as 'Society for Children/Kids with potential' or 'The Society', because as it stands you are staying that they are potentially children, not children with potential.
      There are a few tense (using has and had in the same sentence to describe the same thing) problems, and you will need to get someone to have a look at it (editor) before publishing, but it is a good idea. I would do the homework part to avoid disappointment if you want to publish.
      Good luck.

  46. QUESTION:
    Why am I so dizzy today; It's never been this bad before? I hallucinated and fainted?
    I get dizzy and light headed a lot when I stand up but only once or twice have I had it last longer than a minute or so and it's never gotten this bad. I've never fainted from light headedness either. I'm a 15 year old guy.

    I went to Six Flags yesterday and felt normal; I didn't take any drugs or anything besides a couple Monsters. I got enough fluids so I shouldn't be dehydrated.

    But last night on the way home I was nodding off. When I got home I read a little on my couch listening to music and felt a little dizzy just laying there if I put my book down and just looked at the visualizer on my xbox. I fell asleep on the couch around 2 and woke up at 9 and walked up to my room. I felt extremely dizzy, like the entire room was spinning and I could barely walk up the stairs. When I made it to my bed I had to work really hard to put the covers back on it (I was still almost too dizzy to stand) and I finally crawled back in and fell straight asleep.

    I woke up again around 12 and laid in bed for a long time. At one point I get I sort of hallucinated that someone was giving me Cheese-Its (my favorite food) and I kept trying to grab them (I thought they were laying on the bed). I was sure that I felt them they just kept slipping out of my hand because I was so tired. I then lifted my sheet to find them and that's when I realized "Wait... What the hell?"

    Then I slowly got up (since I realized that might've been the problem) and walked to my door and I think I must have fainted because I don't even remember standing by my door; I just remember hearing me hit the door (already open) and probably the floor and then the next thing I know is that I'm sitting down on the floor leaning against my door. My parents didn't hear and I don't know if I was unconscious.

    I have no idea what happened, and I just want to know if there's something I could do or at least some hypothesis of a cause. My girlfriend's coming over tonight so I wanted to know if it was going to go away by then or at least be able to calm it down.

    I've been sitting down for a while now by my PC and I feel really heavy headed. When I stand up I still feel a little dizzy but not nearly as bad; I'm drinking a Monster in case it's fatigue related. My eyes are sensitive to light and my muscles feel weak and lighter than they should.

    • ANSWER:

  47. QUESTION:
    Help, I am so stuck, don't know where to continue with my story?
    This is my story, and I am just stuck! I don't what else to add if I add that Lucy gets trapped then that would be too normal but I have a moment of writer's block. Help???

    Preface

    Have you ever wondered what other people’s lives felt like? Like the rich, or the movie stars, or the artists, or maybe even one of your friends’ lives? And how the saying “the grass is always greener on the other side” seems to always catch attention? It is very, very true. How a human could always wonder. And how this human being very smart could imagine a whole world above their self.

    Ch.1 The simplest things turn into a huge deal

    I was on my bed. Sitting. Reading. Being bored as always. I mean what other thing could a eleven
    year old do in her spare time? I really never loved television. Or the internet. I have always loved reading but after reading millions of books you’d think I would get bored but I never do. I was reading the last book of the series “Twilight”, the book “Breaking dawn.”

    “Ah I read too fast!” I said to myself.
    I was already on chapter 12 of the second part of the book.
    And Edward didn’t want to lose any time with her, because he didn’t have much time left. Carlisle didn’t say the words out loud, but he migh-“
    “Lucy, honey come down stairs please I want to talk to you!”
    Ugh Mom always had to interrupt me when I was getting at a good part of the book.
    I made my way downstairs and saw my mom at the table with her blonde curls all wrapped in a tight bun. Mom looked as if she was a troubled mother that had not gotten any sleep the night before.
    That’s how it was, exactly how it was though.
    “Now sweetie, your father is coming home early, we’re going out to dinner, dress up and fix your hair please.” My mother looked as if she was going to explode as she said the next part. “Your aunt and cousins are coming in town tonight. I know how you feel about Alyssa but be nice.” “Okay, is that all?” I quickly asked my mother. “Yes that’s all, thank you.”
    Well this is great just great, my cousins come on this horrible now much, much horrible afternoon.
    I guess I had to get dressed so I reluctantly went to my room.
    I quickly looked through my entire dresser for my cute but not too girly, white summer dress. But I guess all I had to do was look in my closet, it was right there sitting on the first hanger. So I grabbed it and dressed. Then snatched my sapphire blue mini sweater.
    My dress looked perfect on my pale looking skin, with my sweater that barely touched my waist but it was open so you could see the top. Many people said I was just so cute, but I always have known someone who looked better. Always. I had light brown hair with highlights of red. And it seems I was always pale never gotten sunburned or never tanned. Freckles cover my cheeks. My hair is framed around my face being able to reach my middle back. I had straight hair completely.
    Yes I am eleven so I was going through a serious stage in my life, growing and changing but I went with the flow, never seemed to worry about it.
    I have never really doubted myself and never really cared what people thought of my appearance but I was a very shy girl. Seeming to be very laid back though, just like my parents. Everyone always said I was very mature for my age as well.
    I went to the bathroom after checking my outfit. Splashed some water in my face then brushed my hair. Finally I picked out a pair of flats that were lined with white. I then, went to my bed and picked up my book and got into my happy place.
    By the time Mom called me down to go to dinner, I was on chapter 16! And only an hour passed and this books chapters are long! Maybe I should enter a fast reader’s contest? I marked my page and went slowly downstairs.
    My mother looked amazing! Her hair was put up as if wearing a huge crown in its place. She had this beautiful red crimson dress shirt on and a long black skirt on, her face which in my opinion never needed make up had just a little eye shadow and lip gloss.
    All of a sudden the door shot open.
    And that’s the last I remember.

    Out of no where I woke up. “Oh good just a dream.” I said with wonderful relief.
    I looked around, I was on my bed, the time exactly said 6:01 pm.
    But I quickly understood that my suggestion I made to myself was not a dream in fact it was the real reality that I would fear of because that ment something or someone put me on my bed. And I knew I would fear because there is a reason I fainted.
    I knew my visual in my mind was not a dream, because I heard a man’s voice I did not recognize come from downstairs.
    Then as I thought all of this and tried to think of what to do, someone was walking upstairs. So I lied back down and pretended to sleep.
    “Ah she is still knocked out Alice.”
    “Yes she is Frank.”
    “I can’t wait to meet this little girl who is supposedly my niece, Ha! I bet she is just like her pity mother!”
    This
    Thank you, Kellie that was a great idea! I think I'll take it into consideration. As you could probably see I'm at the beginning so I am not even thinking about publishing. But if I ever do I will give credit to whoever I may take the idea from.

    • ANSWER:
      how about she listens in on the conversation till frank says hes going to go see her to make sure shes still there and knocked out then goes to the window and hides. frank comes in and looks around notices shes not there stars yelling down the stairs at alice and starts searching the room. lucy is breathing hard, hanging from the gutter pipe by her window notices that she left the window open by accident and starts freaking out silently, she decides to she shimmies up the pipe till she reaches the roof she tries to push herself onto the roof but she placed one of her hands wrong on the gutter and slips, her shoe falls off and lands in a bush that's under her window frank hears the noise and looks out the window lucy dares not to move or shell be seen...and you can probably keep going from there

  48. QUESTION:
    How many parents out there really sleep with their babies?
    I know books and doctors say its not safe to sleep in the same bed as your child, but i'm wondering, how many out there really do sleep in the same bed as their babies. And how long did it last?

    • ANSWER:
      I did, and still do on some nights. I started when my son was 6 weeks and we transitioned him to his crib when he was 6 months. Now I only put him in bed with my when he refuses to sleep in his crib. He's been having trouble the past week or so and has ended up in my bed.

  49. QUESTION:
    How do I get my almost 5yr old son to sleep in his own bed?
    Okay I know I started the problem ; ) but my soon to be 5yr old has been sleeping with me. A few weeks ago I started the long and grueling process of making him sleep alone. The only time I get a full nights sleep now is when he's at his fathers house. At bedtime I have him brush his teeth and either pick a cartoon to watch or a book to read, I tuck him in, kiss him etc. Then I leave the room and he follows me. I've tried the normal bribe...sleep five nights then get a surprise, I"ve stayed long enough for him to fall asleep and he wakes in the night and comes to my room. I know at this point I should not let him in my bed, so I take him back to his bed but he wakes back up about every hour! Last night sometime after 4am was my fourth time getting up with him and putting him back to bed, I woke up at 6am to him in my bed again! Another fail! lol okay so now I'm going crazy what do i do? Should I lock my bedroom door for a few nights so he can't sneak in? HELP!

    • ANSWER:
      You have turned on the night light, turned down the sheets, have given an "all clear" of any night-time gremlins, and have given your child a drink of water. A book has been read and your child has been smothered with nighty-night kisses and sweet dreams hugs.

      If you are one of the lucky ones, the blissful evening silence may carry over into morning madness. But for many parents of young children, the bedtime calm may last only seconds, minutes, or into the middle of the night with the persistent evening creep back into your room. A child's wide eyes, often wet with tears and sometimes lack of sleep, are often combined with excuses to melt almost any heart and diffuse parental protests, especially if it's 3 a.m. and you need to work in the morning. "My room is making noises," "I need a drink," "I'm hungry," "I miss you so much," "I'm scared," "I'm lonely," "I'm sick" or simply, "I can't sleep." Name the argument; some parent has already heard it before. It's easy for a sleep-deprived parent to simply turn down the sheet and half-heartedly left a young child sleep in their bed. It's the next morning--after enduring a night of tossing and turning of a wiggly child, loss of privacy, a child hard to awaken in the morning in time for school or daycare, or perhaps even wet sheets as a result--the parent insists the habit of a child sneaking into bed must change.

      But how? Here are some tips for making the permanent transition of a child sleeping in his/her own bed:

      * Make your child's room inviting, decorated to his/her taste, and age-appropriate. Consider allowing your child to help decorate by at the very least picking out the bedding. For the more ambitious adventurers, give your child choices of a bedroom theme, positioning of bed and furniture (with your help, of course), and overall look and feel. The general idea is you want your child to absolutely LOVE his/her room and want to spend time in it!

      * Consider the size of the bed. Some parents move their child to a twin or even larger bed as soon as a child graduates from the crib. For some children, that is fine, but others may feel intimidated or even threatened by its size. Depending on a child's nature, toddler beds can provide a nice transition between crib and twin. These beds often are available in theme designs, such as a race car or castle. Make sure your child can easily get in and out of bed and feels comfortable in it.

      * Establish a memorable bedtime routine. The routine does not need to be elaborate; however, it should be something your child looks forward to each night and considers a special time. This can be as simple as reading a favorite book in a special part of the room, having a bath to soothing music, eating a snack and then brushing teeth, singing a favorite song, saying a prayer, exchanging highlights of the day, or even a special bedtime kiss-n-hug ritual.

      * Require your child to go to the bathroom just before bedtime. Sometimes its the need to go to the bathroom that then causes the child to wake and then want company.

      * Don't lie down with your child, or if you do, only stay for a brief time. You don't want your child to think he/she has to have someone lay down with him for sleep.

      * Establish the rule that your child will now sleep in his/her own bed and make no exceptions. Some parents report that it is helpful to build it into a celebration, such as "Now that you are starting kindergarten, you are expected to stay in your own bed every night" or "As a 4-year-old, you will get new privileges! One of those is the excitement of picking the toy you want to sleep with in your own bed every night."

      * Don't weaken to crying or whining. If you do, your child wins. Tell your child you are not going to keep coming in for kisses, hugs, discussion, begging, or pleading. Stick to this. If your child leaves the room, simply re-direct the child back without discussion. Show no weakness, or your child will know that this behavior results in a change.

      * Finally, even if you are totally exhausted or its an unseemly hour of the night, walk your child back to his/her room immediately if you receive a visitor. Don't over-react or give to much attention; simply say, "The rules are that you sleep in your own bed."

      If you maintain consistency and the rules, your child will be sleeping in his or her bed throughout the night in no time. And, you and your child will both get improved shut eye and be better prepared to face the new day together!

  50. QUESTION:
    help with bed times (2)?
    i posted this last night and got one very helpful answer, but i was just looking to see if i could get some more feed back...thanks. i am tying desperately to get my (just turned) two year old daughter to put herself to sleep, sleep in her own bed and have a bed time. i understand that it may take longer because she is older, but i am wondering if there is anyone out there that has dealt with this, how long it took, how they went about it? anything that might make this hard time any easier. id also like to know if im going about this in the correct ways. i have set her bed time for 830, (may change to 8, but for now this is what works with our schedule) i read her a book and then say goodnight and leave her in her bed. now as soon as i leave she crys and trys to come downstairs and i put her back in bed and tell her to get back in bed. i can tell she goes to sleep, and then wakes up crying again. i just don't know if this is the way you get them to fall asleep on their on? any way ANY advise is very appreciated. also i do know i should have done this WAY sooner, but due to previous living arrangements (sleeping arrangements) i was unable to, and will be starting my second born out without co-sleeping, so thanks to anyone who can help!

    i did (and have continued) to explain to her why this is happening and that it is a good thing for big girls. and she just wants to sleep with me.

    also i dont know if it makes a differance but she didnt have a crib when she was a baby(do to our situation) she did have a pack n play but really didnt sleep in it(they are so hard).

    • ANSWER:
      Why does she get upset? Is she scared of the dark? Afraid of "monsters", or just doesn't want you to leave?

      Try having a comfort item. Get her a bear or other stuffed animal that will be her bedtime buddy. To her it will be her guardian, protector, and companion. If she's afraid of the dark get her a night light.

      She's only known sleeping with you her whole life, so it's a scary new adjustment and will take time. 2 years old is a bit young to reason with anyway, so you'll have to be patient with her. Be consistent with her bed time, when she gets up, and when she takes a nap.

      Over time she'll get used to the routine. Hang in there!


Last Longer In Bed

Written By: admin - Mar• 12•12

You can overcome premature ejaculation. If you are lacking stamina in bed, take heart. It is NOT too late to do something about it. PE can be defeated. You can regain your self confidence.

If you've been thinking that PE is a disease, or something that you need to consult a doctor about, you are not alone. But the simple truth is, premature ejaculation is reversible; it is NOT permanent. And some of the best ways to beat PE can be done from home, with just a little bit of your time and commitment (no embarrassing trips to the doctor is required).

Here's a great "self-gratification" technique you can learn and practice from home. It involves using masturbation to become familiar with your body's sexual arousal patterns and gradually gaining control over your ejaculatory functions.

Here's how...

Start masturbation using a dry hand. Vary the way you stroke and stimulate your penis so that you learn how to stay in a highly aroused state without getting too close to the Point of No Return (PNR). When you sense an orgasm approaching, simply slow down your stimulation or stop completely. As you feel the arousal subsiding, resume stimulation. Then repeat the whole process - approach the PNR, then back off. For many most guys, it takes just several sessions to improve their ejaculatory control.

Once you have achieved better control, repeat the entire process, this time using a lubricated hand (vegetable oil, a sexual oil-based lubricant or even your own saliva works well). The use of lubrication increases the intensity of arousal and closely mimics what happens during actual sex. Like before, stimulate yourself until you are close to the Point of No Return, back off and then resume stimulation. Practice this over several sessions and you will experience a significant improvement over your sexual stamina.

Key takeway...

Believe it or not, for many men, there is NO need for fancy sprays, creams, pills or other expensive products that claim to treat premature ejaculation. Your own pair of hands will give you tremendous leverage to boost your sexual stamina and start enjoying sex that really lasts!


Last Longer In Bed Cream

Written By: admin - Mar• 12•12

In this article I give you my top 8 ways to last longer in bed. These are tried and tested techniques to enable you to last longer tonight!

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Firstly though I have to point out that the serious problem of premature-ejaculation affects over two thirds of males today. Premature-ejaculation is more than simply just not last long enough in bed and the underlying issues may be brought about by numerous factors over a number of years. This can be problems stemming from bad masturbation habits as a teenager, to experiencing stress or other health problems in modern times.

Curing premature-ejaculation needs to be done over a matter of weeks but there are several ways to last longer in bed which we can implement to alleviate some of our problems in the very short term. By that I mean we can use them tonight!

So, as promised I will give you several methods that you can implement this evening that will help you last longer in bed. These are as follows;

1) Alter the way you have sex. There are hundreds of positions to try. Find one less stimulating for you!

2) Shorter thrust in a circular motion will stimulate more areas of your penis making you last longer.

3) When you are getting close to the point of no return you must learn to stop.

4) Alter your techniques so you are not pleasing yourself all the time. Stop and alter your moves. Just make sure you keep pleasing her. Don't neglect oral and foreplay methods during sex.

5) The PC muscle is that one behind your testicles. Practise controlling this and you can control when to ejaculate.

6) A quick way to reduce your sensitivity is to drink some alcohol or wear a condom.

7) A quick and easy one is to masturbate before having sex. Instantly last longer!

8) Take a deep breath when you are close to reduce the reflex urge to ejaculate.

Although these techniques will work immediately you must remember that Premature-Ejaculation is a longer term issue that needs proper understanding and certain exercises to solve completely.

That said, using the above ways to last longer in bed will certainly ensure you last a lot longer tonight.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  1. QUESTION:
    what is the name of the cream that makes you last longer in bed when size don't matter but i have seen it on
    what is the name of that cream that makes you last longer in bed ? i have seen it on tv

    • ANSWER:
      Cream? Not unless it is Novocaine based. Try Viagra.

  2. QUESTION:
    Is there a cream or a lotion or lube that i can that can buy to last longer in bed?
    Something inexpensive like around 30 bucks or less(the cheaper the better). I heard ky his and hers works but I wanna know if theres anything surefire.

    • ANSWER:
      You can buy a tube of 'desensitizing cream' to rub onto 'Junior' to help delay blastoff.

  3. QUESTION:
    How can a guy last longer in bed with a girl?
    what are some techniques that you use to last longer in bed. i cum out really quickly. and i wanna know what i can do to last longer? is there any kind of cream or anything i can use so it can help me last longer?

    • ANSWER:
      One thing you could do is slow down. It's not the special creams or anything. Before you get down to business, maybe pull one out so that you can focus on her. Get her going and by the time she's ready to get it on, you'll be ready too.

      Good luck.

  4. QUESTION:
    What is a good way for your man to last longer in bed?
    Hey guys,

    So Basically my question says it all, I was wondering if anyone out there knows of a sexual supplement for longer lasting sex?

    For example: Pills, something to drink, cream/lotion, oil etc etc

    Thanks all for your help :)

    • ANSWER:
      He needs to focus on other things during sex and not focus on oh my look what Im doing Im getting some, because we work off of visuals the more we see the harder it is to hold back. try turning off all the lights and see if that helps. As for supplements they are all a waste of money and time its all about mind control and if he cares enough about you he will try to hold it a little longer so he is not the only one satisfied.

  5. QUESTION:
    Hey what are good exercises to LAST LONGER IN BED?
    like i know when u got the the bathroom and start going P and then stop it helps that muscle but are there other ones ?
    I dont need any advice on like what to do in bed and stuff just to make myself last longer ( like dont mention any creams or condoms or anything)

    • ANSWER:
      Here is a honest working guideline to increase your lasting time in bed naturally and permanently:

      1. Be sure you are not suffering any diseases. If you are suffering any disease, consult with doctor and cure yourself. And also be sure you are totally free from any sorts of stomach diseases like dysentery, IBS and jaundice.

      2. Stress and anxiety are the main enemy of lasting longer in bed. So be sure you are free from all sorts of stress and anxiety. Live a relaxed, happy, healthy life. Laugh everyday as much as you can. Laughing will make you relaxed and happy. And don't suffer sexual performance anxiety in bedroom. Just be calm while making love, don't feel nervous.

      3. Eat proper nutritional diet regularly in time.

      4. Start practicing yoga. It will keep your whole body healthy, will help to circulate blood properly and will make you calm which is needed to last longer. And it is the pre-requisition of performing later steps of this guideline.

      5. Start practicing Pranayam and Qigong breathing technique everyday.

      6. Practice relaxation meditation regularly. While meditating give positive autosuggestion yourself like, "I can last longer in bed. I can make love for long time." etc based on your needs and situation. Autosuggestion must have to be positive. If you don't know nothing about it, search google to know more about it.

      7. After continuing these for about 3-4 months, start doing cardio and some little heavy workouts for body building.

      8. About 6 months later start full heavy workouts for body building. Slowly increase your workouts level. If you are thin or underweight, gain some weights.

      9. Start practicing PC muscle exercising, and other techniques etc from now to increase your lasting time. There have a good ebook about this PC muscle exercise written by Barbara Keisling named "How to make love all night and drive your woman wild in bed". Search google and you will get it free. There have some sorts of exercises, techniques and routines to increase the lasting time naturally and permanently. Don't be disappointed. Once I suffered it too. But I have cured following this site's advice http://www.howtolastlongerinbed.com/ . So get the ebook from this site too. Honestly, it's worth spending some bucks to get this ebook.

      Start these exercise and routines only after completing the first 8 steps here. Otherwise you won't get noticeable result. Continue the book's guideline carefully and you will be able to last longer in bed permanently. Do not do anything by guessing. Know exactly what muscle you have to exercise and where it is locating, how you have to perform it. Learn properly first. Then perform.

      10. Don't masturbate. Instead of masturbating, make love calmly with a real woman.

      11. Do not penetrate without full erection.

      12. Woman on top position will delay your ejaculation.

  6. QUESTION:
    has anybody tried pills or creams that make you last longer in bed?
    first do they work and if they do what was it called

    • ANSWER:
      No - they don't work.

  7. QUESTION:
    How can i make my boyfriend last longer in bed?
    We have been togeather for 5 years and we have 2 kids and we dont get much alone time so when we do i want it to lasta little while. It has always been this way. The making love part is fantstic but it last seriously mabey 2-4 minnutes. I love him with all my heart and we have tried special creams and stuff to make him last longer but nothing works. HELP PLEASE!!!

    • ANSWER:
      Go to Barnes and Noble or do an Amazon search. There are books with exercises. They're written by professional sex therapists, they're inexpensive books, usually short, and they'll give you a lot better idea than what you'll get on Yahoo Answers. Seriously. The idea of doing exercises together sounds mechanical, but by all reports they help and the condition (premature ejaculation) is very treatable.

  8. QUESTION:
    How can I last longer in bed?
    I recently lost my virginity and everything has been great so far, except I keep getting off way too fast. The first time I had sex I lasted the longest (ironic I know) and each time I've been doing it since then I've cum quicker and quicker. I can masturbate for a long time but once I get inside the real thing I lose all composure. I'm not willing to try any creams or numbing agents, I just want to know why I'm actually decreasing my sexual tolerance!

    • ANSWER:

  9. QUESTION:
    how to last longer in bed?
    i read stuff on the internet but there is a lot to ready. anyone know of anything i can buy at local stores that helps a guy last longer? only thing i can think of is numbing cream(which i've never tried) and a cock ring that cuts off circulation to the dong. anything i'm missing? i don't last long and the only thing that helps is vodka but she doesn't like me doing that just for sex lol. any tips help

    • ANSWER:

  10. QUESTION:
    How to last longer in bed? ?
    I have sex with my gitlfriend, and sometimes I can last about 20-30 minutes. Other times I burst after 5 minutes, is there a way to stop premature ejaculation without the use of numbing cream or pills?

    • ANSWER:
      Five minutes might very well be just fine. Does she climax in that time also?

      If you want to last longer, practice. Have yourself, and practice different rhythms, grips, and patterns, to find out how to prolong things. Practice with her, both during intercourse and with oral and hand play. Make it a game with her to see how long she can keep you "at the brink." Chances are she'll enjoy that game.

      Numbing pills and creams will deny you sensation and thus diminish your pleasure. Sort of defeats the purpose.

      Have fun! Wear condoms!

  11. QUESTION:
    Can I apply numbing cream on the head of my penis and put a condom on it to last long in bed?
    seriously

    • ANSWER:
      Sure, many guys do that (when I was active, I did that apporach as well and that was years ago)

  12. QUESTION:
    is there any kind of cream i can put on my ***** when having sex, so i can last longer?
    im a guy, and when i have sex with girls i come out really quickly. is there any cream i can put on my penis so i can last longer in the bed with her?

    • ANSWER:
      rub one out before you head out on that next date. you'll last longer if it's round 2.

  13. QUESTION:
    How To Last Longer In Bed?
    I suffer from PE for too long now... I can see that my girlfriend is very disappointed, even though she isn't saying anything:(
    What to do??? I thought about creams or pills, Do you know any effective natural solutions for premature ejaculation?

    • ANSWER:
      If you want to last longer in bed, I can assure you that you can learn how to do it naturally. You don't need NO pills or creams!

      You need to follow a few steps-
      You should gain more control over your arousal level- by doing so you will be more aware of how close you are to the point of no return.

      You need to train your pc muscles- which are responsible for the ejaculation itself. By training these muscles you will be able to have more control on when you climax. There are specific exercises you can learn and practice.

      You need to relax your body and your mind. There are breathing exercises you can learn that will help you last longer in bed.

      There are many more tips... I think you should learn more on the subject and resolve to solve your problem Naturally.

  14. QUESTION:
    Is there any way to make you last longer in bed naturally?
    No pills,creams,lotions,etc..

    • ANSWER:

  15. QUESTION:
    Guys: how do you last longer in bed?
    Been with this new girl who is SUPER hot, but I can't seem to last anywhere near as long as i should!!!

    I'm not using pills and creams and any unnatural stuff, i read that is all a scam anyway!

    Any tips???

    • ANSWER:
      Control your breathing and focusing on the moment is the easiest thing to do.

      I read this blog post a few months back and it REALLY helped me. It has a link to some sex researcher's site where he explains exactly what makes you come and how to control it.

      Good luck

      http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110407165745AATutyg

  16. QUESTION:
    Best solution to last longer in bed?
    Pills, Creams etc.. What yall recommend?

    • ANSWER:
      excersises when you are peeing stop the pee this is the muscle you will be excersiseing just flex it for as long as you can when you are hard a over the corse of a few days you will notice a difference in bed

  17. QUESTION:
    (? for the guys) What do you do to last longer in bed?
    I totally love my boyfriend. But whenever we have sex and he hasn't had a few beers beforehand, he comes way sooner than i have a chance to.

    I can tell it bothers him because of the way he acts all embarrassed afterward. He's started giving me oral beforehand so I am taken care of either way (b/c he is a sweetie) but i'd like to be able to suggest some ways to hold his stuff longer so he doesn't feel obligated to pay me tongue service.

    He said he tried pills and a cream and they don't work...plus i think that's kind of weird.

    any all natural suggestions????

    • ANSWER:
      I used to do that too. I also tried numbing creams and pills from the internet, but they only delayed it a bit. I don't know why the guy suggests masturbating, that's one of the reasons guys come so quickly, because they're used to coming fast from jerking off...

      After all that crap I decided enough is enough and started looking for scientific reasons of why guys prematurely ejaculate. ejaculation is caused when certain chemicals are sent from the body. once these chemicals are released, bam, the explosion happens.

      I found this page after searching for a while and it has a link to the ebook i got that explains WHY you ejaculate, and gives you the steps you need to practice to last longer NATURALLY. no creams, pills, or viagra.

      I went from 2 minutes max (with a not so hot girl...more like 1 minute with a good looking girl) to 20 in a week. No world record but enough to get her off through SEX, not oral. Rock on!

      here is the link:
      http://lastallnightinbed.blogspot.com/

  18. QUESTION:
    Need Tips on Lasting Longer in Bed?
    I need tips on ways to last longer in bed. To be honest it is not always an issue but i dont like the inconsistancy between performing well sometimes and other times having a "short show" so to speak. What are the best ways to "desensitize" myself of ensure i can last long enough everytime? Also, any known desensitizing creams at a local store i can search?
    Also, Im 19, could this just be a teenage thing? Is visualization really key? Thanks

    • ANSWER:

  19. QUESTION:
    How long do bed bug bites last?
    I was wondering if there was a cream or something to remove these bed bug bites quicker kuz i just cant take this freaken itching, this is the last time i sleep over at my moms house, i got around more than 10 bites on my body in just one night

    • ANSWER:
      idk how long they last but i think this is important to tell you, if you found bed bugs on you when you were home, then you probably have some there, you can spread them by just brushing up against someone and if you sit down, some jump off and wait until they can sense someone sitting in the same spot, its disgusting and they don't just go on beds, they go on carpets, couches, and seats, my 3 friends just moved to an apartment together and every week someone has to get their place sprayed with bed bug killer stuff

  20. QUESTION:
    Can regular masturbation train you to last long in bed?
    Sometimes I'm fast on the draw when it comes to sex,sometimes I can last for about 30-45 minutes. Is this normal? Men's Health magazine also said that masturbation can train your body to last long in bed. I've been masturbating and using lubricants such as lotions and body cream. Would masturbating with lubricants (it really does simulate a wet vagina) really help me to train my sexual endurance?

    • ANSWER:
      I have no idea about the health Magazine Article...
      But whats worked best for my bf, is when he's about to cum, we stop and change positions.. Usually a position that puts me in control & We keep on doing that.. It gives us more time.
      Also, thrust slowly.... You'll also last longer.

      [Would masturbating with lubricants (it really does simulate a wet vagina) really help me to train my sexual endurance?]

      I guess.. because it creates the feeling of a vagina. That would probably help.

  21. QUESTION:
    how can i last more in bed?
    any tips secrets pills creams ect anything that might work i dont last in bed with my girl and wanted to know how to last longer or get a bigger penis at least...

    • ANSWER:

  22. QUESTION:
    Tips on lasting longer in Bed?({Guys)?
    Any cream,techniques that work, etc..

    • ANSWER:
      Creams are scams that do now work. You can however try natural ways like kegel exercises that will help you prolong your ejaculations and help you have stronger erections. This is however a slow process that will usually take a few weeks before you start seeing some results.

      Here is an article on kegel exercises for men that will help you get started.

  23. QUESTION:
    how do you cure or get rid of premature ejacalation?
    or last longer in bed without creams or condomns. condomns dont work

    • ANSWER:
      In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.

      Some helpful techniques include the following:

      Masturbate an hour or so before having sex.

      The "stop and start" method:

      This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

      The "squeeze" method:

      This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.

  24. QUESTION:
    How come i cant last long (in bed (i'm a guy))?
    no matter what i do i can't seem to last long : i've tryed that kegel excersize and it doesn't work.. am i doing it wrong.. am i using the wrong muscle to stop it or something? and the pulling the testicles down maneauver doesn't work am i doing that wrong too? and there's some muscle between the testicles and the anus that you can push on and it makes you stop but i can't find that :[[[ i don't have the money to go to a sex therapist/hypnotist is there anything otc besides creams to make me numb? also i'm taking medication lamotrigine for bipolar disorder, celexa for depression and adderall xr for adhd... is that maybe affecting them (my parents have health insurance so it pays for that) i'm eighteen but still at home, and please don't say i shouldn't be sexually active at this age because i'm an adult... plus i use protected sex so yaaaaaaaaaa... help me :[[[[[[

    • ANSWER:
      look up PC muscle exercises, try them, help last longer also if ur planning having children later in life helps with how far you can shoot your sperm out.

  25. QUESTION:
    I am a serious premature ejaculator, I've tried creams, pills, everything! What can i do to last longer?
    I feel like a big time loser in bed... thanks for the help

    • ANSWER:
      The methods to last longer in bed is to give her the orgasm she wants before you enter her. Use whatever it takes to get her off, such as your fingers, tongue or toys. After she has climaxed you can last two seconds for all she cares. Chances are though that you will last a pretty long time because there is no pressure on you.

      Of all the methods to last longer in bed I prefer the natural ones because they are free and they are a more permanent cure for premature ejaculation.

  26. QUESTION:
    ladies would you stay with a guy if ?
    you found out he couldnt last more than 1 or 2 minutes on average,3 minutes the most in bed. im in my 30s, ive tried every method, book,trick,doctor,ring cream,ect, to last longer in bed, im just a (minute man). would you stay?would you be happy? or would you move on?

    • ANSWER:
      Honestly, that's a hard question for me... I guess it depends on your skills and your foreplay. Quickies are fun, but only if your in a public place or you don't have much time... But to answer your question, , just the "one minute man" method, no, I woudln't be happy... But if you kept me happy other ways and foreplay, I'd be there to stay for sure...

  27. QUESTION:
    Make him last longer?
    Ok i know he can last longer he has done it before. but latley its over in like 10min. thats barley getting me started! I know he gets super excited and i do all the work and try new things all the time! ive tryed doing 4play then having sex but still same thing ive tryed 4play sex then sex again after he cums. maybe after cuming so much he wld last longer..::like before:: ..but now its still over in 10 min. WHAT THE HECK why all the sudden has it changed to where now i cant even get close? we have tryed thoes creams but thoes just make it num , hes 25 and im 19. I cant ever brng it up cause he gets insecure and feels less like a man he says. but hes really good n bed..if only he cld last LONGERRR
    the first comments LOL. ive told him to make it last and it makes him insecure and feel like crap. we have been together for longer then a yr and still havnt came ..close but not close enough. every time i was about to he wld be done! and id be like a dog in heat humpen the air lol ..
    HELP.. i need good answers. dont make fun lol
    we still do 4play. all the time even after being together soo long! and we do diff things allll the time. ::me being a freak::.. and we do it in diff places. we do it dif ways fast slow ..intimate. and now that we are falling super hard for eachother it feels even better! its amazing. and we do take it slow and he will go down on me ..but gets him even more excited and bam its over! and when i want to do it again rite after..im to idk scared to say lets do it again, or ill start kissen on him and "rapeing" lol him but doesnt go anywhere =(

    • ANSWER:
      10 min of actual intercourse is WELL above normal.
      Be grateful or take matters into your own hands.

  28. QUESTION:
    How can I satisfy my girl in bed? I'm afraid she might start looking for "it" somewhere else?
    I orgasm way too quick... she's getting very frustrated

    I've tried desensitizing cream, masturbating before sex

    also, I got no idea how to make her orgasm, even if i was able to last longer

    help?

    • ANSWER:
      You need to make sure you're hitting all the hot spots man... learn about the clit, g-spot and how to stimulate them

      check this out:

      http://www.mistermanpower.net/blog/tag/how-to-make-a-woman-orgasm

      you can also learn to gain ejaculation control with certain exercises

  29. QUESTION:
    How long do bed bug bites usually last?
    I spent the night at my friend's apartment on a supposedly new couch and i woke up with painfully itchy bites alllll over me. My other friend spent the night there last week and complained of the same thing! we know its bed bugs because we found spots behind the couch. gross. anyway, these bites are sooo annoying i have never had anything like this before. I would love it if someone could give me a round-about time frame in which these things will be GONE! I am using aloe and anti-itch cream at the moment, but i would like these gone by an event i have coming up next weekend. If anyone has any suggestions to get these things gone faster, please let me know. Thank you very much!

    • ANSWER:
      I once had bed bug bites after staying in a lousy motel overnight. I can't quite remember, but if I'm correct it took about two weeks for the itching to stop. Keep in mind I only had about four bites... And tell your friend that the only way (that I know of) to get rid of bed bugs if - unfortunately for him/her - to burn their couch. Hope I helped!

  30. QUESTION:
    Is there any such thing as too long? If so, why Prolong cream?
    My wife has been complaining a little that I take too long. I take good care of her in bed, so she finishes after a couple of hours, but I take longer. It wasn't a problem before we had a kid a year ago, then she'd just clear an afternoon for love making, but with a kid she can't do that and has commented that she wishes I would finish sooner sometimes. So last night I was putting away the groceries, and I ran across some cream stuff that is supposed to help a guy last longer. I brought it into the living room, kissed her on the neck and handed it to her, and she just said "Thanks," and set it asside. When I asked if we were taking it to bed, she laughed and said, "Hell no." It's not like she was trying to hide it from me, I mean, it was her idea I put away the groceries, and she just set the stuff on the coffee table. What's it for if not me? When I asked her who it was for, she just said, "No one." Any thoughts?

    • ANSWER:
      Too long? Never heard of it. And I have no idea who it was for, if she wants it quicker why would she buy that stuff? Things that make ya go hhhhhmmmmm.....

  31. QUESTION:
    hey guys can use some help.......?
    i want to last longer in bed with my girlfriend and i have been thinking about taken some sort of benzocaine cream (used in some condoms to numb your penis to last longer) but unsure what kinda cream i should get. any ideas on what i can use or is this a bad idea??

    • ANSWER:
      there are a variety of desensitizing creams available to slow down the penis during sexual activity. However, make sure the cream is applied to the head of the penis then put on a condom so as all the cream is fully covered. If you slop a bit around be sure to clean it off thoroughly before any sexual activity with another person. Those will prevent yoru partner in sex from also becoming desensitized.

      As for the type to use, do a little research as to what is avaialbe online or at local shops. Then buy one and try it several times when masturbating. That way you can guage how it affects your penis, learn how much to use to get the right effect, etc. Nothign like a little experimentation to find the right one and the right dose.

  32. QUESTION:
    little help please..........?
    want to last longer in bed with my girlfriend and i have been thinking about taken some sort of benzocaine cream (used in some condoms to numb your penis to last longer) but unsure what kinda cream i should get. any ideas on what i can use or is this a bad idea??

    • ANSWER:
      The problem with the cream is that it doesn't just work on you, it works on her as well, so she may not feel as much pleasure. I've use the condoms, but never the cream, and my fiancee doesn't like them. One thing that works is to stop yourself, but continue to stimulate her, while you "cool your jets." To be honest, I often think about sports, movies, or I focus on an MC Escher print I have on my wall, it distracts me enough to not think about my pleasure, but not so much that I stop her enjoyment.

      Another idea are "male kegels" tightening the muscles that control your penis (think of the muscle you use to stop peeing before you're actually done) hold the contractions for a long second and repeat 10 times. Do this 4-5 times a day. You can do it anytime, because no one knows you're doing it, so at your desk at work, sitting in traffic, etc. I've noticed a slight improvement, but I don't do them as often as I told you, mainly because its tough to remember. Another idea all together is to get her really ramped up beforehand, so it doesn't take as long for her to orgasm, so it will seem like you lasted longer. Good luck, but I'd steer clear of the cream.

  33. QUESTION:
    Is there something wrong with me?
    My boyfriend and I have been together for 15 months now and have a son together. Well since we first got together he has always had trouble lasting long in bed with me. He says he never had this problem before, he lasted longer in bed with his other relationships but I am the first girl he can't last long with. We have tried EVERYTHING, condoms, cream, etc. and nothing has worked. I am starting to feel like I am doing something wrong cause like I said I am the first girl he cannot last long with, Its starting to make me feel upset cause I just want it to go longer then it does..So is this a bad thing he can't last long with me?

    • ANSWER:
      In my opinion, the last longer in bed problem can be treated by ejaculation training. Ejaculation training is a natural and safest way to have sex last longer with no pills, no creams, no condom and no erection bands. Here are good articles about the truth of premature ejaculation treatment naturally and success stories. It's very useful for you.

      Don't worry!

  34. QUESTION:
    Sex question, help plz?
    Would numbing cream on a guys penis help him last longer in bed?

    • ANSWER:
      yes they sell it in pharmacy some condoms already have it in them as a lube

      curtdude

  35. QUESTION:
    How long should i stay in a tanning bed for if i dont have fair skin?
    I have pretty tan skin, but my face lost its color because I broke out and used drying cream to get rid of it. So my body is dark but my face isn't. I don't like spray tans because they look orange, are fake, and don't last long. I'm going to a tanning salon, so I can get a natural tan before school. BUT I only have time to go once. Questions: 1. How long should i stay in the bed for if my skin isn't fair. 2. Will one time make a difference in my face? If so...for how long?

    Thanks!!

    • ANSWER:

  36. QUESTION:
    can someone plz answer?
    ok im 16 and i have a thin penis :-/. ive had 3 girls tell me that already. i have a 6 1/2in penis and its 5in round.can someone just tell me how i can make my penis thicker. and also if there is a way i can make it longer to that would be good. i would be happy if i could get to 7 1/2in long and maybe avg thickness. maybe like 6-7 in thick if i can.
    don't give me websites that make me read all this dude stuff and then try to sell me pills or something. just tell me ways i can make my penis thicker at home without pills, creams, or a pump.

    and if you can tell me how i can last longer in bed that would be helpful. ive had sex acouple times before and im still a minute man :[. and dont tell me im to young to be having sex because i dont really care.

    and dont answer if your not going to answer my questions

    • ANSWER:
      Goku,
      Stop screwing bimbo tramps that would say hateful things like that.
      Otherwise, sorry dude, the equipment you have is what you got. The size you listed sounds perfectly fine. It is time for you to accept what you have as part of you and learn to love your parts. I'll bet you are tall, and fairly thin, right??? Is your equipment proportional, looks like it belongs on your body? I'll bet it is a perfect match to you.
      As for the minute man, slow and steady works well to "extend things". You might just be jumping in and thrusting away. You could also stop for a bit return to oral , and then go back in.
      You might have the girl get you off during foreplay as long as you can rebound fairly quickly. During "recovery" you can spend the time working on her.
      Lose the tramps. Learn to like yourself, and learn different and slower techniques.

  37. QUESTION:
    ok i need some help and dont just tell me theres not way because there are ways?
    ok im 16 and i have a thin penis :-/. ive had 3 girls tell me that already. i have a 6 1/2in penis and its 5in round.can someone just tell me how i can make my penis thicker. and also if there is a way i can make it longer to that would be good. i would be happy if i could get to 7 1/2in long and maybe avg thickness. maybe like 6-7 in thick if i can.
    dont give me websites that make me read all this dude stuff and then try to sell me pills or something. just tell me ways i can make my penis thicker at home without pills, creams, or a pump.

    and if you can tell me how i can last longer in bed that would be helpful. ive had sex acouple times before and im still a minute man :[. and dont tell me im to young to be having sex because i dont really care.

    • ANSWER:
      Don't go there man! These things sometime have unintended consequences and things could end up worse downstairs.

  38. QUESTION:
    Looking to overcome "performance" issues?
    I'm trying to find ways to last longer in bed.

    The new girl that I'm fooling around with is much tighter than my ex and I'm finding it hard to keep myself under control. My previous girlfriend had given birth within the last five years and was definitely less "snug" than my new one, but I never had an issue controlling myself with her. Now that I'm with a woman who has never had kids, I find myself finishing WAY before I want to. I want to please my new lover and learn to control myself again, but I'm finding it difficult to figure out where to start. I thought it would help if I kept a slower pace, but no luck. I've tried pulling out and trying to calm down, but then I only last about a minute before I have to pull out and calm down. I've even tried thinking of other things, which either works or I think too hard and "things" go soft. I swear, at this point, I think my new lover could make me finish simply by squeezing her muscles repeatedly! I would really like to correct this issue so that I can "finish" with or after her. Since she enjoys the penetration aspect of the act the most, finishing with her is extremely difficult for me.

    Has anyone else had this issue? Would a cock ring help? At least then I would be able to stay hard after I'm done, right? Also, has anyone else experienced an amazing difference in tightness when switching lovers?

    Any mental training ideas would be the best, since I would prefer to not utilize any artificial methods (toys, creams, medications, etc). But, since beggars can't be choosers, I will gladly accept any advise at all.

    Also, I'm in my early twenties, not new to being sexually active, and in somewhat-good physical shape. This is not a health issue, nor is it an issue of premature ejactulation...I simply get too excited and I'm unable to think of a feasible and discreet way to calm myself down.
    I had already brought myself to an orgasm twice that day, since I knew I was going to be seeing her. I thought that would help me out, but it did little to calm me down once I got in the middle of things.

    • ANSWER:
      Following are the amazing way to naturally and safely control premature ejaculation :-

      Use the “heart-rate” technique to put the brakes on premature ejaculation.
      A 4-step breathing technique you can use immediately to delay ejaculation.
      A simple muscle exercise you should practice 2 to 4 times a week to attain total ejaculation control.
      Masturbation exercises that re-wire your ejaculatory reflex to handle prolonged stimulation and intense sexual arousal so you have more staying power.
      4 sex techniques that improve your lasting power dramatically.
      10 clever tricks for instantly lasting longer in the bedroom – use them tonight.
      How to train the Glans (head of the penis) to handle intense stimulation...the hypersensitivity of the Glans is a major cause of PE.

  39. QUESTION:
    food poisoning have i got it how long does it last?
    back from tenerife on sat after spending 3 days in bed with upset stomach high fever was it food poisoning? week now and still suffering. been to hosp awaiting results.anyone ever had this from tenerife? been many times before never had anything like this thought i was dying.my son had it too only thing we ate the same was ice cream.Any ideas?

    • ANSWER:
      i saw this on tv when an ice cream company decided to ship the ice cream with a shipment of eggs from mexico. it turned out that the eggs contained salmonella and it spread to the ice cream. the people who ate the ice cream developed salmonella food poisoning, over 129 people were infected and 32 of them died. so i would go to the doctors immediately so you can find out what you have.

  40. QUESTION:
    If you know anything about Rabies please help me figure something out about me being bit last summer.?
    Ok, I was just wondering, because I got bit last summer by a dog in NYC. I'm sure it bit me because it was startled by my skateboard, and the fact that I was riding past it. I then got nervous and paranoid about it for my own good. I actually was only worried the first week or two. I realized... oh hey, it's just a dog, some random dog in the city. If the owner can walk it around the park and the owner looks normal (which she did, but unfortunately I did not receive any contact info from her... which kinda stinks because she was pretty hot...) but that's besides the point. Recently, in speaking ever since right before I went to bed last night, I felt as if I Was getting sick. Going back now, I have been having cases of sleep paralysis since even when I was 3, was my first one, but I have been having at least 1 per every 3 or four months, and sometimes up to 3 per month. I sleep in the supine position so that might explain why. I haven't been sick in a long time, but today, I have been feeling very congested and appear to have a fever, and a head ache, and I have been shivering quite a bit. Today I had very vivid dreams, and woke up twice during a 5 hour long nap, the first time twitching to wake up thinking I was falling into this very deep river, and the second time, suffering a very scary case of sleep paralysis. I remember my hood of my sweatshirt being too tight around my neck, and not being able to move. My mom had walked into the room soon after which was odd. She gave me cough drops for my sore throat. Also, some additional info, because I want to give who ever is reading all the info possible to give me a well rounded answer or at least an idea of what might be going on with me. I feel alright now, but I didn't eat too much today, (no cheese pizza, some Naked Green Machine Juice, Brown rice and vegetables, and soy ice cream) (I am vegan and have been for 2 years) but yea, that just about says everything about how I am feeling right now and all the info I can give. I know rabies can take up to two years to develop, and I don't really want to die just now... so I think I might as well find out what is going on. Maybe I'll feel fine tomorrow, so I could report any further updates in an additional detail on this question. Ok, let me know what you think, because I basically answered most of the question myself, but I need an outside opinion on it.

    • ANSWER:
      It isn't rabies or you would be dead and buried by now without treatment.

  41. QUESTION:
    Any solution to this problem?
    I last too long in bed, anywhere from 2-3 hours. No this is not a joke. And while it may seem this isn't a problem at all, my girlfriend finishes and is ready to quit long before I can, and I know she feels bad when she can't finish me. Erection is not the problem, as it stays firm the whole time. I would ideally like to keep sex to about an hour. Any lubes or creams that heighten sensitivity? We don't use condoms as we have been seeing each other exclusively for quite a while.

    • ANSWER:
      use different positions and see what grabs you the best. you could also use some baby oil on the knob of your unit to keep the skin fresh and remove dead skin cells.

      I've had that problem, too. I usually just get her her's and then finish by jerking. Or better yet, jerk to the point of shooting and ram it in her; if you get your body used to this, it'll just happen naturally.

  42. QUESTION:
    "Would you rather" sex question for the ladies...?
    An ongoing debate with my husband that I figured I could help him settle here....

    He is not able to last super long in bed. Just speaking about intercourse, from start to finish he is usually a minute or less. (We've been together for 11 years :)

    Now regarding other stuff he does to me, he is amazing. His oral skills are perfect, he knows my body and what I like. He can last doing other things until I've "finished" multiple times and never stops or complains until I do.

    I have told him that any girl would rather have a guy that didn't last long at intercourse but was amazing at everything else and he is still insecure about it. We have tried using creams and stuff but nothing has worked. I have just always taken it as a compliment that he is still so attracted to me:)

    So would you rather a guy that could last a long time at sex but lacked in the other areas or a guy who didn't last long at sex but could do everything else really good?

    • ANSWER:
      definitely a guy who doesn't last long at sex but could do everything else good because you can only have sex so many times in a day before it become sore (for both guy and girl) But hell if they can make you feel real good all day... bad sex it is!! (:

  43. QUESTION:
    Does being lactose intolerance cause's erectile dysfunction?
    A friend of mine is claiming the reason why he can't last that long in bed is because he is lactose intolerance and being lactose intolerance causes him to have E.D. I don't believe not even a little bit because he can still eat dairy but he said he can't drink milk or milkshakes so he ask me to look it up on the internet and I'm not finding what I'm looking for. So is it true that being lactose intolerance cause's erectile dysfunction? And why can he still eat dairy products but not milk milkshakes and ice cream?

    • ANSWER:
      Lactose-intolerance means that he lacks an enzyme needed to digest most dairy products; there are supplements (Lactaid) that he can take.
      Erectile Dysfunction, which is not the inability to last long, but, the inability to get an erection at all or long enough to ejaculate.
      He needs to work on his skill and pay more attention to pleasing his partner.
      His excuse is pretty lame. Good for you, for smelling a rat.
      He could always get a note from his diagnosing doctor proving the connection or take you with him to see the doctor who told him this.
      Or did he self-diagnose?
      God bless.

  44. QUESTION:
    Tanning help! I'm going to Cuba for a week?
    I am going to Cuba for march break and i have a few questions:

    1. will my tan from cuba last longer if i tan a few weeks in a tanning bed, before i go to cuba?

    2. is there a cream to help me tan quicker, last longer and help make me darker?

    3. and last question if there is a cream to help me ^^^^ do i apply that before or after sunscreen?

    thanks so much! I really wanna get nice and tan! :) :)

    • ANSWER:
      1. Yes, it will make your tan stay longer because you will already have a base tan so you will also tan quicker/ better :)
      2. When you go to the salon they'll have all types of lotions, I would recommend getting one with accelerators and/or bronzers, I personally like Australian gold :)
      3. Usually the lotions only work in beds because the sunscreen would pretty much cancel out any effect they would have.

  45. QUESTION:
    Do I have a problem? I can't remember at all what I did last night?
    Last night, after I put my daughter to sleep, i thought i went to sleep, I assumed I went to bed, because I really can't remember what happened after I put my daughter to bed. My boyfriend assured me that last night we stayed up, watched dane cook's "Viscious circle", and I ate ice cream. he said i was laughing, and repeating all the lines from the standup, but I literally don't remember any of it! I know he's not joking because he would never joke around about something like this for longer than a few minutes.Also, in the last 3 months, at night time, my boyfriend will be in the living room, staying up, and since I'm not a night person, I'll be sleeping in the bedroom. He has told me about how I would go into the kitchen in the middle of the night, and take drinks of whatever was in the fridge. That includes things that are gross to me, like milk and beer. I've done this about 8 or 9 nights over those 3 months. I wonder if the drinking random things at night and not remembering any of last night are similar in some way. If there is a problem with me, I don't know what it would be, but does anyone know what might be wrong with me?
    Also, I was never drunk when any of this stuff happened. I only drink like once every few months so thats definitely not the reason these things are happening.
    Thanks, David Moore. I think I might have the same problem as your wife, because I'm 21, and I left this out before, but over the last 6 months, in the middle of the night, I've been asking my boyfriend to have sex, he would tell me what I said the next day, and I would have no recollection of what I had asked him. So, maybe sex is the solution for me too :)

    • ANSWER:
      Yes I too had the same problem. I asked my boyfriend if he could show me proof but its kinda hard because then he would have to record all the time. So I went to the doctor also and he said that I needed the strongest drug out there, so to myself I'm thinking morphine or vik but he looked at me and my boy friend with a smile and said "SEX" and lots of it. He said that's the only precrisption that would work. He said i need it at least 3-5 times per week for 2 months to get it out of me. Now six months later i don't have anymore problems. My doctor told me that i am only the 3rd person in 30 years that has xome to him with this problem. So have lots of sex girl and it will be done.

      P.S. no masterbating it wont help it just adds fuel to the fire. Only a penis can cure this. Hope it works out for u.

  46. QUESTION:
    Any ideas what this dream could mean?
    Okay, well. It was a bit weird..

    I dreamt about the grim reaper and these random people in hospital beds. The people weren't recognisable..
    There were like these white and red flashes of light, and each time there was a new frame..really strange, and the grim reaper was lowering his scythe(sp?) over this bed.

    Even weirder, you know those advertisements you have at the sides of rodes? Well, behind each bed there was one of those, and before he stood by the beds and lowered his scythe he was on this, which had a deep blood red background, and sometimes he was in a Roman soldier kind of suit.

    The last bed I remember best, it wasn't like a hospital bed..it was like a normal double bed with white/cream coloured sheets etc. There was a man and woman in it both wearing oxygen masks, there was a machine with a long tube going into the mans mask. And the woman woke up and plugged it into her own mask.

    The reaper didn't come...my Dad woke me up.

    ...Have fun. =P
    The billboards were blank except for the red background and the reaper.

    • ANSWER:
      Hm. Well, when Death appears in a dream, it's not generally a symbol of actual death, but of transformation, of things like allowing old beliefs to die in favor of new ones, and initiation from one phase of life, or one level of maturity to a new one. Did you happen to notice what was written on the billboards at each bed? I would be ready to guess that each person in each bed probably has to do with a belief or quality that you are ready to shed. (Parts of your spirit that are "sick" so to speak) That Death comes in as a symbol, to relieve you of each belief that is doing you no good, so you can move on to a higher level. At the times that Death sheds his usual appearance and dons armor instead, the term "Spiritual warfare" comes to mind. Perhaps a portion of your self that is "warring" over whether to keep a particular belief or not. I find the last image rather intriquing, that it depicts male and female energies together, and also find it intriguing that the female seems to be "stealing" the stuff of life from the male energy. I think that this may simply be that we all, regardless of what gender we are, have qualities of both genders, and seek to balance them. It may be that you are having a struggle between your yin and yang energies, and they are seeking to balance out at this time.

  47. QUESTION:
    How long will my laptop last in this condition?
    ok, well in terms of software, my laptop is virus free, runs programs quickly and in up to date on windows software... However, in terms of the physical condition... there are a few problems (my friend said she would have never known cause my laptop look brand new) but, four keys don't work (left ctrl, tab, f3, and f4), and four others came off and I had to glue them back on with crazy glue (this was all because my sister spilled ice cream on the edge of the laptop and decided that I should find out before she told me)... the battery life lasts only about 5 minutes before it shuts off (thanks to my mom) and there's also a problem with overheating (I keep the battery out as much as possible and I am planning on getting new battery soon, I'm just afraid that I'll get it and this thing just gives out), the screen is a bit wobbly and the part where the charger plugs in is a little loose because it fell off the dresser once and landed on the cord. (I tripped over the wire -_-... it still works though)

    other than those things I have no problem with this laptop and I'm actually surprised it had lasted over two years.... I also have only received the "blue screen" once, but that was cause I tossed my laptop on the bed and by accident it landed too hard, but haven't seen it since then...

    I'm afraid my poor laptop is going to like give out soon because of these physical problems... =/

    I clean it every 5 days (with the power off) and run weekly scans. I shut it down properly all the time and update my software regularly. I handle it with great care now and it seems to be doing great, but I'm always afraid it might just explode or never turn on again (I'm a college student and I need this thing...=/)

    what do you guys and girls think, how long can I possibly make this thing last?

    btw its a compaq presario cq60, 2Gigs of ram, 232 gigs of space

    • ANSWER:
      Hey there.

      I hate being the bearer of bad news, but honestly in that condition, it won't last long. The biggest issue I see is that your power jack is loose. What will happen is every time you plug that AC adapter in, you weaken it further. There's only a tiny bit of solder that holds that on, and eventually it will break. Unfortunately, most of the time, the costs to repair that sort of issue cost more than a new notebook itself (where I used to work at, it was between 0-260+). Honestly, it may be best to go ahead and replace it, because honestly, for all the repairs necessary to get it back to 100%, your looking at costs near or above a new notebook. Again, I'm sorry to make your fears a reality, but I used to work in a PC shop, and we saw machines like that everyday, and especially in cases like this, replacement is just the better option due to cost. Sorry :(

  48. QUESTION:
    How long can exzema last?
    I really want to know. I have 2 patches under my eyes and 2 on my chin. It's so embarrassing and I hate going to school because I feel like everybody is looking at me. I went to the doctor and he said it was impetigo. He gave me medicane and it didn't get any better. So he sent me to a dermatologist. She gave me a tropical cream for fungel. I applied it right b4 I went to bed I woke up in the morning and it's worst! Now she says its exzema and I looked up all of the symptoms and it seems like that's what I have. (I have fair skin so I am more prone to it) but I really want to know how long it takes for exzema to go away and if there are any ways to make it go away even faster.

    • ANSWER:
      my sister has it and the cream they gave her makes it so she does not have very many outbreaks but as far as i know she will have it forever, she has already had it like 9 years and it does not bother her most of the time but every now and then it gets bad

  49. QUESTION:
    is liquid/cream foundation causing my face to be oily?
    I've had a problem with having an oily face for a long time. but i just recently bought a face moisturizer to control the oil, and it works! BUT...i put some moisturizer on last night before bed, and my face wasnt oily in the morning. and i put some on before i put makeup on, but within a couple hours, my face was oily again. I use liquid cover up. do you think it causes my face to produce oil? my face was just fine till i put it on. Im using Maybellines Dream Mousse, and i've used Revlon Colorstay liquid....do these clog pores and cause oil? what makeup can i use that wont cause oiliness?

    • ANSWER:
      well you really want to use a matte foundation that keeps you shine free, and heres a tip that I learned when putting on foundation if you have oily skin, never put on foundation with your fingers becuase they are oily and therefore will make you face oily so just use a foundation brush.

  50. QUESTION:
    Help i need your beauty tips to help me out?
    Hi,I need some got some issues that i need your beatuy tips to help me out! First i have some dark circles around my eyes I want to know how can i reduce them or cover them up with what kind of makeup? and what can i do to reduce them? I have hazel green eyes, I want to make them "POP"! How do u appy eye makeup to make smoky eyes? and what do you use? I need tanning tips! I have really fair skin i tired so hard last summer to get a natural tan from the sun and it didn't work all i did was got a bad sun burn. Now i want to try to go to a salon and go and get a tan from a tanning bed. How long should i stay in there and how many times should i do it to get a natural tan? I need help with my acne i have minor acnce on my face whats the best cream to use that really works and if it worked for you and what to use if that drys out my face? I now use oxy pads which only cleans my face not help my acnce. I have minor streatch marks on my butt what can i use to get rid of them?
    Thanks so much

    • ANSWER:
      Go to youravon.com/jbaltazar & go to the BEAUTY TIPS.


Indian Home Remedies For Premature Ejaculation

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Mal Absorption Syndrome Treatment In India

Mal Absorption Syndrome

Protein, fats, and carbohydrates (macronutrients) normally are absorbed in the small intestine; the small bowel also absorbs about 80% of the eight to ten liters of fluid ingested daily. There are many different conditions that affect fluid and nutrient absorption by the intestine. A fault in the digestive process may result from failure of the body to produce the enzymes needed to digest certain foods...

Causes and symptoms

Protein, fats, and carbohydrates (macronutrients) normally are absorbed in the small intestine; the small bowel also absorbs about 80% of the eight to ten liters of fluid ingested daily. There are many different conditions that affect fluid and nutrient absorption by the intestine....

Diagnosing Malabsorption

Various tests are available to diagnose malabsorption : -

  • Stool examination : - People suffering from malabsorption often have high fat content in their stools. Also, stools provide evidence of undigested food.
  • Absorption tests : - Blood tests measuring various levels of nutrients are taken to determine whether absorption is taking place. In general, various levels of specific substances such as glucose in the blood increase after eating if proper digestion and absorption occur....

Risk factors

Risk factors for malabsorption syndrome include : -

  • premature birth
  • family history of malabsorption or cystic fibrosis
  • use of certain drugs, such as mineral oil or other laxatives
  • travel to foreign countries...

The most common symptoms of malabsorption include : -

  • Anemia, with weakness and fatigue due to inadequate absorption of vitamin B12, iron, and folic acid
  • Diarrhea, steatorrhea (excessive amount of fat in the stool), and abdominal distention with cramps, bloating, and gas due to impaired water and carbohydrate absorption, and irritation from unabsorbed fatty acids. The individual may also report explosive diarrhea with greasy, foul-smelling stools...

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Indian Herbs For Premature Ejaculation

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The be short of of desire to have sexual category is also identified as female sexual dysfunction or FSD. Theoretically, it is referred to as HSSD or hypoactive sexual need disorder.

This is common among women who are in their 30's and above. The not have of desire but may be caused by a quantity of factors similar to low libido, discomfort during sex, inability to achieve orgasm or the summary stream of blood to the vagina.

In the middle of the bad things of having female sexual dysfunction or FSD is that the human being who was affected can suffer from touching drain. It can also bring negativity on the person's trait and produce a low quality life. This is the motive why it be supposed to be address and ought to not at all be ignored.

The female sexual dysfunction or FSD second-hand to be treating by means of male sexual dysfunction medicines. However, it did not get the preferred result. What's worse is that since they were not designed for women, these medicines sometimes would even lower the female libido.

Herbs for Female Sexual Dysfunction

Tinospora Cordifolia -

Also known as Indian Tinospora, this amazing herb enhances women's immunity. Enchanting this would certainly make a woman physically powerful and full with energy and boost her appetite for bodily activities.

Myristica Fragrans -

Oftentimes referred to as Mace, this herb boosts sexual vigor, enhances sensitivity in the vaginal area and helps extend a woman's strength for sexual activity.
Withania Somnifera -

Also known as Ashwagandha, this herb is considered to be the most potent aphrodisiac in Ayurvedic medicine. It is oftentimes called as "Ayurveda's answer to Viagr."

Allium Cepa -

Another term for onion, it helps promote healthy digestion. Many studies support the positive effects onion has on women's sex glands.

Glycyrrhiza Glabra -

As well referred to as Licorice, this exacting herb has been utilized for centuries to fight ulcer. In addition, this herb has the authority to enhance liver function and does wonders to delay the aging process.

Dong Quai and Saw palmetto-

You should also take evening primrose oil.
The three supplements above are great for all round women's health and also have an influence on women's sexual wellness as well.

Throw in a number of usual exercises and if you are usually fit and healthy, watch libido and overall sexual wellness boost.

Serotonin levels don't overdo them-

Cigarettes, coffee and starch produce it. While we require serotonin as it helps us feel alert, help us deal with strain etc - it is not a relaxant and consequently you can feel to hyper for sex.

Exercise

Sitting in the cross-

Legged position, draws one foot to the vagina, and presses the vaginal opening with the heel of the foot. If you cannot do this, get a small rubber ball, and rest this next the vaginal cavity and your heel to the ball. Press firmly, but not so it's painful. You will almost immediately find this heaviness (especially if you achieve it with the heel of your foot) is release sexual power, with a big feeling of sexual motivation.

Breast Stimulation-

Now with both hands (laid flat) on your breasts, massage each breast (with the flat of the hand) is a circular motion; clockwise for the left breast and counterclockwise for the right breast. You may desire to be relevant some talc to your hand as not to reason skin annoyance does this rub for 360 massage revolutions? Discontinue and feel the wonderful tingling sensation of power and blood flow to the breast region.

The Inflow of Vital Energy-

With one hand massaging either breast (and you can alternate with each breast), the other hand is used to press firmly the vaginal opening.

At the same time, contract the strength of your vagina and anus (the same muscles "kegels") you would make use of to hold your urine, in first a weak, then mild, then physically powerful contraction. Hold the physically powerful contraction as extended as you can.